Society can not tell you who you are, or who you should be; it can only help guide you to look yourself. I had problems trying to find my place on the social scale. It had been a long time since I had to start fresh in a new environment with new people, I had always been with the same clique of people from pre-k to the eighth grade. I did not know what to do when I was placed into a public high school so before I could shut down and fall into a downward spiral I turned to the one place I once neglected; education. Education became my main objective to keep myself focused instead of worrying about being a loner and trying to make friends. The transition from a private school to a public one was not easy, but it was the learning experience I needed push me to find a self-identity and develop an appreciation for education. …show more content…
I had been going to a private christian school for twelve years, it was a small school with about 600 students who were either caucasian, Asian, or Hispanic, with only two blacks in my graduating class. In my experience no one really pay attention to what were grades were or if you really understood the material. I was not pushed to try harder or strive for the best education. I began to think that it was not that important to have one, just try to do what you can and leave everything else to God. I thought I had found my spiritual identity and a solid social group that I would continue to surround myself with. High school was the awakening I needed to set myself on a new path and see the world for what it
Personal identity is essential in the human experience. Identity is complex and can be broken down into two main groups: introspective identity, and bodily identity. Introspective identity is based off of the groups, mentalities, or beliefs that you align yourself with, and bodily identity is based off of the physical side of yourself. Whether physical or introspective, your identity impacts every action you take. Whether choices ranging from what colors you prefer to which college you want to attend are primarily based off of your introspective identity, which is a combination of both memory and consciousness, physical identity impacts how others perceive you. Consciousness is mainly the awareness of bodily identity as well as continuous introspective identify, while memory is awareness of introspective identity. These two different facets of identity are imperative in the distinction between bodily identity and introspective identity. In means of personal identity introspective identity (which is evident in memory), is essential, while bodily identity (based partially in consciousness) has less credit.
There are all these factors that define you in high school and possibly even college such as who you fit in with, what gender you are around more, what your beliefs are, and where you're from or what places you’ve been to. For me, I have always fit in with a compact group of people that accepted me and were much like me in sense of beliefs. Unfortunately, none of my friends have been in my classes since freshman year, since I have always been proficient at the subjects they weren’t and ended up in honors classes. I feel like the only reason that has happened is because I finally feel comfortable enough and encouraged enough by friends that I now believe there is more judging of quality of work by teachers than factors like gender or sexuality that students judge. Since that belief came along education has shaped me into a much fuller person which is why I’m trying my best to knock out one year or so off college while in high
I grew up in small town known as Kinston, where most of my peers were underprivileged like myself. Instead of starting out in public school, I was enrolled into one of the two local charter schools. I was always put in the “smart” group in any activity, but once I started talking with public school kids and learning that we were being taught different made me doubt if I was truly was smart. When I was put in various community groups with majority public school kids, I felt outnumbered and uncomfortable because we had nothing in common. I started high school as a social outcast, but I made some really good friends. After I was put up against the public school kids, I did excel educationally. Instead of hanging out with my friends on the weekend,
Stereotypes have been around since the beginning and continue to hurt the lives of certain people in society. Due to stereotypes and prejudice made by certain people, the author, Evan Hunter, successfully demonstrated through the story “On the Sidewalk Bleeding” the consequences of stereotyping. The story focuses on a sixteen year old boy named Andy, and his last moments being alive after being stabbed by a rival gang known as the Guardians. Andy was stereotyped because of his purple jacket that identified him as a member of the Royals. While he is reflecting on his life, four people come by but do not take the time to help. The drunk man
After various writings by Richard Rodriguez and Octavio Paz, I have come across several realizations. Who am I? Should I be a part of a nation and a “system” that does not value me, or should I be a part of a nation that does not acknowledge my existence? The United States as a nation does not value me, and México does not even know that I exist. These are difficult matters to discuss. We are all in search of our own identity. However, some of us are placed in a situation that makes it very difficult and confusing to know or understand. I have always asked myself, “Who am I?” I should put it in more crude words, “Where do I belong?” After this specific question is asked, I begin to realize that
There are many factors that shape us into who we are, and who we will become. Some of these factors we can control, while others we cannot. While we are born into many traits of our identities, much of our other behavior is learned. My identity, for example, is “based not only on responses to the question ‘Who am I?’ but also on responses to the question ‘Who am I in relation to others?’” (Allen, 2011, p. 11). My identity and the question of who I am, are both influenced by many aspects of my life, including my hometown, my family, my friends, and my beliefs and moral values.
Hello Paige, I live in Edmonton as well. Your hobbies are really interesting! It's always rewarding to indulge in a healthy and calming outlet such as yoga or meditation. I admire your strong sense of identity, you seem incredibly comfortable and confident in yourself and your passions. Although my major is not Psychology, I did take a General Psychology course in high school and I'm enrolled in PSYCH 290 and I have to say it's an extremely fascinating subject; probably one of my favorites this semester. I believe that from reading even a brief introduction about you that such an endeavor truly fits your personality.
