All your life you hear “go to school, get a degree so that you can get a good job!” Growing up you become programmed into believing that there is one path to follow, and eventually you start to believe it. You go to school for 13 years, and then apply and wish as hard as you can that you’ll get into wherever just so you can go to school for at minimum another 4 years because that’s just how it’s meant to be, right?
Thirteen years of programmed adults trying to lead you on the same path they followed because that is how the system is set up to be. The system breaks you, they don’t teach you to be creative or to think for yourself. You’re taught to not question authority, you’re taught a system whether it works for you or not. You are not
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My mother, an educator, and my father, a very successful business man, importuned an image of my future and set a standard on which I either followed or had some very important and hard choices to make. My typical day consists of either going to school, doing homework or just being a homebody. I don’t live an exciting life due to limitations that have been set out for me, and sometimes I push the limits because I’m tired of being what everyone expects. I was always taught to follow the path and was scared to stray until now. The “chains” that have always bound me no longer make me feel limited. I’ve always considered myself independent but now as adulthood is truly closing in, I’ve decided to change my life. I will continue my education and finish, but I have chosen to move out of state once I finish my 60 hours at TCC and take off a year to work and acquire in-state privileges. I’ve also considered a change in major even though it’s not what my family may approve of. I’m no longer afraid to be who I am whatever the consequences may be, I’m ready to live my life whether I have to do this on my own or not. I don’t want to be what they want me to be, and I refuse to be anything less than the happiest version of myself.
That’s the system that should be taught and encouraged, the success rate would probably skyrocket. Moving away and going to school has definitely broken the chains that not too long ago seemed
In the essay “Are Too Many People Going to College,” writer Charles Murray explains that not everyone is in need of going to college for three main reasons: a liberal education should be gained in elementary and middle school, many people already have knowledge and skills necessary for a technical career, and many students are in college to “buy an admission ticket-the B.A.” (246) and ensure employers consider their resume. Murray does not argue anything against college itself but more against society and especially the education system. Murray also accuses guidance counselors and parents of “automatically encouraging young people to go to college straight out of high school being thoughtless about the best interests of young people” (249).
When it comes to achieving success in the work force and finding a fulfilling and lucrative career there are few things more important that higher education. Going to college and getting a degree is essential in finding success in the work force. The problem is when the cost of gaining that degree outweighs the financial compensation the career that follows is able to supply. Very few people are able to pay for college out of pocket. The result of this is that students seeking higher education are forced to take out massive student loans. This means that they are entering the work force
Our lives aren’t granted to last us forever. We grow old and were all given a certain amount of time. We live in such a beautiful world, giving us so much to offer. For example; having mountains to climb, rivers to swim in, cities to explore but people don’t acknowledge the beauty of their surroundings. I don’t understand why society would settle in one spot when there so much to see. I want to travel the world and see the different cultures and environments this world has created. I got the chance to visit Utah this past summer and it made me realize that Utah might be the state where I want to continue school. It will be a drastic change in my life, but I have come to realize that change doesn’t always have to be necessarily bad, but for the better. I have watched my mom change her whole life around from working at a liquor store to now working for the city of Riverside. She has inspired me to go out and do what my heart desires. My mom continues encouraging me to pursue my dream job of being a fashion designer. There’s so many careers that interest me that I wish I could major all
In a society where money is a survival need, who would not want to earn more and have nice things. Instead of living paycheck to paycheck or on financial assistance. This is why most teens focus on their schooling early on so they can be admitted into the college they want. There are different career paths to choose from once high school is over. In high school, teachers and counselors are trying to prepare and make their students well aware of their options. Four year universities might not be for everyone, personal goals and interests influence the path students take. Education is seen as an investment, in hopes that one day the degree will pay off once the person gets their dream job. But the fact is that tuition and fees make it something
As I reflect back on my childhood, I can not give credit to just one person that influenced the woman that I am today. In fact, there are three women who have had a profound impact on my life. For as long as I can remember, my grandmother, my aunt, and my mother have taught me two very important lesson to frame my life - (1) how to have beauty, brains, and independence, and (2) if you dream it, you can achieve it.
His skilled laboring values influenced my father to work with his hands as a hobby, not as a vocation. My father seems to possess both the values of education and skilled work. On the other hand, my mother’s parents did not encourage higher education. My mother stated, “In the 1950’s and 60’s, women were not expected to attend college”. Although this was a strong value for society at that time, my mother encouraged education on her children. My mother’s talent in sewing and entrepreneurship from the family-owned hardware store influenced her to start a wedding apparel business.
