Your cell phone rings in the middle of the night and you are notified that you have to go to work. After hastily getting ready, you find yourself walking down a hallway; you turn into an empty doorway and enter a dark, cold room that is filled with lifeless bodies waiting to be attended to. This may be an unfavorable situation to many, but to a funeral director, it is just another day at work. In order to become a funeral director, one must be genuinely interested, willing to fulfill the job requirements, be able to cope with death on a daily basis, and still maintain a positive outlook on life.
Usually, people take on the profession of becoming a funeral director, or mortician, because of exposure to a family business or pure interest. An
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They must also attain a state license in order to practice what they have studied (Education Portal. 2014.). Internships are not always paid so one must really love what they are instructed to do in order to pursue their goals of becoming a mortician. Not many people are willing to work for free for such an elongated period of time. In New Jersey, funeral directors are also embalmers. In other states, it may be more common to find that the funeral director and embalmer are two different people (Park-Mustacchio. 2013). Kevin Sinclair, an embalmer of twenty-two years, advocates for a person to have a certain personality in order to become an embalmer (Bradley.2013). He does this because like everyone may know, “it can be traumatic (Bradley.2013.).” Anyone may be want to become a funeral director or an embalmer, but it requires a lot of emotional stability to deal with many dead bodies that have been distorted because of an accident. Another mortician humorously said from his past experiences, “If you can be a successful waiter, you can be a successful funeral director (Giang. 2013.).” The comparison between the two occupations may open one’s eyes to a different kind of perspective. For example, a waiter would be accustomed to a pizza being placed in an oven just as a funeral director would be accustomed to a corpse being placed in a crematory to be cremated. Dealing with death, more so cadavers, takes a large amount of self-discipline and
The reason I’d personally like to become a funeral director is quiet a simple one. Having been in the military and being around so many people who have lost loved ones or even being deployed and seeing what happens to those of us who aren’t so lucky to return, I want to be a part of the coping the families go through. I have had a longing since I can remember to help people before I joined the service as a police officer I was a volunteer fire fighter and being able to help those who are in tough situations whether it be in a combat theater or at home in the states it feels almost as if it’s my calling.
As the paragraph above states: we all die, and though we are all different we all share just that. But what happens when we die? where do we go? what happens to our bodies? Thats where a mortician comes in. A mortician or undertaker, are both artists and scientists. The career of the funeral director is a combination of jobs and is never
One of the duties of a mortician is to embalm the corpse for show. "If
Painful as it may be, such experiences brings home the finality of death. Something deep within us demands a confrontation with death. A last look assures us that the person we loved is, indeed, gone forever.” (108) Cable finishes his essay by asking, Tim if his job ever depressed him. Tim in reply says, “No it doesn’t, and I do what I can for people and take satisfaction in enabling relatives to see their loved ones as they were in real life.” (108) After reading this essay I feel as though sometimes we don’t understand death so therefore we do not talk much about it. By reading about what goes on after your loved one dies and is sent to these places to be prepared and ready for burial, it helps to understand why morticians and funeral directors do what they do. Knowing that someone enjoys taking the responsibility in providing that comfort in a sorrowful time makes me appreciate these people in these occupations a bit
“I feel sorry for the person who can't get genuinely excited about his work. Not only will he never be satisfied, but he will never achieve anything worthwhile” (Walter Chrysler). Deciding on what one wants to be in life can prove to be a demanding task. There are so many, yet limited, different opportunities in the world to have an excellent career and make a decent living while doing something one loves. It is limited because there are only a few specific career paths that someone could take to make good money. It is very difficult to make a fulfilling living being a garbage man. There are many different opportunities because, within these specific careers, there are usually various paths to take. Someone who has dreams to be a
Most people contact funeral homes whenever a relative of theirs has passed. In most cases, the family gets good services and everything goes right, but there are also scenarios where things go totally wrong. The sad truth is, in many cases, many families do not find out the truth that happens inside the funeral homes. Bodies have been misplaced, cremations have been done wrong or not done in some cases, and body parts have been stolen (FUNERAL HOME & CEMETERY ABUSE). That is just some of the few things that have happened. Funeral homes are known for charging a lot for funerals and in many cases use their knowledge to convince people to buy more expensive things. Funeral homes have their ways where they outsmart people and they also in some
Moreover, they have to keep secrets within their practice. The Funeral director position is an overlooked, mentally demanding and exhausting job that often goes without any appreciation in our communities until we lose a loved one. Many other professions deal with death for example, doctors and police, but those professions are widely praised and recognized unlike most Funeral directors. They love serving people, but struggle to maintain a personal life along their work that deals solely with death. Depression is a common outcome for this profession as they deal heavily with the isolation their job
Being a funeral director takes having a strong stomach and skill dealing with grief. There are many different ways people mourn. Religions have different rites as well as celebration of someone’s life. Every culture and civilization has three common threads dealing with death and their final internment. There are three main steps when someone dies. First is the preparation of the body, then some type of ceremony, and finally internment.
