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Silver Linings Playbook Psychology

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The movie Silver Linings Playbook, by David O. Russel, depicts two main characters, Patrick and Tiffany. They both struggle with psychological disorders. Patrick who was a former high school teacher who catches his wife in shower with another man. As a result he spend eight months in a hospital and is diagnosed with bipolar disorder. While on the other side, Tiffany who is hit by a wave of depression due to a sudden car accident that kills her husband and lost her job. Many people believe love just happens – once it appears, it endures. But there is a basic rule of romantic stages which is perfectly depicted in the movie. Romantic relationships come together and fall apart in many ways and at as many different speeds as partners are different …show more content…

They progress beyond casual dating and find out yourself has a strong feeling and attraction toward another person. When that happens, I see it as Intensifying. The third stage is Intensifying. During this stage, Pat and Tiffany becomes less formal and other people will think they are committed to each other. Tiffany begins to use the word “we” more often and she meets Pat’s family. Their conversation has no limitation and they are freely to discuss mostly anything. However, their relationship starts to go downhill when Pat finds out the letter was not deliver to his wife and she never made any contact with Pat’s wife. Pat gets upset and they enter a stage called Circumscribing. In Circumscribing, partners will limit their conversation both quantity, quality, and tend to avoid certain subjects and will have boundaries in their personal space. When Pat walks in to the practice room, he simply says, “Hey” and sits down without a word. Tiffany knew something was wrong. Similarly, she sat down and said nothing. During this scene, we see less quantity of conversation. They restrict the quality of conversation. In the same scene, Pat and Tiffany only exchange less than five words. They did not communicate about the issue at hand that would lead to an argument. Tiffany and Pat both sat away from each other and maintain their own personal space. The relationship worsen and we enter the next stage, Stagnating. In this stage, partners feel “stuck” or “trapped”. The lack of verbal communication can be deadly to end the relationship. In the “tie” scene, Tiffany feels trapped because she had to perform the dance with Pat while acting they are alright. In reality, she is very upset as Pat anticipate his reunion with Nikki (Pat’s wife). The tension in the tie scene was not show verbally but Tiffany was very frustrated and even exploded her feeling by grunting and walking away when she had trouble fixing Pat’s tie. In this

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