Same-Sex Marriage

A metamorphosis in how the American judicial system perceives same-sex marriage, has developed over the past forty years. In October, 1971, the Supreme Court ruled that: "The institution of marriage as a union of man and woman, uniquely involving the procreation and rearing of children within a family, is as old as the book of Genesis.”

In the United States, there is social unrest regarding the government's denial of the right to marry for homosexuals. Plenty of conservatives are completely against gay marriage; and many of liberals are fighting for equal treatment. The neo-Christian politicians are using religious arguments to establish that homosexuality is an abomination. While this may be their belief system, this country was founded on religious freedom, where the people are allowed to worship how they see fit. A ground rule, set up from the beginning, states that separation needs to be made between religion and government, so the two shall never meld to become a theocracy. With the issue of gay marriage, lines get blurred and religion

Gay marriage is a topic that is heavily debated in this day and age. Whether or not it should be legal for homosexuals to get married is a theme that authors Andrew Sullivan, who wrote “For Gay Marriage” and William J. Bennett, who wrote “Against Gay Marriage” use in there articles. The main points the authors both discus is the meaning of marriage itself, the social impact same sex marriage will have on society, and the influence on children and teens. Although, the authors have similar themes disused in their topics, there are more differences in how they view same sex marriage.

1. Other countries (Denmark, Canada etc.) have legalized gay marriage. (Bidstrup, 2009) The United States prides itself on being the forefront and a leader in all things so they should be leading the way for gay marriage as well.

Our country was built on the foundation of separation between church and state. But has the concrete wall of separation begun to deteriorate? Or was it ever really there at all? As we continuously battle over the rights to same sex marriage, the question of church or state surfaces. It is due time that we examine this matter and decide once and for all if the church should have any opinion in the matter when this country is supposed to be based on a separation of the two. Howard Moody, a Baptist minister, addresses the issue of state versus church in the matter of gay marriage in his article published in 2004 in the Nation. Moody’s

Same sex marriage has been an ongoing debate for many years. Gay people and gay supporters believe that they should be treated equally to marry whoever they want because it is how they feel and people should be understanding of that. By being human they argue that it is their right to have equality. On the other hand, Christians believe that they should not have the right to marry the same sex because it is an attack on the church and degrades the traditional concept of marriage. Due to Christians not believing in same sex marriage, they worry that now it is legal that they will be forced to accept it and preachers and pastors will be forced to marry gay couples. There are many standing viewpoints on the matter and these two points of view say the most. Does same sex marriage effect religion or not?

They are no longer a small population, but a booming revolution. These groups do not hide themselves in burrows, but flamboyantly celebrate their identities. The gays are now a people willing and ready to be heard. It has come to all of our attentions that in the light of marriage they have been depraved and deceived. Homosexuals cannot allow this persecution to continue, as they are constantly forfeited equal rights. The arguments are of lifestyle differences and the legalized discrimination of these people. It encompasses same-sex marriage as a cause worth fighting and defending so that we all may be, “one Nation under God, indivisible with liberty and justice for all.”

Same-sex relationships date back to Greek and Roman times. They have existed in society for hundreds of years. It was during a culture shift during the Christian revolution that society began to condemn the practice. Our current society is realizing same-sex relationships do exist and have done so regardless of law allowing them to outwardly celebrate their unions. Gay couples have remained secluded in society and covered their living arrangements under feeble explanations and lies. Hiding true feelings and living a lie is destructive to a person’s well-being and happiness. Recently the United States took steps to legalize and recognize unions of all types whether they are of opposite-sex or same-sex. Our country stands for equality and freedom so this is only right that our country take this step along with many others around the globe.

While many people oppose same-sex marriage, there are really no valid reasons against it. If your daughter told you she wanted to marry another woman because she loved her and it would make her completely happy, would you oppose it? If you really think it through, you might find it's not as easy to answer the question as you thought. First let's look at some of the common reasons against same-sex marriage.

Legalization of same sex marriage in the USA and abroad is and will always remain a disgrace and an abomination to God’s word. Same sex marriage is identified as two of the same sex coming together in matrimony with the same legal representation that a couple of the opposite sex would have. Before the Supreme Court Ruling in 2015, 39 of the 50 states of the United States of America were already supporting and legally allowing same sex marriages. Although many may have their own preconception of what marriage is the bible tells us that marriage is a covenant between a man and a woman and not that of a man and a man, or a woman and a woman. (Leviticus 20:13) says “If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltiness is upon them."

Marriage is the union of two people as partners in a personal relationship with love and happiness, which is the right that everyone should have. Compared to any other institution, marriage provides guidance that helps people live their lives. Nowadays, the implication of same-sex marriage which is fairly debatable has now gained further attention. Furthermore, more and more countries have legalized gay couples marriage such as Netherlands and Canada. Also a lot of same-gender people in many countries claim that they should have the right to get married as same as everyone. However, there is a body of opinion that homosexual marriage might destroy the purpose or institution of marriage and cause some problems, such as the roles of same-gender parents. Although some people oppose same-sex marriage , there is some evidence that same-sex marriage cannot ruin the society.

Why are so many people against gay marriage? I myself am for allowing gay marriage, gay marriage gives hope to kids that don’t have parents to have parents. In the first paragraph, I will explain the positives of gay partners and if it benefits the children getting adopted. Alas in the second I will explain if children get treated different from peers or from family members or other types of social environments. Finally, in the third I will explain the negatives and the other side of this story to give you an idea of other people views. Let’s dig in and get started!

Why should we legalize gay marriage? or, should we be asking, why isn't gay marriage legalized already?

Gay marriages have received criticism from all sectors of the society. Most people have alienated all facts that relate to this issue and acknowledged the gloom and doom that may be associated with it. The United States ranks top of the most mature democracies, and not even its occupants have managed to establish a consensus regarding the issue of gay relationships. Many researchers have worked together towards deciphering the facts and logistics that revolve around the controversial issue. The outcomes of these endeavors have indicated that these relationships may have more positive effects and influence in the society as opposed to the negative aspects that most people recognize. According to America Institute of psychology, the society needs to stop prejudice, and only then will the people appreciate and understand the importance of establishing and supporting gay marriages across the country (Wight, LeBlanc, & Lee Badgett, 2013). Humans have a right to hold varying opinions regarding prevailing issues in the society, but it has become clear that most of their sentiments have taken a wrong course regarding the issue of gay marriages. The positivity of these relationships to the society outplays the general notion of doom and gloom that most people associate with gay marriages.

Is the definition of marriage being threatened in the United States? President Bill Clinton signed the federal Defense of Marriage Act into law on September 21, 1996. This Act defined marriage at the federal level as between a man and a woman. The federal DOMA statute ensured that no state would be forced to recognize gay marriages performed in other states and prevented same-sex couples from receiving federal protections and benefits given to married heterosexual couples. On February 23, 2011 President Obama instructed the Justice Department to stop defending the Defense of Marriage Act saying that is violates the Fifth Amendment.