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Sexual Assault/Rape Victim

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The first question a sexual assault/rape victim hears should not be “what were you wearing”? There are many reasons why clothing should not be mentioned when it comes to sexual assault or rape cases. Many people like to blame the victim by saying they got raped because of their clothes or because they were out too late. Some people blame the victim because they don't want to face the fact that bad things, like rape, actually do happen. Sexual assault and rape should be about the self-control of the attacker, not the clothing of the victim. Clothing does not cause rape or sexual assault and clothing is not consent.
“To escape from the fact that violent sexual assault is a threat to all women,' 36 women may choose strategies such as blaming the …show more content…

“We don’t warn young men not to tempt their teachers with their bare biceps, knees or other body parts” (Kendall). Yet, in many places in America, you will find that women are constantly ridiculed for their clothing at the time of their attack. “Despite the fact that 9 percent of sexual assault victims are young men, we don’t insist that they dress differently” (Kendall). If
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we wouldn’t ridicule a man for what they were wearing during a sexual attack; then why ridicule a woman for what she was wearing during her attack.
In sexual assault and rape cases, people should be blaming the attacker’s lack of self control. “The perpetrator selects the victim- the victim’s behavior or clothing choices do not mean that they are consenting to sexual activity” (Rape Victim Advocates). Clothing can not control people's’ actions, people control people’s actions. Clothing can’t talk; so how can someone say that the clothing a woman was wearing shows her consent or the clothing she was wearing meant she wanted the rape to happen. Rapists don't pick their victims because of clothing, they pick their victims based on opportunity. The fact that people even think that the victims’ clothing is the cause for their rape or sexual assault is absurd. “Studies show

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