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Social And Biological Gender Differences

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Yuanqi Li
11.27.2014
Linguistics 3A

Social and Biological Gender Differences
“Shenzhen: 2.08m Yuan; Beijing: 2.02m Yuan; Shanghai: 2.01m Yuan; Hangzhou: 1.78m Yuan…”[1], announced by Baidu, the largest Chinese web search provider, gives marriage costs in 2014, China. Suffering this high marriage cost for a decade, Chinese are becoming numb with these data. Statics show that marriage cost is 150 times higher than 30 years ago. Jianzhong, a RUC sociology professor says, “Increasing marriage cost shows women’s status in marriage is moving up”. It is true. Treated much fairly these decades, Chinese women show their energy and ability not only in the society, but also in marriages. However, when considering a successful marriage, what is …show more content…

With many women’s liberation movement around the world, women’s social status has improved, which is much better than hundreds years ago. However, as Shakespeare wrote in Hamlet, “Frailty, thy name is woman!”, this was a problem in the past, and will be a problem in the future. People should consider this problem in marriage. Women are hard to find jobs and promotions. Though law enforces firms to hire women, they are still suffering discrimination. This problem leads to a weak position for women in the marriage. Spontaneously, women need financial support from their husbands. As takers, women lose their initiatives in families. In some sense, they become appending to their husbands. In case marriages broke, they will be left forlorn and without a protector. In China, women are going to live with their husbands, sometimes with the whole family of their husbands. Women need to handle many complex relationships with husbands’ families. In a big family, they are always considered as strangers, making them unable to deal with family issues. What’s worse, they are even considered only as fertility tools sometimes. What they can do is to give a son to their husband’s family. On the contrary, men are free to go to work, to enjoy and to play outside. Marriage means they have a fulltime housekeeper in their home. Women are locked after getting marriage. These problems need to be considered in a marriage. Before getting

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