Chrystal Robinson
Professor Iris Lancaster
English 1302
21 June 2013
Polygamy is Wrong
Some of the most influential and respected individuals in history had open marriages. Although research shows that open marriages create significant complications, couples who are non-monogamous believe it is essential for a successful marriage. But whatever the situation, an open marriage is not acceptable in society. There are explanations to why it is imperative that couples remain monogamous in their relationship. Polygamy is undignified, it is illegal in the United States, it is dangerous and it affects the welfare of the children involved physically and emotionally.
Marriage in the United States is a contract between one man and one woman
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Finally, polygamy is wrong because it affects the children involved tremendously. In Polygamy and Mental Health of Adolescents, authors Sami Hamdan, Judy Auerbach, and Alan Apter exam the effects of polygamy and suggests that the family structure has a substantial impact on the mental health of children. It states, “Several studies found that compared to their counterparts living in intact families with both biological parents, children from nontraditional family structures exhibited more aggressive and antisocial behaviors, conduct disorders, communication difficulties, and adjustment, problems. They also had a poor self-concept and higher rates of school attrition, sexual activity, drug abuse, and alcoholism”. (Hamdan, Auerbach, Apter 756) Children from polygamous families tend to have greater problems than the children from monogamous families. Show more
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Polygamy is merely an excuse for getting away with behaving self-indulgently and recklessly. It is a temporary escape for couples who no longer want to endure the hardships of marriage and no longer desire to put an effort into making the relationship work. It destroys the intimacy and trust between a man and a woman. The truth is couples need to think of the consequences open
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Everyone wants that special someone with whom they will spend the rest of their life. That someone who will help raise a family and instill great values in their children. But what happens when that person takes more than one spouse? What if they as children with more than one partner? This practice is called polygamy and, by all standards, should be illegal.
I believe that the author did an effective job in not having any bias towards one side or the other on this subject. The author did not paint the polygamists as positive or negative, which is what a great journalist should do-show no bias or leanings. Overall, I think this article is very credible and gives the best insight that a news outlet could on the topic of polygamy. I do support this article and I plan to use it within my research for my project. I believe this because the article is free of any bias thoughts and gives the clear facts for what I am needing on this
Despite the argument that polygamist lifestyles are easier, polygamy has proven time and time again, to be a terrible lifestyle that has been dolled up to look like something that it is not. Polygamist families are often unable to meet their basic needs, “In spite of our poverty, my husband continued to marry other wives. I almost died from typhoid fever and my first baby died” (Spencer 1). The health and well-being is the last thing on the mind of a husband living in polygamy because he is constantly wanting more for himself. All of the sister wives are so in love with their husband, what they do not know is that he does not really love them, if he did he would
Polygamy is the case in which a man or a woman has multiple spouses. One branch of polygamy is termed “polygyny”, which is when “one man is married to several wives” (Zeitzen 3).
In The Sun Also Rises the past event World War I negatively affects Jake and his fellow expatriates, causing their motivation in life to vanish, leaving them to find solace in bullfighting, travel and alcohol. Jake and his friends feel aimless in life, they do not feel strongly about many things except for the magnificent tradition of bullfighting. Bullfighters within the novel are seen as people who “‘live their lives all the way up’”(18). These famous individuals receive anything they so please.
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Polygamy refers to marriage in which there is more than one spouse(poly means many, and gamy means marriage),
In this article, writer provides both advantages and disadvantages about open marriage. She deeply analyze the possible problems will emerge during an open marriage. General public believe monogamy is a core value was demonstrated by the writer.
Could you imagine living in a world where it is acceptable for a man to marry more than one woman and be open about it? Not many can and that is why the practice of polygamy such is seen as taboo. The families usually live very private lives and they do not interact with a lot of the rest of America due to anti-bigamy society we live in. Polygamy is the practice of being married to more than one person at the same time (Webster 2015). This is not to be confused with an open relationship or an open marriage. This topic has been viewed and deemed as controversial for many years. As a practice that was not accepted in the public eye, it recently has gained more attention with mainstream media and culture. With shows on television such as “Sister
Polygamy is often not a choice women or men have to participate in. They are often forced to participate against their will. Women will be punished if they do not obey what their husband has them do. Also, they will be punished if they refuse to get married to the man chosen for them.
According to a 2012 study, monogamy has a crucial advantage over polygyny: “the more egalitarian distribution of women, which reduces male competition and social problems”. Not only does it reduce male competition and social problems between individuals, but monogamous marriage also “results in significant improvements in child welfare, including lower rates of neglect, abuse, accidental death, homicide and intra-household conflict” (Friedersdorf, 2015). By shifting male efforts from seeking wives to paternal investment, systematised monogamy increases long-term planning, economic productivity, savings and child investment. Nonetheless, when a high-status man takes two wives, a lower-status man gets no wife. If the high-status man takes three wives, two lower-status men get no wives. This “competitive, zero-dynamic sets off a competition among high-status men in who’s going to get the most wives” (Friedersdorf, 2015), which leaves lower-status men out in the cold. Those men, denied access to life’s most stabilising and civilising institution, are fairly disadvantaged and often turn to behaviours like crime and violence. Thus, polygamy should not be legalised as it creates tension and competition between
Marriage is a social institution that is practiced globally. Traditionally marriages are known to occur between one man and one woman. However, cultural values and time have reshaped and birthed new types of marriages. Polygamy is a type of marriage that is often practiced around the world specifically in Asia, Middle East, and Africa. Polyamorous marriages have been in existence for centuries. Polygamy is classified into two categories, polygyny, and polyandry. Polygyny is the most popular type of polygamy, in this type of polygamous marriage, a man is married to multiple women. On the other hand, polyandry which is the least familiar type of polygamy is where a woman is married to multiple husbands. The intolerance of Mormons in the United States has led to the outlawing of polyamorous marriages. The Morrill Anti Bigamy law of 1862 outlawed the practice of polygamy in the United States. Like many other laws, this law can be overturned. In fact, it should be reversed because illegalizing polygamy is unethical. Polygamy should be legalized because it is unconstitutional for it to be illegal, same-sex marriages and interracial marriages are legal, therefore so should polyamorous marriages. In addition, legalizing polygamy would prevent immigrant families who practice polygamy from being separated and it would also strengthen the feminist movement.
Polygamy is the “practice whereby a person is married to more than one spouse at the same time” (Zeitzen 2008, 3)
In industrialized societies, it is something that has been made illegal, and is considered deviant. When most people think of polygamy they think of polygyny, the marriage of one man with multiple wives, and endless children. Here in the United States the most common occurrence of polygamy was in the 1800s, through the Mormon religion, and more specifically the Church of Jesus Christ and the Latter-Day Saints. Through the reading of the Bible, the leader of the Latter-Day Saints church, Joseph Smith, had revelations that encouraged him take a second wife as many of the members of the Old Testament had done. The rest of the United States reacted negatively to polygamy and Congress passed several laws prohibited polygamy. However, Mormons continued to practice polygamy despite these laws because they believed it was within their right to do so based on the Bill of Rights which protected freedom of religion (Embry 2016).