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Richard Lee Eating Christmas In The Kalahari

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In Richard Lee’s Eating Christmas in the Kalahari, we witness an anthropologist's interaction with a tribe called the !Kung. During his stay he learns much about their culture, and upon the completion of his field work, he decides to buy a large ox for the !Kung for christmas. However, the reaction was not what he was expecting. Richard as most humans in a mainstream society do, expected that when the !Kung people discovered that he bought this hefty ox for them, that they would be filled with excitement and shower him in praise. Contrastly, the !Kung people's reaction was the complete opposite. The !Kung people actually took a complete different perspective and insulted Richard (who they called /ontah) with many derogatory statements such as, “Do you expect us to eat that bag of …show more content…

As it states in the article, in mainstream society we are taught that we are supposed to act appreciative (even if we hate the gift) because the gift is less important that the social relationship at stake. Thus, in Richard’s displeased state he sought for answers as to why he was treated this way, in which after many conversations later he finally came to an answer. He discovered that unlike his original belief that this is how outsiders were treated, this is how everyone was treated. The idea behind the !Kung is that when a young man kills much meat he come to think of himself as a chief or a big man, and he things of the rest of the tribe as his servants or inferiors. So they always speak of his meat as worthless, thus cooling his heart and making him gentle so that his pride does not overwhelm him to one day kill somebody. This was extremely important because it creates a calm, equal leveled atmosphere in which no one is greater than the other and builds harmony among the !Kung people. Consequently, after the discovery of this teaching Richard ends with the statement, “there are not totally generous acts” in which I can somewhat

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