Death is inevitable at some point everyone must face it. Whether it is the death of a family member, friend, or a family pet, people are forced to deal with the death. Nurses however have more frequent encounters with death than the average person does. When a patient dies in a healthcare setting his or her nurse is obligated to deal with that as well. They must find ways to cope with the increased amount of death that
Embalmers have a long list of daily tasks, along with very precise legal guidelines as to how to handle the deceased. These tasks include: washing and disinfecting bodies to prevent deterioration and infection, removing fluids and gasses from the body and injecting it with chemicals to preserve it, washing and arranging hair and cosmetics, and using plaster of Paris of wax to restore the appearance of the bodies after injury. The typical hours and days embalmers are required to work in a weekly schedule are Monday through Friday, from 8 a.m. to 5 p.m., though they are not limited to this schedule. some embalmers are required to be on-call, or may cover weekends. This career may be found in any city, as death occurs in all environments. In fact, even our own little Webster County has two funeral homes of it’s own. This work would be performed indoors, in special laboratories, due to the special equipment required to perform the daily tasks of an
Since there is always a demand for people who work in funeral service, there are almost always opportunities in the field. There are jobs all across New England in this career since people die every day and need funeral services. Two New England companies that are currently offering jobs in this field are New England Funeral & Cremation Center LLC and Phaneuf Funeral Homes and Crematorium. Companies Hiring in New England are usually relatively small, independently owned businesses who look for people who have a clean appearance, great interpersonal skills, and are outstanding in the field.
In the late 1960’s, the FTC was a paper tiger. Ralph Nader, who began the consumer protection movement in this country with the publication of Unsafe At Any Speed, was a sharp critic of the Federal Trade Commission for its lack of consumer protection. Specifically, the FTC was criticized because it relied too heavily on consumer complaints and brought enforcement actions only on a case-by-case basis. The consumer protection movement wanted the FTC to proceed against entire industries rather than individual businesses.
Seeming how we aren’t allowed to know or talk about these things there are certain things that a funeral director should know in order to help someone of the LDS religion. For the most part unless money does not permit them they will usually perform a burial for their loved one.
After some research on five current trends in the funeral service operations, I decided to choose the following submerging topics: personalization, technology, “green” funerals, women in the industry and pet funerals. In regards to personalization, Shivon loved the idea that more services were becoming specific to a deceased individual’s life. Families are trying to seek ways to make meaningful funeral services, while helping with the grieving process. “The idea of personalization has resulted in an explosion of unique services that reflect the hobbies, passions and interests of someone who has died” (National Funeral Directors Association, 2017). With technology on the rise, it is only appropriate for funeral homes to jump on the
Each and every day when I wake up the first thing I do is go to the crier to find out if anyone has died. Once I find out the name of the deceased I find their family and discuss with them if they need my service or not. It’s not every single time I have to search for the dead. There have been multiple occasions where the family knows that I’m a mourner and they seek me out while their loved one is on their death bed and once that person dies they come back to me and tell me it’s time that they need my services. It’s very rare that I get turned away. Even the poorest of the poor families want at least one of us. It is believed that by us causing such a fuss that someone has died that it will keep the spirit happy and they won’t haunt the world of the living. If the family decides to hire me, and it’s very rare that they don’t, I get the information I need about when the service will be held and I return home to get ready.