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Reflection Paper On Conflict

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Writing this conflict paper was probably one of the most challenging ones I have ever done. You might ask why is that? I consider myself to be very reserved and quiet. Talking about my problems and feelings with my family was considered to have lack of mental strength. I do come from a Mexican family were everything is supposed to be fun and loving. But, the truth is that every family behind doors has their own struggles. The worst conflict I challenged was my parent’s separation, but as sad as it seems I learned things I would have never known.
How did it begin? In 2010, I decided to barrow my father cellphone to make a brief phone call to my mother. For no apparent reason I decided to snoop around and looked at his pictures. Which was the biggest mistake, in that moment I found that the person I trusted the most had an affair. I took days thinking and wondering on whether to tell my mother or to just let it go. I created these bazaar stories in my head on why he had done it. I asked my dad if everything was fine, but he decided to avoid any conversation and in some point so did I. I wanted to have the same relationship with my dad, it was obvious that some part of us was broken. Years past and I did not tell my mother, me and my dad became closer. Why? How? Till this day I really don’t know why. We forgot all about everything, and moved on as any Mexican family would, right?
That’s not exactly what happened. Around 2013, we found the devastating news that my dad was

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