Marriage is a commitment between two people who love each other. Some marriage partners are like Paris and Juliet and they were brought together by the parents ; those are called arranged marriages. However arranged marriage should be banned because it can cause the child to do violent things, it can cause a break in the family, it can cause emotional and physical damage to the child. In Romeo and Juliet the emotional pain was severe enough to bring Juliet to try to fake her death. Juliet and Friar Lawrence make a plan to take a appear to fake potion that would cause her to die so that Juliet and Romeo could run away together. Juliet wants to fake her death so that she could get out of her arranged marriage. Marriage should be based on …show more content…
In the article Debie talks about her arranged marriage and out it turned out just fine. “ Alex and I have been married for 17 years, and our relationship is stable.”(Thomas) Debie’s family let her get to know Alex before she married him. As their relationship developed Debie and Alex started to get use to one another. Debie is really happy in her marriage “ I’m married to a good man who is my partner and my equal. He’s a committed provider and a loving father to our two children.”(Thomas) Not all arranged marriages turn out to be very unpleasant Alex and Debie’s marriage didn’t and so many other …show more content…
Marriages is suppose to be about making memories with your partner and being happy and joyful while doing it. Romeo and Juliet fell in love ,but Juliet had arranged to be married to Paris. Juliet wanted to fake her death so that she could get out of her arranged marriage to Paris. Juliet really wanted to get out of her arranged marriage so bad that she had to fake her death. I strongly disagree with arranged marriages.Marriage should be by love not
As we see in Romeo and Juliet there is many things that can go wrong with an arranged marriage. With different cultures you have different opinions on arranged marriages. We see a positive and a negative things on arranged marriages. However arranged marriages shouldn’t be something a parent has control over because the marriages causes higher than average death and suicide rates in the children, it proves a low choice rates, and it leaves the children
he is later in the play. He thinks that Juliet is too young and if she
Also, this type of marriage is chosen because of social status. A rich family will want their heir to marry into a family that is worth their status. And lastly, very religious and cultural son and daughters will just agree to an arranged marriage because of the way they have been brought up since childhood and they know that they will not have to worry about their parents of not approving or rejecting of their choice of spouse.
Maya Angelou, a famous poet, memoirist, and civil rights activist once said, “Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.” In Shakespeare’s play “Romeo and Juliet” the two main characters Romeo and Juliet meet at a party and fall in love. Juliet’s parents want her to marry Paris, a prince with financial stability and royal status. But Juliet wants to marry Romeo. Juliet most likely will find the most happiness in marrying Romeo, and as the quote says love will stop at nothing to arrive at its destination. Some people might say that Juliet would find the most happiness in marrying Paris because she would have her family's support and be financially stable, Also, some might think that Romeo and Juliet’s love is only temporary and will not last. But if she was to marry Romeo she would be the most happy because she had the choice of choosing a partner; she knows Romeo better, he’s closer to her age, and he isn’t a complete stranger; Also, she isn’t loving Romeo for the sake of loving, their love is true and from the heart.
Relationship is described as an emotional or other connection between people. The book Of Mice and Men and “Romeo and Juliet” both have similar relationships. These relationships are built around different circumstances and situations. George and Lennie only have each other which creates a better relationship. Romeo and Juliet had large families to support and love them. They grew up surrounded by strong families. When they met violence between the families forced them to choose family or each other. How does one have a strong enough bond after two days to turn away from a family whose has been supporting them throughout their lives? A solid relationship is not created in two days, but built through good and bad life experiences. Even though Romeo and Juliet have a relationship of love and forgiveness, George and Lennie still have the stronger
Arranged Marriage in Romeo and Juliet In Romeo and Juliet, Lord Capulet arranges a marriage between Juliet and Paris despite Juliet’s opposition to the marriage and her previous marriage to Romeo. The reason that arranged marriages are so controversial is because they take a life changing decision and and allow it to be influenced by things like wealth and greed. Therefore, parents should not force their children into arranged marriages because they give the bride and groom no choice in who they marry, they limit the amount of people to choose from, and the bride and groom are stuck together for life. In Romeo and Juliet, Juliet has no wish to marry Paris because she is already in love with Romeo.
