Self Reflection Paper

A bit surreal today as I sit down and write my first paper in almost 20 years. I’ve spent the last 10 years trying to be very concise in my communication, to the point and easy to skim the important facts to ensure what I need to get across will be read. The fact that I am having some emotional response to the stress related to routinely writing papers that ‘feel long’ is just a great example of some of what I learned from my MBTI/Firo B results.

There is a lot of pressure growing up in a small town where everyone knows you. My mom raised me to alway express myself and to be open minded in life. In the small town I grew up in, everyone knew you and news spread fast. Because of this I tried being like others, instead of being true to myself like I was always told me. After letting go of the ridiculous idea that I have to be like others, I now have no problem letting my real self be seen and showing others that they can also be themselves.

I was born to a teenaged Chinese-American mother in 1997. At the time, my parents lived in Concord, California, but I was raised mostly by my mother’s parents in Sacramento. My mother wanted to continue her education at UC Berkeley, the university she had gotten into, and did not want having a child to limit her education. Unfortunately, as my grandmother’s mental health deteriorated and my grandfather’s career shifted, they eventually had to move away to Utah because my grandfather, who worked in the air force, was placed at a military base there. The sole responsibility of raising a child then fell on my mother, who was focused on getting her degree. Due to financial issues, she eventually dropped out and moved to Sacramento with my father.

I will never have my father’s smile or my mother’s eyes. My skin tone will also never match their pale skin even though I am their daughter. Although my siblings and I are all adopted from China, growing up in this unique family dynamic played an integral role in my development. I have grown to realize my ethnicity and upbringing are not labels used by my peers to define me. My background has helped me push through social barriers to build friendships. It challenged me to impel beyond the world’s “black and white” boundaries to see a society that thrives on diversity. My multicultural background equipped me with experiences that gave me a new perspective on privilege and responsibility, preparing me to overcome obstacles in the global industry

In this paper I plan to briefly review what happened during the counseling demonstration. Next, I will discuss two basic counseling skills that I believe I used well, and one that I struggled with. Finally, I will discuss the next steps I will take in order to improve my counseling skills.

I was inspired by the content this week so much so that I incorporated digital storytelling into the UNIV 100 course I am teaching. One of the requirements for the course is to attend four outside events and write a one-page paper about each experience. The third paper is due within two weeks, and students have tended to dread the activity, waiting until the last minute to decide on the event and submit the paper.

Upon completing the "Self-Assessment on South Asian American Culture Issues", I scored an average of six. I was not surprised at my knowledge of Asian cultures, mainly comprises of cultures pertaining to Japan and China; my knowledge of the South Asian countries is an admitted weakness. Furthermore, I believe my average score correlates to the plethora of cultures within the Asian continent that, while I may have a strong baseline understanding of Asian culture, there is significant diversity within Asian continent countries that more in depth cultural learning is required. For instance, learning more about reticence, where youth are preferred to be seen and not heard was an unknown cultural concept to me. Likewise, I was aware of the myriad

The clocks at LIH appeared to be online and communicating to the WDM. I began my check to start data collection that is when I realized the clocks are not operating normally. I tried to reboot, initialize, and test both clocks though it appeared the clocks were in the process of successfully completing the task, it failed. Within the last two hours, I managed to get both clocks to complete a data collection successfully. I contacted Kari, LIH Coordination Center and request to have a TSO swipe their badge on both clocks located at the Checkpoint and Break Room, respectively.

Generational Differences and The American Dream As our parents and grandparents who enjoyed the American experience before us, we have been told that with hard work and determination anything is possible. Yet the older children get, the more they have to define their own identity and explore what this elusive “American Dream” might hold for them. Amy Tan who grew up in San Francisco enables her readers to understand what it was like to grow up in-between American and Chinese culture. She shows them that children do not have to sacrifice their own identity in the process of reconciling hard work with the expectations of parents and society.

did not fare as well as I expected on my portfolio. I enjoyed this class immensely too, including my professor, Dr. Susan DeLuke. I learned a great deal during the course as well as after the course from Dr. DeLuke, with the multiple homework assignments, and papers, and achieved very good grades under her guidance. However, applying it to the portfolio was challenging. It was a great deal to absorb, retain and get accurate in a short amount of time and I have a tendency to let tasks likes these overwhelm me. I know I could have performed better on my portfolio now. I went from an A in this class to a C+ because of my final portfolio. I thought I did well on it, and I did not. It was very disappointing results for both the student and Professor

I started out my session making some small talk with my client, Shaindy. We discussed how things went the previous week and what we’re looking forward to accomplish in the upcoming week.

Fear and happiness of moving to America had sparked this sudden arrangement, a party in Daqing, to celebrate their marriage. The USA was a foreign place, with strangers, no cell phones, and very expensive costs to communicate with China. Therefore, the best- and only- way for them to survive and be happy in this new place was to join, forever, living together in their happily married home in Houston. The ceremony was exciting and memorable, held in a restaurant specifically for marriages where my father lived, surrounded by many friends from throughout elementary, middle, and high school. Shortly after, they moved to the USA, where unfamiliar sights greeted them as they started a new life there. As they arrived in America, a new place with unfamiliar sights, strange people, and foreign ways, a friend of my father’s father picked them up and helped them adapt to the new environment in Texas. Watching the wonders and fears in the new world, she started to have doubts about their decision to reside in America. With barely any contact, and expensive ones at that, to China, she felt stranded in this city. Though their original plan was to pursue their career and a better education, regrets began forming as she processed what had happened fully for the first time since their departure. But her concerns were in vain; this was their choice, and there was no turning back now. The only thing she could hope for was success among this difficulty and overseas future, that was the path she had wished for all these years, and it was just aspiration and the distant light in the future keeping them

“The only limitations you ever have in life are the ones you put in your mind.” This quote by Napoleon Hill changed the way I have faced various obstacles and is one that I carry in my thoughts. It serves as a vivid reminder not give up at first glance or allow others negativity and limitations to steer my path. Instead, I learned to keep moving forward to surpass even my expectations and achieve what people believe to be impossible. Looking back at all my experiences, the goals I have accomplished and the lessons I have learned otherwise, I realize that many were thought to have been out of reach. Furthermore, I've been put down by others saying it would require more effort than I could provide, discouraging me from even attempting. However, when put through adversity and challenging situations, I was able to commit to a life-changing decision that has altered my life into something I never thought possible.

At the tender age of two, I was at the JFK airport crying goodbye to my parents who had bought me a one-way ticket to China. My parents didn’t have a single idea on how to raise kids, so they sent me to more experienced help—my grandparents. In the countryside of China, my grandparents raised me for nearly three years until my parents moved to a quiet city. By the time I returned to the U.S, my parents had moved from the bustling city of New York to the calm southern side of Indiana and I had begun my education at an all-American elementary school.

I am now approaching the conclusion of my college career and starting to adjust to work life. This is a period of self-reflection and an attempt to put everything I learned into perspective. During this period of my life, I have been constantly thinking and contemplating my future. I feel very anxious yet nervous during this time while I am adjusting to this new stage of my life. When I was in High school my life was very structured, because I could be very dependent on peoples help and I obviously still lived with my family. When I went to college, I had to break away from that feeling of dependency and start the adjusting to adulthood. In college there was more responsibility and I started to become more independent. This was a crucial step in my life but choosing a career is going to be an even bigger step. It is a bigger step because; I have to start structuring my career goals and family goal for the future. At this moment all I can think about is my career, and how I can I keep improving myself for work life.