Skills Project--Shyness Essay

When I was little, I was very shy around new people. I usually only showed who I actually was around my family. I didn’t have a friend who I could be myself around, they were usually just friends who I would play with at recess. That was until everything changed, and I moved across the town of Derby.

I like to think I am confident, outgoing, and a social butterfly but I am also a little shy. However, a lot of times I pull courage out of nothing and like to do crazy things. An example of this would be over the summer when I was all by myself for 3 hours at the airport in Atlanta. I flew to my grandma’s

Since I was young, there was a communication barrier that existed between me and the outside world. My shyness led me to many downfalls on my academic side. Not understanding a topic would mean that I would never be able to clarify any questions that were on my mind. Until around 6th grade, I always considered myself introverted; I had the inability to blend in with strangers, peers and teachers.

Self confidence is the foundation of success, achievement, and happiness. Unfortunately, the foundation of self confidence can become shaky and unstable if someone that you look up to as a role model hurts your self esteem and courage. One of the biggest role models in my life used to be my first club soccer coach. He seemed brilliant, passionate, and willing to work with my team. This man soon became the complete opposite of what I hoped he would be. I soon realized that he was a two faced liar and one of the most awful people I have ever met. Little did my ten year old self know he would be the downfall of my self confidence and he would slowly destroy any passion I had for the sport I loved all with only a few words.

Listening to their stories and hearing about very interesting things that had happened in their past. I connected with them and it was a risk because they are all suffering, many of them terminally ill. They could die at any moment and I still took the chance to become close friends with them.

I’m pretty shy but i’m slowly learning to not be because being shy misses a lot of possibilities you want to do but being shy passes those

Everyone knows the feeling of wanting to speak to someone yet the fear of rejection is stuck in the back of your mind, refusing to leave. "Painfully shy", a term used by fellow peers when describing me, and I must admit that they are far from wrong. I find myself stuck in an endless cycle of worry and regret, missing out on great opportunities as the thought of socialising with people I don't know makes my stomach churn and my palms sweat, a wave of nausea crashing over my entire being. I don't think "shy" is the correct label for me. However, I'm unsure what it is that's wrong with me, nor do I know if I will ever find out.

Honestly for most of my life I've never been the most outgoing person in the world. I suppose a stranger would've called me reserved, but I knew that deep down inside that I had the ability to not be “that shy girl”.In time it did turn out I did have that I did have the ability not to be so quiet but it did take me quite a while; one experience in particular did in a way force me to come out of my shell.

I am connected to the bigger world by sort of being behind the curtain. I am not a person who like t be in the spotlight. I try to be one of those people who in behind the scenes tell and teach the people in the spotlight what t do and say. I value influencing the world through other people. I value happiness and family, peace, and wisdom. I may probably have many more values but, maybe I haven't found or realized them. If I were to have the power to change something about myself, I would change the shyness that I have when I am the spotlight of a large crowd or maybe not just a large crowd. Sometimes I get shy in front of a very small group of people.

As a little girl, I was the child who would never let go of my parents. If anyone ever glanced over at me they would catch me either wrapping my whole body around my Mom's legs or begging my Dad to pick me up and hold me. Even worse, if any adults dare took the chance to come over and talk to me I would hide my face, thinking they couldn’t see me so I would never have to talk to anyone. I was shy. Simple as that, talking to people was something I feared the most.

When I was little, I was little shy around new people, I am still a little shy, but have become more of a people person.

After an interaction is initiated with a stranger or acquaintance, do your conversations typically proceed in disarray? Your mind races, you struggle with delivering a coherent message, but even more so the only thing you can focus on is your restless actions and how painfully inconsistent your paralanguage sounds. On the contrary, behind closed doors few people know that you are sort of like a big deal. Maybe you can’t relate to the prior, but it provides some insight into my own internal problem that I’ve struggled with until recently; appearing timid in certain social situations. Though, most of these episodes occur with unfamiliar people, it has surfaced among friends as well, but the likelihood and intensity of these behaviors appear to

As a little boy I grew up in a loving home. I went to an extremely small private Christian school that taught me everything I needed to know to be successful in life, except for one thing; how to get out of my comfort zone. I wouldn’t say I was shy as a child, but I never took risks to meet new people unless they took the initiative.

I do feel as though I experience some form of communication apprehension if I am talking to a peer that I don’t know too well. I usually don’t know what to talk about. I hesitate in sharing some things because I’m not sure how the other person is going to react. A lot of the time I think interpersonal conversations with people I don’t know well drain me. For example, on campus I have a lot of acquaintances that I run into every now and then. I find it awkward having to mutually stop and have a quick usually impersonal interaction. If I know I’m going to run into someone like that I get anxious, I would much rather walk a different route and avoid the situation all

Social skills are the skills or tools a person or people use to communicate and interact with one another, both verbally or non-verbally, through gestures, body language or personal appearance. Although, human beings are sociable creatures and have developed many methods to communicate our messages, thoughts and feelings with others. Developing social skills is about being aware of how we communicate with each other.