Sexuality Reflection

A phenomenon that remained constant in the Dominican Republic and in the United States was that of masculinity. In both cultures, the idea of “machismo” is extremely prevalent and inevitably determines the manner in which a man can act in society. Although I am privileged as a man in our larger society, there are many disadvantages that come with being a man of color in our society. In Dominican culture, there is a heightened sense of masculinity, and the standards of what a man is supposed to be are so difficult to obtain. To be masculine in Dominican culture is to assume the role of “machismo” by forgetting about feelings and emotions. Everything from how men act, to what men dress like is determined by this idea. Following this idea, I have to almost treat women as inferior and make them follow the ideals of the submissive housewife. Even more so, I am supposed to spend an immense amount of time chasing after women and trying to win them over through derogatory means. I did not like the idea of “machismo” and it never peaked my interest as a child, but my father’s involvement in my life deeply affected the manner in which I perceived masculinity. When my father was present in my life, he made sure to constantly remind me of what a man was supposed to be. He always told me that I was not allowed to cry because men do not cry, and said that I always had to be strong because someday I would have to provide for my wife and I could not be weak in order to do that. With this

Before this class I believed men and women’s gender roles in society were strictly defined. As I gained more knowledge from the Critical Thinking Reader, The Grapes of Wrath, and my research project, I learned that gender roles change based on an individual’s environment, socio-economic standing, and societal norms/expectations. These resources helped clarify that men and women’s roles in society are interchangeable and there are no definite lines or barriers that keep them from fulfilling all roles, that being said men and women can also remain stuck in the roles society has traditionally seen them in.

When I signed for the human sexuality class, I was so excited to take the class and learn more about sex and gender in a psychological matter. What made me more curious to take this class two elements. Firstly, I have never taken a human sexuality class before neither in schools nor colleges. Secondly, we know that every culture has different beliefs about sex, and as I am an international student and have a different background about sex, I wanted to gain experience from other cultures that will make my thoughts to be more broadened and will extremely help me in my future career.

It is assumed by most that we will all be able to grow up, fall in love, get married, and then have children of our own. This is not the lifestyle that all people choose, but it is still the view accepted by the majority of society. What happens when the unthinkable occurs and a happily married couple is unable to get pregnant? This is a reality for 7.1%, or 2.8 million, of the married couples in the United States (Lenox, 1999). Today, there are many people all over the world that decide to use fertility treatments to help them conceive a child, and this often leads to the birth of twins, triplets, or even higher order multiples. There are many risk factors that are involved in this type of

There are different countries and cultures in the world. Sometimes when Americans view other cultures’ values the actual truth becomes distorted. In her article “Americanization is tough on the Macho,” Rose Del Castillo Guilbault examines the concept of macho from both the Hispanics and Americans perspective. The Hispanic view of macho embodies a man described by Guilbault as manly, responsible, hardworking, a patriarch and a person who expresses strength through silence. She describes her father as a man who “handled most menial task with pride.” In a patriarchal society such as Mexico, the man is regarded as the nucleus of the family. The man represents

Passing presents us with two women who are similar bet different in their sexuality, these levels are identity, race, and class division. Irene and Claire fight to support and defend their own race and endure polite society. The commonality between these two women are Irene Redfield is passing through polite society and Clair is completely passing as white along with her white husband not knowing the truth. Color lines as white. She controls her entire family to ensure that not a word of dissatisfaction is said about her. In her fantasy world, she had not deserted her own African American inheritance. Instead of embracing who she is on the inside, Irene sees the outward white world as something to gravitate to, mimic, and aspire to. This time

I think gender roles are changing and will continue to change in the future. I do not think gender roles will go away but I do think they will be modified. Gender stereotypes will always be around because of females and males physical appearances, athletics, academics, moral-ethical, and self- satisfactions. The social role theory makes the differences seem larger because they have been exaggerated through our culture. If people follow the “roles” females and males are supposed to play then I believe they will not be gone in the future. I believe that men will always look down on women and think they cannot do something and that will motivate women to work harder to achieve that goal and surprise the men. I do not know why men or

