Reality is the only difference that distinguishes a life from a story. However, some stories are another person’s reality. Other times, a person’s life will become a story. And so the cycle continues. Someone once stated, “Maybe it’s not about the happy ending. Maybe it’s about the story.” At some point of time in each of our lives, an event that occurred is told as a story. This is my story. The lights were off in the room. A blanket was draped snuggly over the blinds for the extra security of the darkness. The only light emitted from the room was the monitor, making small noises whenever something changed on the screen. I sat in a chair waiting for the nurse to come back with any results. We kept our voice to a gentle whisper. Anything louder …show more content…
I can honestly say, I still cannot recall a positive memory from the school. Since the 2nd grade, I rode the bus to get to school and back home. Many bus drivers changed in that time and I don’t remember most of them except one. The man was older and I enjoyed sitting in the front with a few friends and talking about useless things with him. He seemed to be the only one willing to listen to me. It was a relief of stress that was built up from home and school. My naiveness is what put me in most of the troubles I went through as a child. He took advantage of that trait and began to stalk me. He showered me in presents and offered to take me to fun things such as the zoo, fairs, etc. At the time, I didn’t understand what was bad about any of that. I never told my parents much of the man; they were too busy to listen most of the time. He’d call me sweet names like “Baby” or “Hun” and to this day, I still get ticked when someone calls me things like that. He would offer to take photos of me and talked me up to be a model. He even offered to become my agent. He’d say he showed a friend a photo of me and they were interested in using me. Understandably, a friend of mine told my principal his antics and he was fired immediately. Occasionally, I still feel like he’s watching me or snapping unknown photos of me. I used to see him a lot after he was fired. He would coincidently show up the time I would at places. He would attempt …show more content…
The church was sister parishes to a church in Haiti. Every year or two, the Priest in Haiti would come talk to us about the disastrous events that have happened without a lot of people knowing. He explained the hunger and how it can get bad enough to when they begin to eat mud. People would come to the church and beg for food for their children unknowing that he himself had been starved for a week on end. The Priest one year brought his two adopted children. He told us the story of how their parents were killed and these two fended for themselves. He told us how he found them starving to death beneath a tree in front of the church. I did everything I could since then to always donate. I’m not the best at traveling, but I can do my part here. I’ve always been a strong participant in Kid’s Food Basket and American Red Cross. I don’t enjoy hearing the words “I’m starving” for not eating for four hours because I know many people don’t know what starving really feels
Surroundings and opinions influence a person’s reality and understandings. This is explained by the social construction of reality theory. This theory explains how society creates and influences every aspect of life. From the time a person is born to the time of their death, they are given direction on how to think, speak, and act. With this type of thought process, it causes people to agree on many of the basic principles of the world today.
“The Truth About Stories is that that’s all we are”.(King 2003,p. 2).Stories have a great importance as they make people more joyous and creative. Stories let the narrator to speak but he is not really the one who is speaking. The narrator retells the stories in merely same language but totally in different tone. These stories improve ones belief towards life. The narrator interacts with the listener through
The following week, we spent most of our time in the poorest parts of the city. There we went door-to-door sharing the love of God and had Vacation Bible Schools for the kids. This is when I realized how blessed I truly was. For the first time, I got to see the privations and penury environment that the citizens of Third World countries had to endure. The unpaved streets were covered in trash. Many houses, made of tin sheets, had collapsed on themselves. The people had to share wells, where they drew their parasitic water. Men, women, and children sat on the sides of the roads begging for money, because they were sick, hungry, and needed money for food and proper medication. The site of these atrocious states of living broke my heart, and showed me how blessed I really was for not having to face these problems.
Catonsville emergency food ministries (CEFM), which provides food, and household supplies to the homeless and needy population, is where I did three hours of my service hours. All though this was not my first choice, as I thought I could not learn anything from it, and it would be boring and not engaging. I was wrong; I didn’t know the work and knowledge that went into planning, for the day to day operation of a food bank. The building itself was small, and lack adequate space for storage, and working. The week prior they lost all of their meat supplies due to a freezer malfunction, which left a slight death smell in the building. The volunteers were very nice and helpful in showing me around, and answering question. I was actually surprised that one of the volunteers was 16, and was doing it just to get out of the house.
