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Self Reflection

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Wherever there are people, there will be problems. Often times, the real problem lies underneath a myriad of more complicated issues. Only by discovering the actual dilemma, can an individual address the pervading issue. Through an appealing narrative of a person facing real life difficulties in his personal and professional life, The Arbinger Institute bring to light the undeniable way people betray their true self and undermine their own success. Through personal self-examination and application of the principles presented in this book, I have been able to make the necessary adjustments to view others appropriately.
Self Discoveries The book has been instrumental in exposing hidden motives deep within my spirit. An essential …show more content…

Additionally, I have discovered that I am prone to view people other than individuals with the same innate desires that I possess. I am quick to give myself the benefit of the doubt, however I tend to refrain from giving the same consideration to others, especially individuals I take issue with. After reading the book, I have found that I do not see the individual as a person, but I see them as a character flaw, incompetent, rude, or an obstacle in my life. In essence, I have removed their humanity from them and reduced them to a non-personal being. The ease and simplicity of entering the box was another principle I encountered by reading the book. As I examine past conflicts, I am acutely aware how easy it is for self-betrayal and self-deception. Those moments of self-betrayal and self-deception occur in a split second. I do not recall having a lengthy debate or conflict about whether or not I should do the right thing to others. And just as quick, I seek to justify my failure to act in accordance to my beliefs. It seems to quickly snowball into a distorted view of reality; where I am not the perpetrator, but the victim. It takes very little effort to portray the other person as the offending party, while I relish the part of the victim. And that is the intoxicating aspect of being in the box. It paints a beautifully distorted picture of

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