Psychology : An Exploration, By Saundra K. Essay

(Baumrind 1966). I have come to realize that my parents and grandparents had this same parenting style. I have realized that I am repeating the cycle and I must break the cycle because if I do not them my children will continue this same cycle as an authoritarian parent instead of an authoritative parent. I would never want to be a permissive parent. This parenting style you are not teaching your children structure. “There are not held accountable for their actions”. (Coon & Mitterer, 2016). As parents we must teach our children there are consequences for our actions. If you do not apply any boundaries or rules as they get older they will feel like the rules do not apply to them. “Permissive parents will cause their children to be dependent, immature, and misbehave frequently.” (Coon & Mitterer, 2016). I believe some parents are like this because they want to be their child’s friend. It is okay to be their friend but there must be some type of guidelines in place.

There are many ideas and opinions on how to raise children and how to be a “good parent.” Often, parents get advice on how to parent from their own parents, from their close friends, and even experts. There are three main types of parenting styles: authoritarian parenting, permissive parenting, and authoritative parenting. Authoritative parenting is a parenting style characterized by strict rules, harsh punishments and little warmth. Permissive parenting is characterized by parents who are responsive to their children, but lack rules and discipline. Authoritative parenting is characterized by parents who hold high expectations and set clear guidelines, but are responsive and loving to their children. Parenting styles determine the

When it comes to being a parent there are many ways a parent can raise their child or children, for example there are four types of parenting styles which are authoritative, authoritarian, permissive, and uninvolved. The authoritative parent are characterized by having reasonable demands and high responsiveness. Authoritative parents are strict on their children, but they are very loving, warming, and supportive towards their children by listening to their child opinions, encouraging independence, expressing warmth and nurturance, and encouraging their child to discuss options. (Reference: Rathus S.A. (2014).Psych.GengaqeLearning) Authoritarian parents are like authoritative parents except they are extremely strict almost like military, and authoritarian parents are very unforgiven by have strict guidelines towards their children without any tolerance for disobeying.

The three main parenting styles are authoritarian, permissive and authoritative. There can be some times where a parenting style is better than another but another thing is that some things can’t work out at all either way. An authoritarian style is when parents are strict. An authoritative style are loving and film parents. Also an permissive style is parents that don't want to set up rules for their kids or set up any punishments.

The first style of parenting is authoritarian parenting. In this style of parenting, children are expected to do exactly what they are told with no exceptions. The child has a very strict set of rules and very limited freedom. These parents have established rules and guidelines for their child and expect them to be followed. If a child fails at something, the failure usually results in some form of punishment. Not only that but when this failure happens, most of the time the parents do not explain the why and how they failed and do not help them to find a solution to the problem. Authoritarian parents normally do not explain the reason for their rules or why they have been set in place, they just expect the child to follow these guidelines and not break them. If the child asks for an explanation for something, such as why they did something wrong, or why they have certain rules, most of these parents will say, because I made the rules and you need to follow them, or figure it out. They never really give a

Permissive parenting style: in this style the child is given low level of demands and expectation in their behavior .in this style the parents tend to be loving yet provides few guideline and rules. In these parents often seems like friend than a parent figure, he do not expect mature level of behavior from their children.

Diana Baumrind, a clinical and developmental psychologist who is known for her work on parenting styles, broke down parenting styles into three types: Authoritarian, permissive, and Authoritative parents. Authoritarian parenting ensures to control, shape, and value the conduct and manners of the children. This conduct matches the standards of conduct the parents believe is the right one. If any misbehavior occurs, it will result in drastic measure for it not to happen

Not to say that one parenting style is the right for everyone, but overall authoritarian seems to not by the ideal choice when it comes to raising children. Parents are able to choose how they raise their children differently from others. Tracy Trauner, a educator at Michigan State University, explains how these different ways parents raise young can be put into either a Authoritative, Neglectful, Permissive, or Authoritarian category(What’s Your Parenting Style). These types of parenting styles are all unique and have some difference between them. The American Psychological Association describes Authoritative, Neglectful, and Permissive parenting styles. They describe Authoritative as parents who nurture, respond and support their children

These are just some of the questions that many teenagers encounter on a daily basis, when growing up under the rule of authoritarian parents. Parenting styles have a key effect on a child’s development, impacting both present and future relationships in all aspects of life, and a highly common type of parenting is this authoritarian style. Authoritarian parents focus on discipline, and show little to no warmth.

In Authoritarian Parenting style of parenting, children are required to follow the strict rules set by the parents. Failure to do so usually results in punishment. Authoritarian parents fail to make clear the reasoning behind these rules.

Authoritarian parenting is known as high demandingness yet low responsiveness. Authoritarian parents are associated with the use of both psychological control and behavioral control. Parents will set harsh rules for their kids without any explanation or discussion. The relationship between parents and adolescents is tense. And conflicts will burst out during adolescence in both high intensity and high frequency. Therefore, these kinds of parenting generally have negative

Additionally, authoritarian parents are more demanding, are unresponsive to their children’s needs, and expect much of their children. Furthermore, authoritarian parenting is rigid, obstructive, and retributive where parents burden children to respect their efforts and words and follow their directions. These parents often punish their children emotionally or

Conversely, permissive parents display non affirmative, recognition, and punitive behavior toward their children needs, actions, and desires. This type of parenting style has both positive and negative elements. These parents have low or less control of their children, but at the same time can show high responsiveness and support (Hoeve et al., 2009). Unlike authoritarian parents, permissive parents inspire children to do what they want to do

Authoritarian parents “allow for little open dialogue between parent and child and expect children to follow a strict set of rules and expectations. They usually rely on punishment to demand obedience or teach a lesson. Permissive parenting, also known as indulgent parenting is another potentially harmful style of parenting. These parents are responsive but not demanding. These parents tend to be lenient while trying to avoid confrontation. The benefit of this parenting style is that they are usually very nurturing and loving.” (Types)

“Permissive parenting is sometimes known as indulgent parenting; it is a care free style of parenting” (Cherry). This type of parent asks very little of their kids and has very low expectations when it comes to learning self-discipline and gaining maturity. Most children wish they had parents like these because they are very lenient and have little to no consequences. However, this causes children to be spoiled, which is a high demanding child that expects their parents to do everything for them and buy whatever they want. Permissive style parents are more like a friend to their child rather than an authoritative parent. In some ways that is an exceptional thing because the children feel like they can