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Sandra Cisneros Only Daughter

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Sandra Cisneros writes in “Only Daughter” about being the only daughter in a very big family.
One mother, one father, six sons and one daughter is what made up her family. She remembers her life as a young girl as always feeling like she was only meant to be married. Even going to college was only acceptable because she had a greater chance of meeting a man who could eventually be her husband.
Although she became an English professor after graduation and was a published author, she always felt as if her father felt ashamed of her for not being someone’s wife after all of that time. Sandra was constantly trying to impress her father and have him feel proud of her. He only spoke and read in
Spanish, so until one of her writings were published …show more content…

Once he was able to understand her work, he showed pride in his daughters’ life choices for the first time, and that was very significant for Sandra.
Sandra’s way of telling her story was very intriguing and relatable. She spoke in a very fluid manner, allowing the reader to easily understand her point of view. Her life experiences are a very good source for information and inspiration. She makes the argument that in a Mexican family, the girl is only meant for certain things. “..for the reader’s sake I should have written: “I am the only daughter in a
Mexican family of six son’s.””(1) As a girl from a similar family, I understood this meaning right away.
However, I do not think that she examined this particular portion of her writing enough to help a reader who has no experience with the type of person she is explaining understand what she means.
In some families, being a girl has a very specific meaning. Watching your family uphold traditions that work, such as a common marriage, can make life choices for yourself very simple. However, sometimes that kind of life might not be what makes you happy. I believe Sandra’s father only wanted for his little girl to be taken care of by a man because he believes that only someone like him can

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