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Reflection On My Identity

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Understanding your identity and what you present yourself as, is a good feeling. As we get older some people might change their thoughts or ideas. Some people like to experience a different identity, but at age 8, it was the first time I knew my identity. According to our textbook Defining in Communication “ Gender is constantly created and researched out of human interactions out of social and is the texture and order of social life.” Till this day I feel the same, understand the knowledge I know now from this class, helps me reflect on my first realization of identity, my family’s gender practices, and the impact the practice that had on my gender and identity.
I remember this specific time, this was when life wasn’t so stressful. In the …show more content…

What he said made me realize that the gains I made are what a man would make and that the look is for girls. I was socially constructed to believe this, but my mind has not changed about this situation other then I work for a better body for my health, not to impress women. The last example that made me realize my identity was when I played with my toys of action figures and hot wheels. It was the same year and it was just a few weeks after the challenge I had with Chris, that it was Christmas time. On my free time, I liked to play with hot wheels and action figures as it was Legos. I never told anybody I played with these, as I thought I was a little too old at the time to be playing with these toys. My family knew about my toys, but nobody beyond the house. Well my parents ended up telling my grandparents about my toys. They thought it was a good idea to add to that collection. Till this day my grandma isn’t the greatest at making decisions on gifts. She’s the cutest but she chooses on her opinion rather than for the person she’s getting it for. As I opened her gift she gave me for Christmas, it made me realize my identity of a man. She gave me an action figure of a girl that had a tutu on with a cheap rubber gun, as if she was surviving the zombie apocalypse . The box said, “Zombie Hunter” I was amazed on what I saw, still thanking

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