Last summer I played for a traveling softball team. My team had only lost one game, but if we lost one more we were done and couldn’t play anymore. The next day my team had a double header. If we won the first game we would go to the championships. We won the first game and my team was so happy to go to the championships,but we lost the championship. My team was devastated and everyone was so mad and had a bad sportsmanship. I told everyone it's fine and we tried our hardest but know one would talk at all. So what I am basically trying to say is that I Believe that winning is good and fun, but it's also good to lose because it teaches you what to work on and to work harder next time.
Today many parents believe that all children should get a trophy. Do you agree with those parents? I don't know about you but I disagree with those parents. I believe that only certain children should get trophies. If every kid knows that they're gonna get a trophy then they won't work as hard as they should, but if kids know that only a certain amount of kids will get a trophy they will work harder and achieve more goals. Ashley Merryman states that when extracurricular activities start and you go to sign your child up ask the program organizers “ Which kids get awards?” If the answer is, “Everybody gets a trophy,” find another program.
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For example the little league that’s in my town gives everybody a trophy at the end of the year. I don't agree with that because everybody doesn’t work as hard as they should and they get a trophy for not working their hardest. I also believe that children who are on a baseball/softball at the age of 5 to 9, the whole team should get a trophy. If there in the age range from 10 and up only certain amount of people should get
Therefore, There are many reasons that everyone should not get a trophy. For example, in the article “Should Everyone Get a Trophy?” by Lauren Tarshis she states that “The problem is that people are getting trophies for simple things”(27). Some people are just getting trophies for just showing up. Also Lauren states
Trophies for all convey an inaccurate and potentially dangerous life message for kids. It would be pointless if every kid got a reward for something they did not work for, and for kids to just come to games and meets to not do anything and get a reward. It is unfair to the kids that deserve it, but as Berden says, “WE are all winners.” This message is repeated at the end of each sports season, year after year, and is only reinforced by the collection of trophies that continue to pile up. “We begin to expect awards and praise for just showing up to class, practice, after school jobs leaving woefully unprepared is a winner as Berden says.”
Trophies should be there to inspire kids to do their best and not just expect a reward, whether they win or
Participation trophies send a dangerous message. I have many trophies,but i worked hard for these trophies. Everyone on my team deserves my team. For the people who think giving out the same award at the end of the year to all the children; i am sorry to inform you that your hurting the child more than not giving the child the trophy at all. Children need to know the importance of working hard than someone else. In life you do not make the same amount as your boss makes just because you show up on time everyday. Why would the kids who just show up to practice everyday vs the kids the more elite kids get the same reward. Life does not work like that.
Really all the trophies should go to the kids that actually do all the work. They should not just give the trophies to the kids that do nothing. Kids should not just get a trophy for just showing up and sitting on the bench the whole
Finally, kids that are given participation trophies are given the wrong idea. Fifty-seven percent of people said "only winners" deserve to have participation trophies, giving out participation trophies is tantamount to giving kids the wrong praise, and giving kids with bad attitudes and not a care in the world is not a good idea. These kids need to realize that they need
Do you remember what it was once like to win a trophy? Those huge, golden statues that resembled an accomplishment that you completed? How happy you were when you received your very own trophy too? Everyone should be able to recall when you were once rewarded for any outstanding achievement that they've done. What if I told you, however, that the trophy you received when you were a child wasn't so special? That it was, in fact, a participation trophy, and every other child got one. Would it be so special now? That's the problem that kids are facing now with participation trophy's, due to its lack of being "one of a kind". I believe that because of its lack of being unique, a participation trophy shouldn't be required to be given out at our
Do we give children too many trophies? According to Bob cook a sports father of four, “when it comes to participation trophies in my experience kids know the score.” Therefore at the end of the day, a trophy for involvement is a gift, and children are aware. Based on the facts and anecdotal evidence we are not giving children too many trophies. These pieces of plastic are a source of memorabilia. In addition, the trophy does not reflect the kid’s attitude towards hard work.
In an age where everyone is expected to be recognized, there must be an understanding that the world does not progress by congratulating the “average.” I believe that giving participation trophies makes people stop competing; especially if the trophies are given at a very early age. For example, a team of small children have a terrible baseball season, but it’s okay! Because the coach gives out trophies to everyone. This in turn only teaches the child that no matter how bad life gets, they will always be rewarded. Participation trophies create future generations of entitled adults as seen by today’s generation. We need to reward kids that work hard for what they do for the sake of risk and reward. That is simply how progress is made in society. Yet I agree with one point made by the opposing side. I believe that participation should be recognized sometimes. Participation can teach kids that teamwork matters in every little aspect of society. Participation trophies should be eliminated but participation should still merely just be recognized with a pat on the back as said by Betty Berdan, a high school junior from Connecticut. Participation trophies overall hinder the growing and learning process of kids; whether it is through sports, or any other competitive involvement.
Reason-Rupe poll, 43 percent of Americans believe that every child should receive a trophy for participation, but the numbers drop with income, education, and age. Although participation trophies can cause unrealistic expectations in children, these trophies raise self-esteem and build a work ethic.
Should everyone get a trophy? I do not think that youth sports athletes should receive participation trophies at all. Many people believe it is worth a buck to give a child a smile but, I do not. I do not think everyone should receive a trophy because it waste good money from the organization. If children just receive trophies for trying their hardest they are not going to try any harder the next year and their best may not be good enough. On the other hand coaches and parents believe that youth athletes should be rewarded for their hard work. Participation trophies are unnecessary because youth athletes play to win not just to receive a trophy they didn’t earn.
Should every kid get a trophy? Well, I think not every kid should get a trophy. That is because they need to learn you are a winner sometimes and sometimes you are a loser.
All across America, you see the topic of “Should children be receiving participation trophies” being brought up. The idea that all kids should get some reward for being a part of the game and helping it grow. To some, it seems like an excellent idea, but to others not as much. For example, NFL linebacker James Harrison took his children 's participation trophies and gave them back to their coaches saying "EARN a real trophy." Other parents believe that their children deserve to be praised and want them to feel good for doing something they have worked hard. So which side is correct? Should we give our kids these trophies or not?
First, some kids might participate more than others, so it is not fair if everyone gets the same trophy. In the article "Should Kids Get A Trophy For Showing Up" by NPR Ed, Corey Turner said that a mother stated that "her daughter had a very bad attitude and rarely showed up for practice, but she still got a trophy. " It is not fair for a child to get the same trophy when they have not done anything to receive it. However, instead of the kids getting a "participation" trophy, the coaches of the team could come up with an individual award for each person. For example, someone who has shown up the whole time and worked very hard could get an outstanding player award, and someone who did not show up every time and did not work as hard, but they were funny could get the funniest award.
Should only reward the best, the kids that do stuff and try's hard at school, games. The people that doesn’t try their hardest should not get a trophy. I feel like they are wasting their time and money on getting these things for kids. If kids got trophies for doing the most simple things like washing the dishes and taking a bath, then all the kids would not even have a purpose for one of their trophies or all their trophies. And all the kids go to games or practice and doesn’t even do any anything or sits on the bench and they still get a trophy. But at other things is trophies are good because you can put a smile on some kids' faces and make them feel special. There are many reasons to support those that people / couches should not just