In the well known tragedy by William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet , two teenagers from opposing families have “fallen in love”. They quickly and irrationally get married by Friar Lawrence, who is a trusted adviser to the both of them. Everything is working fine until Romeo and Juliet's cousin fight, and Tybalt dies. Juliet is grieving over Tybalt's death, but even more disturbed by Romeo’s banishment. After being secretly marrying Romeo and him gone, her parents tell her to marry Paris, in attempt to regain happiness in the family once again. After being counseled by the Friar, Juliet decides to fake her death. Romeo does not receive the message explaining this, and quickly rushes to Juliet’s tomb. He is grief stricken, and does
tension, the second he lays his eyes on her he says “if I profane with
In the story, Romeo and Juliet find each other and fall in love at first sight. At the end of Act 1 Scene 5 and start of Act 2 Scene 2, they find out who each other really belong to. Rational thinking would have ended the relationship right there, for there is no way for that to end good. They also decided then to keep it a secret from their families. That leads to the next point, where they hastily jump into the relationship with marriage. In Act 2 Scene 2, they decide they will marry the next day without their parents consent. This cause a huge problem, because there may have been a compromise that the parents may have made. In the end, there are so many plausible solutions that presented themselves, but Romeo and Juliet killed themselves before thinking about ways to fix the situation. This prove that they are capable of decisions, but an adult would have been needed in situation like
Arranged Marriages have been around since time can remember. An arranged marriage is a marital union between a man and a woman who were selected to be wedded together by a third party. Historically, arrange marriages were the main way to marry. In certain parts of the world, it is still the primary approach. There are two types of arrange marriages. The first is a traditional marriage where the children can, with strong objections, refuse to marry their soon to be spouse. In a forced marriage, the children have no say in the matter. Bread Givers shows an excellent representation of the pressures on children from their parents to be married against their will.
What does marriage mean to you? Cultures around the world have different views and opinions about marriage. Some believe that marriage is something sacred that can only happen once in a lifetime while others believe marriage between the same sex is ok and some believe arranged marriages are preferable. The majority of marriages in India at the time of the book the namesake was arranged and heavily influenced by the Indian culture. An example of this is the marriage of Ashima and Ashoke Ganguli.
From the perspective of a Utilitarian, one would argue that arranged marriage is both ethical and unethical. A utilitarian decides whether an action is good or bad based on the results that bring the greatest good to the greatest number of people affected by the action. The so called good can be defined as “happiness.” In India, places where arranged marriage are very common because it is part of their culture. Therefore in a Utilitarian eyes it would be ethical to get married if it were part of your culture and geographical location because betraying your culture would do more harm and some forms of happiness are superior to others. Many couples find themselves to be part of happy marriages like we saw in the article What It’s Really Like To Have An Arranged Marriage. Sandaya, the bride, who lived in India had an arranged marriage set by her parents. She felt honored to have done this for her family and knew it was a
Marriage is a union that has been around for as long as humans have walked the earth. The human race depends upon the union of its members, and as such, the subject of marriage has been an issue that receives more intense scrutiny and attention than many would likely believe. In today's day and age, with humanity continuing to move in a modern direction, many argue that marriage is a union that should be entered into freely and should be based exclusively on the love between two people. However, I argue that arranged marriage, which has taken place throughout the ages and throughout the world, is a union that offers its observers a marriage based in support, longevity and love, and is an institution that should not be frowned upon.
For certain countries arranged marriage is an important part of their culture and heritage. Like in the essay What’s Love Got to Do with It? by Anjula Razdan, Anjula’s family that immigrated to America from the country of India believed in arranged marriage because that was the culture they were a part of before they left India. In India the grandfather chooses who he thinks is the best suitable partner for his grandchild, which is nothing like how Americans choose their life partners. While Americans believe in marrying for love, that might not be the best way of marriage for other countries due to family reactions, success rates, and the benefits of marriage.
“Today arranged marriages tend to exist in Japan, China, India, in Jewish culture and many other parts of the world”. (www.helium.com). To me arranged marriages are wrong, because marriage should be two people who feel a strong love for each other that they would want to spend the rest of their life together. Not because they have to be forced into it by their selfish family or by some old tradition.