Ruth, despite her manipulative and controlling exterior, is actually a complex character whose actions are greatly affected by personal insecurity. Ruth's lack of self-confidence became apparent after the pencil case incident at Hailsham. Kathy ends up confronting Ruth about her lie, which is when we see her façade break, "...how for once she was at a complete loss for words, and had turned away on the verge of tears..." (60). By Kathy's wording, "for once", we can see how Ruth doesn't break like this often. Then the question is, why include this detail in Kathy’s story? What makes this so important? And why did she lie about it in the first place? This scene, and many after it, is important because they bring us closer to understanding the …show more content…
A spontaneous hug, a secret letter, a gift? All Ruth had done was to take one of these harmless daydreams a step further..." (60). Ruth’s motive was to just seem special to her classmates, to feel special. This event helps describe to the reader just how important Ruth’s image was to her. To me, it also displays how little Ruth thinks of herself and that this was a way of her showing herself and everyone else that she was important. This was just her tactic to gain the approval of her peers. She shows this behavior again and again throughout her life, including when she brags about the amount of books she reads, as well as when she tries so hard to appeal to the veterans. Ruth wants to be accepted so badly that she even goes as far as lying about Hailsham and tearing the relationships she had …show more content…
Ruth especially abused Kathy and Tommy's trust and ended up turning their confessions and insecurities against them. Ruth did so at least three times with Kathy. The first being when Kathy confided in Ruth about her "urges" and Ruth replied "'That's strange, Kathy'" (128). Rather than comforting her, this worsened Kathy's insecurity and even ended up being a lie that Ruth confesses that to later in the book. Her motive seemed to be to keep Kathy in a submissive, disadvantaged state, and on page 125 she uses this confession against Kathy. Ruth says, "'...I suppose you haven't been that slow making friends with at least some of the veterans'" (125). This attacked Kathy from multiple angles, referencing not only Kathy's inability to make new friends, but also her diffidence in having numerous sexual partners since arriving at the Cottages. Not only does this hurt Kathy, but it also asserts Ruth’s dominance. Ruth uses Kath's confession again when she made an attempt to keep Tommy and Kathy apart romantically in chapter 17. Ruth says, "'Well, Kathy, what you have to realise is that Tommy doesn't see you like that...Tommy doesn't like girls who've been with... this person and that...'" (200). Ruth directly tells Kathy that they will never be a couple, rather than allowing her room to figure it out herself. She also speaks for Tommy, who isn't even present, rather than allowing him to voice his
* This chapter was written in Italics because it was written from a different point of view which was Ruth’s perspective who talks about her past as a child.
Ruth felt connected to black culture in Harlem because she was never part of a group where she felt welcomed. She would support the Civil Rights acts as if they were her own. On the other hand, she felt rather excluded from the people living in the South. As she had a growing family to take care of, she would be in need of family and financial support, but they would purposely shun her. At a young age, Ruth a practicing Jew was ridiculed and bullied by classmates who were gentiles. It affected her so much she changed her name so she could fit in more, “My real name was Rachel, … but I used the name Ruth around white folk, because it didn't sound so Jewish, though it never stopped the other kids from teasing me” (McBride 80). Her parents forced Judaism on her, causing her to resent religion; therefore, she converted to Christianity when she was an adult. This conversion helped rediscover herself and create a new relationship with God. Ruth’s adult life changed significantly from her life in Suffolk. She needed some relief after separating from her family so she embraced her new religion and found the relief in practicing Christianity. Lastly, Ruth had two integrated marriages that changed her life and brought out the best of her; unfortunately, both died and Ruth was a widow who had to raise and support
When "After the War" opens we meet a broken and angry Ruth, who has had all joy ripped from her life at the hands of the Nazis. Over the last few years, while fighting for her life, Ruth has taught herself to conceal all emotion. She won't allow herself to show signs of weakness. She refuses to cry and crushes any hope or joy that makes its way into her life. Furthermore, Ruth stifles all memories of her friends and family, before the war, so that she will not have to recount
Ruth stresses the importance of maintaining a good image of her family. When George arrives to take Beneatha out, Walter and Beneatha are not being well mannered, so Ruth takes control and tries to make-up for their behavior. “Beneatha, you got company-what’s the matter with you? Walter Lee Younger, get down off that table and stop acting like a fool…(80)” Ruth is also independent and kind.
When Ruth was growing up, she was given twisted views on what family was supposed to be like, but she still stayed loyal to her family. Ruth talks about her high school graduation, “ I told her, “Frances, I’m not sure I can go into that church.” She said, “ I understand, Ruth. I’ll graduate by myself, then, because I don’t want to graduate next to anyone but you.” Well, I felt like I couldn’t let that happen, so I said, “ I can go it, let’s go.” We took a picture in our caps and gowns and got in line, double file, and marched together. The line marched out of Suffolk High’s schoolyard and onto Main Street and
Ruth will go beyond her way get make her family happy. She started working more hours to make everything happen for them. One day Mamma give Walter half of the money, but she said to put three thousand in the saving for Beneatha’s school but Water didn’t listen but he put the whole 6,500. Ruth and Mamma were very upset but what happen happen already. In the book Ruth say “ I don’t know what it is- but he needs something I can’t give him anymore”(Hansberry, pg.85). Ruth relationship this quote shows the tension and misunderstanding of Ruth and Walter in their relationship. Ruth shows that she honestly doesn't know what to do to help their relationship. When Walter did that mistake by butting all the money to store it became a big problem to the family. Ruth family poor financial situation has to double as a housewife and working mother. Both Ruth and her husband Walter are frustrated with their lives, and their marriage is in trouble. Now Ruth has to find some type of job to cover the house bills and everything else. Ruth and Walter finally found a day to go out and she was telling everyone about it. She said “Lord, that man – don’t changed so ‘round here. You know – you know what we did last night? Me and Walter Lee?…(Smiling to herself) We went to the movies. (Looking at BENEATHA to see if she understands). We went to the movies. You know the last time me and Walter went to the movies together?BENEATHA No. RUTH Me
Ruth just want to get out of poverty and to have a happy family. She doesn’t want to lose her opportunity to get out of the too small dilapidated apartment of which her family is forced to live in do to their lack of finances.
Between the roles of the two woman, it is apparent that Ruth’s role is more favorable in the eyes of characters
The Book of Ruth Ruth is a story about loyalty, love, and faith. The simple love story
of God in the story of Ruth, as well as in modern society, is eliminated.
She still thinks about this a lot as she grows up. Ruthie loves her sister very much, but towards the end of the book they go separate ways when Lucille (Ruthie’s younger sister) goes and lives with a neighbor, while
Ruth is a very strong woman with morals and a belief in God. Ruth loves her husband and her son and does her very best to take care of them. She is always putting the needs and desires of her family above her own. Ruth has always been supportive of Walter, but recently they have not been communicating well. Ruth tries to convince Mama to allow Walter the chance to invest in the liquor store by saying, “something is happening
Ruth was emotionally abandoned she wanted someone to return the love she had been giving out. The mere idea of her having to go the rest of her life in that state frightened her. If she was emotionally supported by her husband she would have been happier. This shows that her mental state shows abandonment of women.
family would not survive. Ruth’s aspirations are hindered due to the fact that she is
Ruth passed away in 2002 due to complications after a surgery for colon cancer. While she may have been gone, she has left behind an on-going legacy. Her story has taught the world about the beauty of believing in yourself even when others have doubt against you. It is something we can all learn from. Have faith in yourself and work hard for your