When I was younger, I looked up to Demi Lovato. She said, “You can’t love other people until you love yourself.” I wasn’t fond of the quote while I was getting into the dating scene. Looking at my past relationship with Zach, there was a lot that went wrong but it was mostly because I was so worried about them loving themselves and not really seeing that he doesn't love me or care about me. Seeing the repetition throughout the two years of us dating, I decided to change my way of thinking because I wouldn’t want to feel blinded the same way in the relationship I have now, with Levi. But the story of our past has a long background. Picture this, 8th grade in middle school, your best friend at the time (Tabby) gets a boyfriend (Levi) and tells him, “Don’t you dare get a crush on my best friend, literally everyone does.” She also tells me, “It’s girl code that you can’t date him as long as we are friends.” You can probably guess how well that friendship went after they finally broke it off. She never knew how I felt towards him, how I thought of how well I would treat him if he was mine. I wanted them to break up and would always suggest it to her when she would complain about the relationship. Even though she tried telling me there was love in their relationship, I knew it was only one sided because she wouldn’t treat him well. She was always looking for another person before even deciding that she was breaking up with them and always flirting with people, even if they
What is the ultimate form of a tragic love? For Wong, it is neither denial nor acceptance, but an eternal state of longing and waiting. Among Wong Kar Wei’s internationally acclaimed productions, Days of Being Wilde (1990), In the Mood for Love (2000), and 2046 (2004) are loosely counted as a trilogy of love. In the end chapter of his trilogy 2046, Wong continues to focus on Chou-Mu-Yun, a sentimental yet callous writer and womanizer. Revolving around the affairs of Chou, 2046 presents to its audience three pathways that love could possibly offer: to unite in happiness, to move on after the denial from the loved one, and to linger upon the unanswered love in perpetuity. Chou is undoubtedly chosen to be the bearer of the last pathway. As the
‘In The Mood For Love’ is a Romance melodrama and is Directed and written by Wong Kar-Wai which is a Hong Kong film and released in the year 2000. The film’s plot takes place in 1962 which tells the story of two married couples that move into the residents of Shanghai living in rented rooms of a neighbouring apartment, a newspaper editor Mr Chow (played by Tony Leung) and his wife, Mrs Chan (played by Maggie Cheung) and her husband a representative of a Japanese-owned company, both couples become neighbours. Mr Chow and Mrs Chan both being the main protagonists in the story discover that both their respective spouses are having an affair, the betrayal brings both of the protagonists together to meet and discuss about their spouses’ secret affairs and practice their countermeasures with one another towards their respective spouses. As they both meet day by day, they begin to have an uncertain affair and at times deliberately try to avoid one another perhaps due to ethical concerns, and yet deeply miss one’s company. Unfortunately, Mr Chow and Mrs Chan’s relationship comes to a regretful end. The following analytic essay will attempt to demonstrate to provide information in detail about the key concepts of the film’s style and the director’s
In middle school I met a girl who quickly became my best friend. After we met, we did nearly everything together. We were simply incepreable. We continued to be very close all the way up into junior year of high school. This is when she met and started dating one of the senior boys from our school. She had always had a thing for "bad boys" and this boy was a picture perfect representation of one. After she started seeing him more, I started seeing her less and less. The boy she was dating apparently disliked me; a lot. He began to take control of everything in her life. When she came to lunch everyday at school, she would sit with me and a group of my friends and tell us how he would hit
1862 England (Victorian Era) was somewhat of an uptight society, especially compared to today. The majority of people, especially those in the upper class, were expected to be utmostly prim and proper and follow societal norms at all times. This included love, or what love was defined as during the period. George Meredith, in his poem aptly titled “Modern Love”, sets a scene where a husband and wife are sleeping side by side, both reflecting sorrowfully on their melancholy marriage. Meredith argues in this poem that the institution of modern love is inherently flawed, by exposing to the reader that while the husband and wife still care for each other, they want to leave each other because they are both scared of “modern love”. By doing so, Meredith is able to justify his overarching message that applies to all: love is a feeling that cannot be artificially replicated, and attempting to do so is only a detriment.
