LOVER
Well, you’re an adult so stand up to her. I think she’ll respect you for it.
SON
Any sign of defiance is greeted with emotional blackmail. She’s great at imposing her indomitable will…that the only solace for me is to keep as far away from her as humanly possible. Besides, you don’t know her.
LOVER
I believe I have an understanding of her faults…more than you can possibly imagine.
SON
How can you be so certain?
LOVER
Your father speaks to me about her.
SON
Well, he’s no good at judging character unless writing a story…he creates the perfect protagonist…if I were created according to his literary parameters, then perhaps he wouldn’t be so aloof, so cold and uncaring towards me. I suspect that writing is dad’s only form of escaping from mother.
LOVER
It is not entirely your father’s fault…some of that blame rests with your mother.
SON
Why are you defending my dad? The way you look at me seems to suggest you greatly admire him…or even…or even love the old bastard.
LOVER
You’re mistaken!
SON
Ah, don’t lie. There’s too much mendacity in this world.
LOVER
Well, the world is going to the dogs.
SON
Don’t get me started, especially concerning the war in Vietnam. Mum believes it is my duty to stop the evil communist from taking over. Even, even if it means the sacrifice of her only child.
LOVER
I see. Are you going to comply with her desires?
SON
Honestly, I don’t know…if I don’t follow through…I’ll be labelled by society and mother as a draft dodger.
Do you ever wonder if your parents raised you the right way? Are you satisfied of what you have done throughout the years with or without your parents? These questions captive a reader’s mind while reading “How to Talk to Your Mother’’. Lorrie Moore’s story has a very compelling, emotional plot where it introduces a distinctive style of writing that foreshadows events and contains melodramatic characters. It makes it interesting by presenting Virginia’s significant memories in reversible chronological order from the present day until her childhood days.
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The journey that Richard and Mildred Loving took is important for history and for the future of civil rights in the United States. I recently watched the documentary The Loving Story and enjoyed the footage, pictures, and interviews of everyone involved in the Loving v. Virginia case. The documentary addressed the issue of interracial marriage in Virginia in 1967.
The narrator and his father have the kind of relationship where on the surface it might come off as cold because they’re reserved and don’t openly share thoughts and emotions but, underneath it all, the narrator must feel some respect for his father because he still contemplates over the advice his father gave him.
My father was always a significant part of my brother and I’s childhood, never
Right, go ahead and hit the table in frustration. Get mad all you want to. There is just no way I’m letting you move to the evil city. A place full of crime and discrimination. Not a chance in the world. No, no, no. I wish she could see herself right now. She’s acting like a complete child. Obviously, she isn’t qualified to play cards against her mother.
My feelings have changed, though. I don’t giggle anymore, at least not around my father. And I don’t fell pressured to compete with him the way I thought necessary for years. Now my father is not really so strong as he used to be and I am getting stronger. This change in strength comes at a time when I am growing faster mentally than at any time before. I am becoming less my father and more myself. And as a result, there is less of a need to be set apart from him and his command. I am no longer a rebel in the household, wanting to stand up against the master with clenched fists and tensing jaws, trying to impress him with my education or my views on religion. I am no longer a challenger, quick to correct his verbal mistakes, determined to beat him whenever possible in physical competition.
In Raymond Carver’s short story, “What We Talk About When We Talk About Love,” Mel, Terri, Nick, and Laura we drinking gin and have a unique conversation about what the concept of love meant for them. Laura is sitting there with her husband, Nick, just listening to Mel and Terri go on and on with his stories. The story that Terri tells about her love interpretation isn’t exactly a happy one, causing the tone to turn to a more pessimistic view on love. Terri starts out by telling a story of her Ex, who abused her and Mel for a while before killing himself. It was obvious that this relationship was far from healthy, but Terri insisted that her Ex loved her. Laura was asked to state her opinion but she simply said, “‘I don’t know anything about
The responses I received were not what I expected in the slightest. My dad greeted me with the usual, “Hey, how’s it going?” and was fully expecting to hear chatter about my day. Instead, I stopped to ask him with whom I was speaking. He paused, and with his favorite Darth Vader tone, responded, “I am your father.” He also made numerous attempts to break my strange new identity by asking personal questions, such as “How has your day been?” and “How was babysitting?” I persistently responded with, “I'm very sorry, but I am not sure what you are talking about!” His mood was not easy to deal with, nor was his relentless
Love is difficult to define, difficult to measure, and difficult to understand. Love is what great writers write about, great singers sing about, and great philosophers ponder. Love is a powerful emotion, for which there is no wrong definition, for it suits each and every person differently. Whether love is between family, friends, or lovers, it is an overwhelming emotion that can be experienced in many different ways.
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