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Sharon Old Life

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Major events in a person’s life have a long lasting impact on them and help them to become the person they are today. These events help provide them with inspiration for their art. Artists and poets alike use their own lives as inspiration for their works. Sharon Olds is no exception to this statement. Sharon Olds is one of the nation’s finest contemporary poets, and in order to see why Sharon Olds’s poetry is so profound, it is necessary to understand the events that shaped Sharon Olds as a person herself. These events are all featured in the majority of her writings. Sharon Olds’s strong Calvinist upbringing, her divorce, and her alcoholic father are all mirrored in her poetry. One aspect of Olds’s life that is echoed in her poetry is …show more content…

Olds was the daughter of an alcoholic father (Smith). Alcoholics tend to release their anger on those who they feel are below them like their children or spouses (Widom). Studies have shown that alcohol abuse increases the likelihood of violence often leading to the sexual or physical abuse of children (Widom). Though Olds was never sexually abused, she did grow up with a history of physical abuse (Smith). The physical abuse that Olds endured as a child can be seen in her writings, for example in the poem “The Day They Tied Me Up” when Olds says, “None of the pain was sharp. The sash was / soft, its cotton blunt, it held my / wrist like a bandage to the back of the chair” and “You won’t be fed till you / say you’re sorry” (lines 1-3 and 23-24). Later in this poem, Olds states she was “used to that” reaffirming the fact that this abuse was a daily occurrence (“The Day They Tied Me Up” lines 6-7). Additionally, alcoholism is hereditary or passed from parent to child (Taibbi). Taibbi states that “boys of alcoholic fathers have a four to ten times greater risk of becoming alcoholics themselves”. Olds’s father, who was a child of an alcoholic, is mentioned in the poem “The Guild” (Smith). Olds says “That was his son, who sat, an apprentice, / night after night, his glass of coals / and he drank when the old man drank, and he learned / the craft of oblivion” (The Guild” lines 12-16). After growing up in such a pernicious environment, it is easy to see why Olds focused much of her poetry on her abusive

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