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Reflection About Love

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When I was younger, I looked up to Demi Lovato. She said, “You can’t love other people until you love yourself.” I wasn’t fond of the quote while I was getting into the dating scene. Looking at my past relationship with Zach, there was a lot that went wrong but it was mostly because I was so worried about them loving themselves and not really seeing that he doesn't love me or care about me. Seeing the repetition throughout the two years of us dating, I decided to change my way of thinking because I wouldn’t want to feel blinded the same way in the relationship I have now, with Levi. But the story of our past has a long background. Picture this, 8th grade in middle school, your best friend at the time (Tabby) gets a boyfriend (Levi) and tells him, “Don’t you dare get a crush on my best friend, literally everyone does.” She also tells me, “It’s girl code that you can’t date him as long as we are friends.” You can probably guess how well that friendship went after they finally broke it off. She never knew how I felt towards him, how I thought of how well I would treat him if he was mine. I wanted them to break up and would always suggest it to her when she would complain about the relationship. Even though she tried telling me there was love in their relationship, I knew it was only one sided because she wouldn’t treat him well. She was always looking for another person before even deciding that she was breaking up with them and always flirting with people, even if they

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