Self-Reflection Paper
On
Negotiation and Conflict Resolution
Velu Raju
Oct 2017
“We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.” – The Buddha
The class room lecture on the concepts of self-awareness and self-management resonated deeply with me. To be keenly aware of one’s emotions and thoughtfully respond (instead of reaction) to stimuli is essential for happiness in life. Through the lecture, case studies, class discussions and additional reading materials it is clear that we all can learn and develop skills that will help us to intelligently respond and negotiate conflicts in a way that is fair and beneficial to all stakeholders.
What are/were your stereotypes /expectations about negotiation/conflict resolution?
1. An interesting point for me to note was the wording of this question that clubbed both negotiation and conflict resolution. Until then I presumed that negotiation is for business situations and conflict resolution is primarily for international diplomacy.
2. I thought I had never (or rarely) negotiated in my life. Through the class lectures, it became evident to me that we negotiate day-in day-out to resolve conflicts with colleagues at work, loved ones at home and the bidder on eBay. We already negotiate!
3. Zero-sum game / Winners take-all. Now I am aware that we can grow the pie of opportunity.
4. Lies and dishonesty is common and maybe even necessary for a “successful” negotiation.
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I played Chris Rudolph in this case, and did well in this negotiation by not only focusing on the final price, but also on the extra agreement of letting Lama provided high quality work to our company. When we started the negotiation, I suggested us to divide the total price into two parts, the first one was Market Research fee, and the second one was the Lama-Lee’s charge. After some initial discussion, I realized the Market Research fee was hard to negotiate, so I planed to put most of my effort on Lama-Lee’s fee.
Negotiation is a fundamental form of dispute resolution involving two or more parties (Michelle, M.2003). Negotiations can also take place in order to avoid any future disputes. It can be either an interpersonal or inter-group process. Negotiations can occur at international or corporate level and also at a personal level. Negotiations often involve give and take acknowledging that there is interdependence between the disputants to some extent to achieve the goal. This means that negotiations only arise when the goals cannot be achieved independently (Lewicki and Saunders et al., 1997). Interdependence means the both parties can influence the outcome for the other party and vice versa. The negotiations can be win-lose or win-win in nature.
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