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Reflection Paper On Vacations

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Augusto,

The reason why I wanted to talk is the following; you can agree or disagree or make adjustments that can possibly work for us.

1. I do not mind that Sebastian continues to live with you, right now I am still trying to figure out my life, financially (disability), educational, and emotional and Sebastian needs stability.
2. Agree on religious issues/ one or the other, baptism, communion and all that stuff... I am open about Christianity, after all, it derives from Catholicism
3. I think it would be fit to say that we take turns on school vacations, holidays and birthdays. Including trusting of traveling outside or in inside the country ( I always have someone with me, I do not travel alone and specific info can be exchanged.
4. I would have no issues with him traveling to Lebanon if I am able to talk to him. I can sign the passport form and permission t travel, in return of course if I want to bring him to Disney or California t experience things and travel the same way you'd like, an objection would be fair.
5. Vacations should be at least equality divided during the summer since I only get to see him so little during the year.
6. Notify at least 30 days of traveling, schedule vacations based on calendar years
7. Also, if able to bring Sebastian to activities in New York, paid by the military, Nathan, or myself.
8. At least allow me to bring him one weekend to Boston once a month and see him another weekend in New York) on weekends I have Camila so they can spend time together)
9. Gift approval, I don’t know your space so I can't make the assumption that he can just have whatever.
10. Sebastian will soon (in the next 50 days) sleep in a room that will be just for Camila and him. Have his own space and privacy.
11. I can share location always when he is with me, no restriction on location when he is with me since you’d be able to locate us. I would also keep you posted on where and for how long we'd be at a place.
12. I previously sent you his entire medical record from here and all his surgeries, I received the package back.
13. Alternating holidays, birthdays like. I.e. Christmas with you and new yrs. With me and then switch the next year and so on.
14. Child support, right now I am

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