Most stories serve as a form of entertainment or education purpose, allowing ones to learn from the story. Storytelling is the conveying of experiences and thoughts storytellers puts into words. Most narratives contain a moral that the author wants people to learn about and connect to the story more vitally. Perhaps, storytelling allows people to learn things more vividly. Readers are not present to encounter the experience the author had gone through, therefore, it causes difficulty for readers to
On December 2nd of 2015, my city of San Bernardino encountered a terrorist attack that took the lives of 14 innocent people and injured 22 at the Inland Regional Center. I can only imagine what it feels like to lose someone whose only intentions were to go to work. This devastated many families and took away their loved ones. Seeing the pain and heartbreak, I knew that there was something that needed to be done. After seeing the chaos go on in my city, I decided to volunteer at my local Salvation Army to do something good in the middle of all this negativity. I donated clothes my family no longer used, blankets, and even pillows for those who couldn't afford them. I also volunteered to serve lunch on the weekends. Seeing their faces knowing
Everyone has a different story that they tell which helps defines who they are. These stories are created from experiences, people in our lives, events that took place, important dates, places we have been, interests, and so much more. There are no two people who have the same exact story, which makes us all unique and should drive us to want to have our own individual stories.
Today, people are born into a generation where people care only for themselves more than ever. People want the best and nothing but the best. In Jean Twinge’s essay, “An Army of One: Me,” it focuses on the self-esteem that people have and how it is related to the happiness in which people want to feel. Having high self-esteem will contribute to being more confident, which will lead to an individual taking on their goals head on. Also, both Leslie Bell’s, “Selections from Hard to Get: Twenty-Something Women and the Paradox of Sexual Freedom,” and Daniel Gilbert’s, “Immune to Reality,” offer insight on the matter of pursuit of happiness. Each individual has their own way of knowing when they are happy and only they will know when the
A typical Poulin Family Saturday includes smells of pancakes and butter, fresh air accompanied with yard work, and lots of homework. On one Saturday in June, my mom stopped us in stride and reminded us that this Saturday we would be packing meals with Feed My Starving Children. I didn’t know what to expect and honestly I spent more time thinking about what I would wear (picking out my outfit) to/for the event than what I would actually be doing there. When we got to Calvary E Free Church, the FMSC staff showed us a video about chronically hungry children around the world and how Feed My Starving Children provides nutritious meals to these children…so they can survive. It was hard to look at the pictures of the malnourished kids. It was too painful…For two hours we packed rice, soy, vegetables, and vitamins in small bags and loaded them onto a semi...I went home and totally forgot about this experience. The emotion I felt during the true stories was just that…emotion.
This took place in Los Angeles, where we handed out food for those in need. This service has left a deep impression on me because although these people
After watching the video on Mary's meals and the poverty of children all over the world it almost opened my eyes to problems i've never noticed before. First of all, I realized that my life is great and that everything that I have is amazing and I should cherish every minute because people have it much worse than me. Next I came to a realization that poverty is much worse than what I ever could expect. For example this one girl was only 12 years of age and both of her parents had died. This meant that she had to take care of her both her younger brothers with no job and no money. The only way that they could get food was through the power of Mary’s meals with supplies about ½ a million meals every to school children and orphans with no food.
Over the years, I have had the great pleasure of taking part in several things that have turned out to be incredible learning experiences. One of the things that I have begun to do in recent years is going on a mission trip with the youth group at my church every year. Starting in the summer of 2013, we have taken about a week out of our summer each year to assist in the clean-up of natural disasters for less fortunate families. Surprisingly, these unpleasant, hot, humid, and smelly days have been some of the most memorable experiences that I have ever taken part in and have taught me an important social lesson. I learned, and relearn every summer, the importance of giving to those who are less fortunate than myself in any way that I am able to.
Since returning from a service trip to the Dominican Republic in 2016, I have strived to be a leader in my school in nearly every way. On this trip, I learned the power that an individual can make on a community. Whether the work as pouring concrete floors, digging sanitary latrines, or building water filters, communities were overjoyed with our work, and since then listening to stories of how we changed lives is truly inspirational. Since then, I have applied this learning of the power of an individual to tackle numerous problems in my community. Last year, I learned of a food pantry in a local Latino community known as the Guadalupe Center. It was two weeks before Thanksgiving, and they were nearly entirely out of food. Only a couple small
The stories we tell ourselves shape how we view our world. Our stories provide the foundation for our ideas concerning what can be known, what the nature of truth is, and our cultural values. The subject of storytelling may be investigated through many lenses. For example, academics and others in professions in the areas of history, literature, philosophy, religion, the performing arts, media and communication, and even sometimes law, education, and management studies base their particular interests in the use of story. So too, do those occupied in the fields of social science: Psychology, sociology, anthropology, language, and political science. Narrative scholars emphasize the ways in which story creates meaning for people in terms of social structure and social expectations, by investigating how stories shape identities and teach people how to think and how to feel.
The distinction that causes the most trouble in philosophy is the distinction between "appearance" and "reality," between what things seem to be and what they are. The painter wants to know what things seem to be, the practical man and the philosopher want to know what they are. . . . but if reality is not what appears, have we any means of knowing whether there is any reality at all? - Bertrand Russell, The Problems of Philosophy