Love is said to be the greatest human experience in which mankind are privilege to partake in. To love can be a wondrous experience filling life with bliss and other strong emotions. Some people believe to love is to be alive and be able to see the good in the world and others. The purpose of this paper is to examine and find a better understanding of what is love, to explore what people believe love to be, and what lies surround the perception of love and to explore and expose what the meaning true love is or at the very least the authors understanding of the perception of love. In addition to exploring the concept, deception and the truth of love,
My ex-best friend, Holly Meehan-Metz, started to bring me down last year. Towards the end of our friendship, she had a very negative influence on me. She started smoking and drinking and eventually peer pressured me into drinking with her. I knew what I was doing was wrong and I didn't want to get in trouble with my parents or the law, so, I told her I had to stop. Then, she started involving me in drama in school. I almost drew the line there. The drama wasn't just rumors, I actually had people trying to fight me for
Love is difficult to define, difficult to measure, and difficult to understand. Love is what great writers write about, great singers sing about, and great philosophers ponder. Love is a powerful emotion, for which there is no wrong definition, for it suits each and every person differently. Whether love is between family, friends, or lovers, it is an overwhelming emotion that can be experienced in many different ways.
What concepts, principles, or ideas that you have learned, do you think you will remember the most after you leave this class?
I met her two years ago and we did not have much to say at that time. Little did I know that she would later steal my heart and become an intimate part of my life. As the saying goes "there is someone for anyone at any time in this life" and I was about to find out that this saying was so true. I have had a wall built around me and my defense was as a stronghold to protect myself from all the relationships that have come and gone over the years. I thought that I was meant to be alone in this old life and happiness was forever gone from me. This wonderful woman I am speaking of is Mary Doe, and the joy she has given me has revived my hope and faith that I may have finally found love and peace within. She has made me feel like I am a child
Most people grow up with that one best friend that they do everything with. I had that best friend her name is Emma; I have known Emma since we were both born. My dad and her mom went to high school together and have been friends since. I was a year older than Emma, but we made it work. As years went by we were finally in high school and she started to date my best guy friend, Brandon that I’ve known since 6th grade. Then this huge thing happened, and I had to decide of, never being friends with my best friend again, or try and work things out. I waited for her to apologize so that we could work things out. Unfortunately, that did not happen and we are no longer friends.
There is no one in this world that gets who I am more than Sam. I know for a fact God put him in my life at the time he did because I needed someone to keep me accountable and help me. We have been dating for about two and a half years. There has been ups and downs, but I know he is the guy I want to work through life with. He has similar goals and aspirations as I do and one of the realist Christians I know. God has truly blessed me and it’s funny to think that I would have never dated Sam if things had gone a different way and I could not be more grateful.
Love is an abundant emotion that has different degrees. There is familial love, friendly love, unconditional love, and of course romantic love. Romantic love will be the superstar of this article. Romantic love may be around every corner whether between an old couple or a young teenage romance. However, love is not the easiest thing to attain. It is such a simple concept, though a difficult thing to actually have a person’s hands on.
Your significant other, what majority of our ancestors were looking for. Some may have found everlasting love, until one of them died. And some may never have had the privilege of finding them, wandering through broken hearts and hardships. Which is why our government decided to come up with the amazing system of soulmates. When a person is born, they don't see color, everything is monochrome, white, black, and gray. No colors, no lividity. Until the person meets their significant other. When the person finally meets them, the world turns into an explosion of color, electrifying blue here and dashes of popping green there; according to some. Majority of people find their soulmate (there significant other is called a soulmate) when they reach the age of 14 or 15. You also have a sort of physical connection to your soulmate, if your soulmate is hurt, injured or killed the other soulmate will feel everything they feel. If you don't find a soulmate by the age of 20 you are classified unmatchable and are just left single in society to never find a pair. The year is 2045 and our setting takes place in California. Here we have two teens, one 17 and one 18. Alexander Broom, all his friends call him alex. He is 18, he isn't really popular but he isn't a nobody either. He is pretty naive and confident. He is a dirty blonde, with greenish hazel eyes, he has a normal build. He’s usually seen wearing a jacket, a shirt and some blue jeans with sneakers. He likes bands/artists such as Ed
The first part of the day, for Julia, she spent in quiet reflection out on the small balcony of her room. There were still more questions than answers. Questions of therapy for her, which she was in, but maybe the focus needed changing and she needed a new one for that, therapy for him and whether or not he’d be inclined to go, and if not, should that be a hard limit, and therapy for the both of them. Honestly, that idea didn’t appeal to her. She’d been with him long enough to be fully cognizant that anything said in couples therapy, would come back and be used as a weapon later if an argument happened. He was a master at taking her words and turning them around to use against her. Not being a fighter, and a strong dislike, maybe
Have you ever wanted to make a difference in a someone’s life, but not known how you can? I have had the life-changing opportunity of working at a group home in two different houses; one house being a foster care home and the other being a behavioral house. If you ever want to be smacked in the face with how incredibly blessed you are, you should find a facility like Youth Unlimited. Working in a setting like a group home has taught me to rethink how ungrateful I can be at times.