I found it fascinating that they counsel women to deal with sexuality and gender appropriate roles. The first idea that I would like to discuss is the idea that we as a species have created this false sense of roles for each gender is ridicules. Women can procreate ideas equivalent to men. The ability to critically think and analyze is equal in both genders. The division of genders does not define a person, or their character. The mere difference between both genders is biology; and in the prehistoric eras, men were determined to fight and protect and women were designated for reproduction and nurture. In todays civilized society, it is irrelevant because the gender roles can be overlapped. Women can fight alongside men in the army and men can nurture children because the notion that men have to keep up to the brave persona

You can make a case to go in several directions when discussing the book Born on The Fourth of July by Ronald Kovic. At the very least you can make a case to touch on each point that have been laid out for us. For this paper I will evaluate how Kovic adjusted back to civilian life, not just as a veteran, but one who very literally gave up three-fourths of his body for his country. I will also analyze how Kovic dealt with his experiences involving sexuality and how a sense of community helped Kovic through even his most difficult of times.

Infertility is a big topic in the book One Foot in Eden by Ron Rash. This affects many charters in the story like the Sheriff and his wife. The sheriff and his wife are happily married but the moment that changed them forever was the night the sheriff’s wife woke up bleeding. The sheriff’s wife had a miscarriage and was told that she was infertile. This made them very distant from each other This is the same case with Amy and Billy but a different scenario. Billy is told that his sperm count is to low to have kids and is declared infertile. “Doctor Wilkins looked under the microscope… He finally took his eyeball off the microscope and said I can’t find a

The cultural topic that our class looked at was the impact gender roles have in Latin American communities. Machismo was one specific gender role that was highly discussed in our interactive oral. The articles that we were provided with talked a lot about the idea of machismo, more specifically how it impacts the way men act and feel in Latin American societies. Machismo can be defined as the social expectations that men have in Latin American societies. Expectations for men are things such as being masculine and not showing weakness by going to the doctor. Men can also almost do whatever they want sexually in a machismo society and not receive any consequences. Last but not least, one of the most important expectations in a machismo society

Gender roles are social constructs that defines what sort of behaviors are acceptable for men or women. These rigid expectations teach people through socialization that we should think, speak, dress, and be a certain way depending on which gender we are. When we are young we learn the behaviors that are socially appropriate for males and females; these behaviors are often based on gender stereotypes. For example, women are expected to love shopping and take care of domestic duties like cleaning the house, while men are expected to love sports and to work outside the home in an industry like construction or engineering. While men and women do have distinct differences that can 't always be chalked up to social imposition, these ideas of what it means to be male or female can be very harmful to people 's identity. People are often judged and scrutinized for failing to fit into the box society creates for them based on their gender. There are quite a few double standards that exist regarding gender. It is unfair to judge people more harshly for something based solely on their gender, and one common example of this is sexual behavior. Women are judged harshly for the same sexual behavior that men are praised for. This sexual double standard can have devastating effects on women who get labeled as “sluts.” Men who are thought to have a higher number of sexual partners or be more sexually

Beauty: beauty is measured in all kinds of way some good some bad, some realistic some unrealistic. Most of it though I believe comes from within, only then can someone let go of the unrealistic self images that the world puts on guys and girls. People who have addiction problems like myself should read the story of “Beauty: When the other dancer is the self” because in the world of addiction things are very ugly and I tend to think of myself as ugly and unloved, that no one wants me around and I need substances to make me feel loved by others or accepted and that people going through these struggles can easily relate.

Furthermore, Bordo’s writing suggests another angle of masculinity by discussing the history of the development of the phallic object. In a period of the attempt to understand the phallic object, sexuality became an issue and embarrassment for the soul. An erect penis became the symbol for the lack of self-control and irrational desires. Bordo states, “Not surprisingly, the penis began to be seen as an object of shame, a rebellious little piece of flesh that kept pursuing the body’s irrational desires,” (Bordo, 90). This depiction ceased male superiority from paralleling sexual capabilities. This argument counters Kimmel’s by suggesting that the penis does not give power to a male-bodied person, but instead, the penis needs to be hidden from view to suggest intellectual potential and respect of an individual. This type of view can be considered “masculine shame”; however, this view

Martin McDonald is a 31 year old man who has been diagnosed as having a low sperm count, low sperm motility, and a high percentage of abnormal sperm cells. He has been married for six years and his wife has already undergone three unsuccessful attempts at artificial fertilisation and one unsuccessful attempt at in vitro