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Neverland is a paradise in Barrie’s story, in which children will able to fly and never grow up. A lot of fantasy creatures like fairies and mermaids that every girl has dreamed of are living in there. Boys, on the other hand, can experience the adventure with Native Americans and pirates. Peter Pan, as the earliest and the captain of lost boys, is adored by generations. However, later in twenty century, Dr. Dan Kiley interpreted Peter Pan in a different way. His book, The Peter Pan Syndrome: Men Who Have Never Grown Up, which was published in 1983 has categorized the characteristics of Peter Pan and detailedly discussed the psychological situation that an adult is socially immature. He named this condition the Peter Pan syndrome. And later sections in the book, several treatments were given to cure this syndrome.
According to Kiley, that the symptoms of the peter pan syndrome could be classified into 6 aspects, which are irresponsibility, anxiety, lonely, gender role conflict, narcissism and machismo, and pirate lifestyle (Kiley 26). These terms do summary the symptoms, …show more content…

For example, men should be tough and strong otherwise they will be mocked by their fellows. Women, on the other hand, should be compliant and fully supportive to make men’s lives easier. In chapter 3, Wendy at the first place set a role to Peter as her loved partner, but Peter’s ambiguous reply made Wendy thought that he would be her man (Barrie 25). In the drama version, Wendy even asked that if the lost boys want her to be the mother, Peter Pan then should be the father. In chapter 10, John indicated that Peter Pan did not know how to be a father. Peter Pan admitted that he wants to be a child with a mother no matter “she” is Wendy or Tiger Lily (Barrie 78). Even nowadays, with the blooming movements of LGBT and Feminism, tomboy or fag are still used to insult the one who violates the gender

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