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Rob Gordon's Existential Crisis In The Film High Fidelity

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We live and learn from many experiences in our life, especially our failures, mistakes, and of course--breakups. Sometimes why and how these incidents happen to us boggles our minds and makes us contemplate “who we are” and “why we are this way.” The film High Fidelity, directed by Stephen Frears, does a perfect job of exemplifying a man midst an existential crisis, experiencing a flurry of emotions, most notably: despair and angst. Rob Gordon is in his middle 30’s and the owner of a failing record store called “Championship Vinyl” when he has a breakup with his then girlfriend, Laura. This throws Rob into a state of despair as he loses all hope and that he is destined to be alone. He embarks on a quest to figure out why all of his girlfriends dumped him, so that he could finally have closure. Rob started with his first girlfriend, Allison, whom of which he “dated” in the 6th grade. After Rob calls Allison’s mom he soon finds out that she married her first boyfriend. Taken by surprise, Rob rubuttles that he was her first boyfriend, but …show more content…

Charlie was not like any other girls to Rob, and she fascinated him. The phenomena of Charlie was that she was popular, always spoke her mind, and was hot. To Rob their relationship seemed to have just fizzled out. But later after attending her dinner party, Rob finally realized why they did not work out. The nounema of the relationship was that Charlie was an awful person; All she did was talk shit about other people. She was the one to dump him because she said he was too much work and was dull. Rob realizes that they really had nothing and he wasted his time being with someone that was not really in heart. He feels angst because he decided to date her for no good reason, and he was responsible for wasting his own time with her. Rob learned not to waste his time with the wrong people that do not treat him right, or people he does not really feel

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