Growing up, my parents were my environment. They made sure I made good decisions and tried my best, just as parents are supposed to do. Even though my mother taught me many important lessons, I’d have to say that my father showed me how to handle fear, and that has been the lesson that has shaped me the most in my life.
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It's 2016 and millions of high schoolers across the country are trying to find a good four-year college that they will eventually go to go get their college diploma. The notion that they have been taught is to go get a four-year diploma so they can prosper from which isn't even promised. This notion has been here for ages. But the real question is why is it and is this notion even true. Do you only prosper in life if you have a four-year college degree? Can you really make it in what we call "the real world" without getting a four-year degree?
Bernie Sanders once said “The cost of education today is so high that many young people are giving up their dream of going to college, while many others are graduating deeply in debt.” nothing is guaranteed, millions of people go to college with hopes to find a successful career that they can enjoy. But not all of those students get what they want majority of the time there left deeply in debt and the classes they paid to enroll in don’t interest them so they are stuck with a career they don't enjoy. Another scenario that's similar to that is finishing class you paid for and knowing what career you want but the jobs are full therefore making it a struggle to get hired. College is a gamble that will either leave you in the gutters or it will set you up on a better route to pursue your dreams.
Figuring out what made you, you is a hard thing to accomplish, is it a mixture of your mother’s intuition and your father 's stubbornness. Or is it the fact that you have his nose and her smile. Or is that distant look in your eye you got from your grandmother. To include education into this age old question brings up another. Who had the biggest impact on my life, the one who made me decide that continuing my education was worth it. I would have to say it would have to be my father, a man who believed he could make me into the child he wasn’t. My Father Blake Christopher Thomas has had the biggest impact on my life in both positive and negative ways, he is the reason I decided to continue my education at San Francisco State University.
Most of us grow up working hard to get good grades in high school to eventually attend the school of our dreams, and find a job with excellent pay. Few are the people who go to college with a true passion for education and hoping to use that knowledge for the benefit of others. In other words, if you don’t go to college you will “end up working at McDonald’s for the rest of your life.” That was a common statement my family would say when we talked about college and grades. Basically, we go to college to help us find a “good” job. No college degree would represent stress, financial struggle, and regret. Is that the ultimate goal of real
Another thing that made me who I am today is being more determined to graduate with my high school diploma and my Associates Degree in Arts. I have a big goal, and my big goal is to graduate and get involved in a career that I am passionate about that also helps stable my financial life; so that I would give what my parents gave me. Every single day, both my father and mother would tell me to do good in school so I won’t have to suffer as much as they both did when they came to America. They both want me to become successful, and have a better life than them. These words that comes from their mouth is very deep and inspiring to the point that it made me realize that I should start thinking ahead, since I am getting older each year and is closer
This explains why so many people wish to earn a college degree-According to Cox, "surveys over the past decade suggest that at least 80% of high school students aspire to earn a bachelor degree (2016, 2). These numbers show a substantial gap between postsecondary aspirations and actually degree attainment( Cox, 2016, 2). The idea of furthering your one 's education is wanting to get a job that they know will help them in their future life. When in high school teachers, close friends, and family always make sure that their children further their education. As the years have gone by it is becoming harder and harder to get a decent job without having a GED or a high school diploma. These are some reasons as to why postsecondary educations forced upon high school students.
A four-year degree costs students “more than $19,000” (Stieger), and in this day and age it is nearly impossible to survive with only a high school education; being well qualified for a specific career position is very important to employers. George Leef, author of “Why on Earth Do We Have a ‘Student Loan Crisis’?,” says it best when he states that “college graduates are somewhat more reliable and easily trained than people with only high school diplomas … if there is a large enough number of [people] with college degrees, employers don’t have to bother with people who don’t have them” (Leef 29). That being said, I wonder how young people are expected to obtain some sort of degree, when higher education is nearly impossible for some families to afford. Although very significant changes have been made by our government offering improved financial aid to current and future students, more can still be done. Our politicians could increase the Pell Grant maximum to coincide with rising tuition costs, increase taxes on irrelevant goods and services to provide students with more direct funding, set up a “reward system” that would place more responsibility on the students (rather than themselves), and most importantly, our two main parties in office need to agree on specific changes.