Sayed's Journey

Coates’s appeal to pathos by using his experiences as a parent effectively allows his intended audience to experience his own feelings

There are many people who went through challenges like these three people who have been through a lot like Ernesto Galarza, Farah Ahmedi, and Annie Johnson. These three people have been through a lot of challenges. The challenge that Ernesto had faced was that had gone to a new school and had to learn english and Farah Ahmedi had to cross the Pakistan border then Annie Johnson had to raise her own children by herself. However, all three shared an ability to accomplish to overcome their challenges to accomplish their goals.

My drive to help others stems from my time volunteering with the service organization, Rotary, and their leadership program, Camp RYLA. When I attended this camp as a high schooler, I learned invaluable lessons of self-confidence and connecting with others, traits seldom found in a high school environment. My experience at this program inspired me to return as a counselor, where I have been helping foster the growth of today’s youth for the past four years.

By discussing this particular experience in detail, I can begin to understand the specific skills a counsellor may use in many different situations in order to help others (Egan, 2007, p. 13). In this reflective

Parenthood was a factor in the boy’s life, this ideas gives you an insight on what he wanted the reader to convey. here are two different emotions running through this story from both the boys. In the author Wes Moore the emotion you feel while reading it is hurt and compassion.

    Humans have come to a conclusion that all lives are different, but all go through many hardships and tragedies. The impact from a slight difference can vary to be very vast to very small, such a slight difference, however, can change a person’s life as a whole. In the book, The Other Wes Moore: One Name, Two Fates by Wes Moore there is a difference that can be identified between the author’s life and that of the other Wes. This difference, though can be very critical and is ultimately able to lead to a path of triumph or failure for an individual. The lack of involvement a mother has for their child can fundamentally deprive them from succeeding, and parent involvement has the opportunity to

An event very related to his feeling after his father’s death was when he saw

It is easy to blame a child’s upbringing when something goes wrong in their teenage and adult life. However, both Wes Moore’s had a similar childhood yet still ended up with different fates. For example, both of them had absent fathers and were raised by a single parent One of them describes their situation perfectly by telling the other. “Your father wasn’t there because he couldn’t be, my father wasn’t there because he chose not to be “ (Moore 3). A situation where the father is absent is commonly blamed for a misguided life but it is later evident that although there was no father, one of the Wes Moore’s was able to thrive in a positive manner. Since there was a lack of fatherhood, both of them lacked role models, specifically ones that would lead to live positive lives. One Wes Moore chose to retaliate by almost stabbing a neighborhood kid because “it was a pride issue”(Moore 32) and

One’s childhood has a lasting impact on their entire life. Moore’s upbringing and the loving family he was born into, no matter how trivial it may seem, greatly contributed to his success. Wes seemingly grew up the same as any other kid in the Bronx – in a single-parent household, surrounded by bad influences… what separated him from the crowd? His support system: his family, and their ultimate support and sacrifices made all the difference. As a teenager, Wes seemed to be going down the wrong path. He constantly skipped school, his academic failures were overwhelming, and he was even arrested for vandalism. In the case of the other Wes, his family simply let these actions slide, and decision after decision ultimately landed him with a life sentence in prison. The author Wes’s mother, however, refused to allow this behavior to continue. As a method of intervention, she forced Moore to attend Valley Forge, and in doing so, probably saved his career. The extent of his family’s sacrifice was evident on page 95 when Wes realized that “my grandparents took the money they had in the home in the Bronx, decades of savings and mortgage payments, and gave it to my mother

The excerpt summarizes the differences of the two Wes Moores' upbringings and how they were taught to live and think about their fathers. These things ultimately played a role in shaping who they grew up to be. The author's father was a very successful man with good values. With that came the desire to live up to high expectations. Because his father was such a good man, his mother wanted the author to remember the good things about him and to use him as an example. She doesn't want him to, however, ask about him because his death brings back painful memories. The other Wes Moore was taught to forget his father because he was an unreliable alcoholic who never cared about his child. Wes's mother felt that bringing him up would only resurrect bad memories and feelings of abandonment.

“You live here?” He sounds almost astonished, or maybe just doubtful. His voice is still flat and cold, although there was dozens of questions he probably had. This man clearly wasn’t a team player. On closer examination, I realize he is a man. When he was out, his face appeared much younger, innocent. That was the harsh reality of this world, this man had been through an immense amount of pain, I noticed it in his eyes.

When Kevin sees his father almost dying, he begins to think of the fatherless children in the world. He extends grace towards fathers in general by thinking how important a role they play in a child’s life, regardless of the mistakes that they might make. After thinking about fathers in general, he then thinks about his own father and as Bailey puts it, “ The caring-the carefulness-which was the belief in holding on to something worth preserving and passing on. Love. Kevin felt the tide of emotion that had been at its lowest ebb flowing back into him again. He looked to his Dad”. (259-260). Instead of remaining angry at his Dad for previous conflicts or for accidentally shooting his brother, Kevin extends grace to his Dad when he chooses instead to think and remember about all the love and caring his father has ever shown him. When he begins to feel that love for his father, his emotions pick up and that gives him the grace to keep on going without emotionally breaking down.

Khan believes that humanity is just like an aging movie star, the one who must keep shinning despite the different advancements and moral conflicts around them. Khan talks about advancements in such a way of comparing life before and the life today. He claims, “… life was very, very simple then…”. Khan explained, before you just had to eat what you have, work in a place that provided food in the table, married the first girl you dated, and how science was then “simple and logical”. However, it all changed when internet and many different progressions came about.

A childhood is something all people experience and often times reflect upon. These reflections become the basis for many narratives. In Annie Dillard’s essay from An American Childhood, Dillard recalls a time from her childhood when her skill of dedication she learned from playing football was put to use as she was chased by a man she and her friends had thrown snowballs at. In Sarah Vowell’s personal narrative “Shooting Dad,” Vowell learns that different interests does not necessarily indicate different personalities when she attempts to make peace with her ideologically-opposite father by helping fire a cannon he made. Both authors do a great job of telling a childhood narrative; however, Vowell conveys her deeper meaning much better than

Mandvi also wrote about his father, and his struggle throughout life. He talks about how he worked hard for the family. His father worked for Verizon, answering the help line. Mandvi wrote a story about his father getting fired for using profanity with a customer. His father was happy to be fired. Although, he was unhappy with his job, he worked hard for his family. Once he was fired he said he was going to grow chili peppers. Mandvi took after his father’s work ethic, and never gave up, and worked