Self Evaluation Essay

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     Self-evaluation is definitely the most difficult type of criticism to receive. When you are hearing your faults from other people they usually go in one ear and out the other, but when you take a step back and realize for yourself that something needs to be changed within your personality, is it when you truly do something about it. I have a problem with allowing myself to become attached to girls that I have crushes on. I dream about how things could be and I imagine a relationship inside my head far before there is even a chance. I also tend to take any sign of affection as a girl having a “thing” for me. These behaviors are what need to be changed, it has become detrimental to my social life and…show more content…
This always tends to pose a problem because it ends up that I like this girl a whole lot more than she likes me, not only does this sometimes scare girls but it also makes me feel bad. The conclusions I draw from these experiences are that I am either ugly, undateable, or that a girl like this would just never go for a guy like me. That always makes me feel depressed.      What I can do to change this behavior I have was to first acknowledge that I had it. After admitting it I can try and realize what I am doing before I let myself get in too deep with a girl and hopefully not mess everything up and get myself hurt. Another option I have is to maybe talk to a counselor about how I feel and listen to what they say and have them help me be able to handle these simple relationships.      With enough help and by me realizing the problem that I have, I feel that I should hopefully be able to have a normal relationship or at least not obsess over girls anymore. I would love to be able to just meet someone and have a normal, meaningful relationship without screwing it up. When I meet a new girl I will just try and be her friend and not assume anything until there is conclusive evidence to prove that she digs me back. I can not keep assuming things with girls and liking them way more than they like me.      Never again will I allow myself to fall so
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