Throughout the rest of my middle school days, I would constantly ask my parents to move me to the only private Christian school in the area. Finally, after several months of thinking about it, my parents made the decision to put me in Lafayette Christian School for my high school years. Going to LCS helped me stand firm in my faith while preparing me for the real world at the same time. Like every school, it had its problem areas and kids that wanted to misbehave, but overall the whole atmosphere was completely different. The temptation to go along with the trouble makers was still there, however just not as prevalent. I had Bible class every day and also had teachers that I knew would pray with me if I ever needed anything. Other actions I took to overcome this obstacle was getting involved in the right clubs. Leading middle school girls Bible study for two years was just one way I was able to be held accountable. Being involved in drama, music, and sports kept me so busy I did not have time to worry about drinking, partying, or drugs. The thoughts of trying not to fit in with the rest of the teenagers was challenging but I knew I had other believers behind me giving me their full support. My experience in middle school combined with my teaching from high school gives me full confidence that I will be successful independently in a university
Everybody has an identity, it makes them individual and unique, and it defines who you are as a person. This project about my identity showed me what makes me unique. I would have never known how much my friends mean to me or how my identities connect with each other. I have three identities that make me who I am, cultural, personal, and social. A specific quality that covers my cultural identity is being Czechoslovakian. Both sides of my family have at least a part of Czech in them. My great-grandparents are from Czech Republic and my grandpa was the first generation in America, he was born in Ohio. This is very important because I have always identified as Czech and it is a big part of me, as I am so interested in ancestry. For my personal identity, the biggest part is my personality, being loud and outgoing, has always been important to me. The reason being, it is how people view me. A lot of people know me as the loud person or the person who talks a lot. That is meaningful to me considering I like people to view me in a certain way The last identity, social, is one of the most important to me because it involves my friends, and through this project, I learned how vital they really are to my social identity. I realized that I have a good amount of friends in this project. It is nice to have people as a support system and to relate with. These qualities show that I value being loud and outgoing. It also says that I value my family and they are a big part of life. The last one, social, ties in with the first one because it shows I am outgoing and friendly.
There are numerous factors that either make up or restrain the self-identity of a person or an individual. Culture, in addition to family traditions, is one of the factors that affect the self-identity of an individual. When growing up, the environment around affect the personality, values, as well as, beliefs of an individual. The environment includes friends, family members, and the people that affect the life of an individual. So, if the environment is negative, then an individual will have low self esteem.
At first glance you can label me many things. Throughout my life I have been placed many labels that I agree with and some I do not but this is with everyone I believe. As I continue to grow up my identity will continue to alter however, as a child, I never understood this and caused this to be an issue. Self-identity helps you become who you are and guides you to be the person you aspire to be. My identity was always something I struggled with because I didn’t understand that I could classify as something more than just a Hispanic, girl, living in a bad community.
Self-identity means the finding of a person’s qualities and the potential that a person has, especially given in a social context.( Self-identity can also be a vital part in literature based on how characters in a novel are treated in the world they are living in. In literature, self-identity, in many ways, can be an important part in the way a character is shaped and developed through a story. Self-identity can show many ideas of a character changing form the way they act to the way they dress, from beginning to end. One’s sense of self-identity can be created based several different factors. In the novels Thirteen Reasons Why, Perks of Being a Wallflower, and Five People You Meet in Heaven, characters create their self-identities based
A sense of self is a general conscious awareness of your own identity. I have come to understand the term as it is what defines me and makes me one of a kind. It could be a certain look, attitude or personality trait. It could also be the way I view a certain person, thing or subject. My sense of self could even be my purpose in life, perhaps? If it is, then I would say that my sense of self is something that has changed over time and will continue to develop as I get older and my life is influenced by events, places and people. Developing my sense of self is key to living a satisfying and healthy life.
Many events, people, and situations have shaped me into the individual I am. As I have grown up, I have developed my own personality and identity. Though I have had a great childhood, there have been times when I, along with my abilities, have been doubted. These situations taught me how to overcome obstacles, but they also helped me realize I am a competitive person who enjoys succeeding despite limitations. When my skills are doubted, I take it as a challenge to prove I can do whatever I set my mind to.
Self-identity is molded as a young age, but continues to change as we get older. This is something that we all do not realize. During a person’s lifetime many of us pause to think what influence a person’s identity. What makes us the individual that we are? I would say that it is our home, where we live with our parents and siblings. Why do we have trust in certain things? Why do we believe the way we do? I would say it is based on the way we were taught and raised a set of opinions that have been instilled in a person since they were young. I would say that their three great influences in my life that makes me who I am today my parents, my religion and my culture.