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Programmed Adults Essay

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All your life you hear “go to school, get a degree so that you can get a good job!” Growing up you become programmed into believing that there is one path to follow, and eventually you start to believe it. You go to school for 13 years, and then apply and wish as hard as you can that you’ll get into wherever just so you can go to school for at minimum another 4 years because that’s just how it’s meant to be, right?
Thirteen years of programmed adults trying to lead you on the same path they followed because that is how the system is set up to be. The system breaks you, they don’t teach you to be creative or to think for yourself. You’re taught to not question authority, you’re taught a system whether it works for you or not. You are not …show more content…

My mother, an educator, and my father, a very successful business man, importuned an image of my future and set a standard on which I either followed or had some very important and hard choices to make. My typical day consists of either going to school, doing homework or just being a homebody. I don’t live an exciting life due to limitations that have been set out for me, and sometimes I push the limits because I’m tired of being what everyone expects. I was always taught to follow the path and was scared to stray until now. The “chains” that have always bound me no longer make me feel limited. I’ve always considered myself independent but now as adulthood is truly closing in, I’ve decided to change my life. I will continue my education and finish, but I have chosen to move out of state once I finish my 60 hours at TCC and take off a year to work and acquire in-state privileges. I’ve also considered a change in major even though it’s not what my family may approve of. I’m no longer afraid to be who I am whatever the consequences may be, I’m ready to live my life whether I have to do this on my own or not. I don’t want to be what they want me to be, and I refuse to be anything less than the happiest version of myself.
That’s the system that should be taught and encouraged, the success rate would probably skyrocket. Moving away and going to school has definitely broken the chains that not too long ago seemed

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