People will judge others solely based on their physical appearances. In the short story, “The Story of my body,” the author, Judith Ortiz Cofer comes to relations with this. She describes how she was victim of judgment because she was a kid whom looked different than most American kids. Ortiz Cofer tried to change everything about who she really is just to get by for the day without being judged. She was labled different, all she ever wanted to do was to be like everyone else. This eventually led to her being depressed. Within the story, Oritz Cofer describes how terrible she was treated due to her Puerto Rican heritage and skin color, and how she would never be able to fit in. Minorities of different complexions get ridiculed and judged for their skin color by many people every day. In this short story, Ortiz Cofer stated, “I was born a white girl in Puerto Rico but became a brown girl when I came to live in the United States” (Ortiz Cofer 393). This is the first sentence in the story and it’s showing how Cofer was right from the gecko being shunned for having a different skin complexion. Because her skin color was too pale compared to others, in Puerto Rico she was being called blanca or gringa. She thought she was a black sheep in her own home town in Puerto Rico. She assumed her racial problems would end then, but in the U.S instead of her skin presumably being too light colored, her skin was then considered too dark colored. Her first racial prejudice racism occurred when she went to a local grocery store owned by 3 Italian brothers to buy somethings for her mother, which she enjoyed the journey to and back from the store, in her new hometown, Paterson, New Jersey According to Ortiz Cofer, the mean brother, which was the meat butcher indicated her as being colored. Ortiz Cofer was surprised with his comment, not being familiar to this slur, she then suddenly felt saddened. She then felt out of place again, just like she was in Puerto Rico. Another time of racial racism that occurred in the supermarket was when she was playing with the Susie dolls hair, and she wanted it for Christmas this year. The butcher caught a glimpse of the little girl playing with this Susie doll and came up to her and said,
Over the years, the media has poorly portrayed people from Latin America countries as low-income individuals who, based on their looks, are typically out of society's views of fitting in. With this role assigned to them, they are presumably believed to have a life filled with crime due to their appearance. These repeatedly wrongful display of representations makes it seems the only perception people will receive from Latin America is that it’s justifiable to treat us different because of our unique looks.
After reading “The Myth of the Latin Woman: I Just Met a Girl Named Maria” by Judith Ortiz Cofer, the reader is able to see that her essay focusses on personal appearance choices which she has compared and contrasted with her own early-life experiences. Based on how an individual appears at first sight, it dictates how others socially judge and stereotype us beyond the “beauty” dimension. For example, an individual may think about what he or she is going to wear when going out to eat at a restaurant. If the individual is going to go Buffalo Wild Wings to dine, obviously he or she is going to wear an outfit that fits them in society’s social norms which is a basic t-shirt, jeans, and shoes. However, if he or she shows up dressed up
A Story About The Body is about a man who think he has fallen in love with an almost sixty-year-old woman. Both the younger man and the woman work at an artist’s colony during the summer. The woman was a Japanese painter, and the man was a composer. The woman’s art captivated the man, the way she moved her body and her hands. It states, “He loved her work, and her work was like the way she moved her body, used her hands, looked at him directly when she made amused and considered answers to his questions.” Then one night, after a concert, the woman abruptly says that she knows that the young man wants to “have her”, but she has to be honest with him and tell him that she has had a mastectomy on both breasts. Shocked, the man states that he cannot handle this and he walks away to his home. The very next morning, the man wakes up to find a blue bowl on the porch that looks like it is filled with rose petals, but when he looks deeper he find that is filled with dead bees which eggs on the audience to do a in depth analysis into what is truly meant by this.
We can’t judge people based on the way they look. I believe we need to stop evaluating people based on the color of their skin or the way they dress without knowing them personally. We need to stop judging people wrongfully based on where they originate from. In my example, I was born Hispanic. Being seen differently from others is something I have no control over. This needs to change because people do not have a say over where they were born. Birth is a gift in any country, but I’m being judged unfairly and treated differently because of where I was
Do you wonder what it is like for people who are different? How their life is affected by others opinions and thoughts? “Society looks down upon freakish and extraordinary individuals alike and views them with suspicion… they especially fear loners, those mysterious creatures who pursue their own values…?” (par.4). This quote from, “The Sociology of Leopard Man,” can be true to some people because society does do this to people who are different. Many people can agree with this statement about society looking down on individuals with different thoughts. These individuals change their appearance to get attention and no matter what they do society will not like these individuals beliefs. These are reasons why society looks at them in a bad way.
Most people in today’s society are not pleased with their image, whether it is physically or how they form their character. In “Enhance Your Body Image” (2015) Rebecca J. Donatelle opens her essay with “When you look in the mirror, do you like what you see? If you feel disappointed, frustrated, or even angry like Ali, you’re not alone.” She continues with a study depicting 80 percent of women are dissatisfied with their appearance (p.339). This does not only mean physical appearance; Santiago Quintana in “The Space In-Between” (2015) talks about how he did not belong in his social environment because resulting in him being bullied. A person’s values are molded by cultural influence, friends and family; furthermore, to be appreciative of
People are judged for their appearance all over the world, every day. People with brown, ragged clothes are assumed to be less intelligent, or homeless. People with long hair are assumed to be female. There are many stereotypes that limit the social actions of many people, and it is not just in real life. Rodman Philbrick shows that these stereotypes are not always true in the book “Freak The Mighty” in the form of Maxwell Cane, Kevin, Loretta, and Iggy Lee. All of those characters are misjudged by others, and in some cases, even by themselves. The message that your appearance does not determine who you are is very important, and applies to everyone everywhere.
There are people who judge each other by how they look, how they dress, how they talk, or even the language they speak. Sometimes one does it subconsciously. Growing up I couldn't rely on my parents to help me at home with my homework. It was up to me to figure it out. My parents didn't have the opportunity to finish high school. Even Though I knew my parents didn't go to school, I found them to be one of the strongest and smartest people I know. Coming to America, they had to learn a third language, English. My parents, much like Richard Rodriguez’s parents let their children go to school and did everything possible to help them get through school.
In a perfect world, everyone WOULD be judged based on the content of their character. But we do not live in a perfect world and humans have always pre-judged others based on physical and cultural differences. These are the first things we notice about a stranger, and first impressions are hard to forget. Racism and prejudice have caused us to make dire mistakes in the past, but we have learned from these mistakes and have bettered our society. However, society today is filled with stereotypes and prejudices about people of certain races. It
Have you ever been discriminated or treating someone differently because of the way you looked In society today people discriminate both intentionally and unintentionally. These experiences have been put into stories to show the world we need to change in “The Fourth of July” Audre Lorde writes about how when a black family visited the capitol they were treated differently than the white families. In “On Being a Cripple” Nancy Mairs writes about how people treat her different because she is medically a cripple. In “Just Walk on By: Black Men and Public Space” Brent Staples writes about how because how being a big black man makes people treat him differently. In all these stories it shows discrimination of different kind.
People should not just assume others based on looks or size of another person. For example I saw this big and tall person at my school. He also had this dirty type of clothing that you would see in the dirty laundry bin. At first I was scared that he could judge me for being small or pick on me because he is way bigger than others. I actually went to talk to him while on the field because my two friends were talking to him. Since i first talked to him two years ago, we have still been great friends. In the novel Freak the Mighty, author Rodman Philbrick demonstrates the theme being don’t judge a book by its cover.
In The Story of My Body, Judith Ortiz Cofer is a young girl coming to America. She touches upon several of her personal struggles with assimilating in a new country. She is forced to confront the nature of people categorizing her body and looks and she provides detailed context on who views her body and in what way. This implies the idea of how different cultures view specific features through stereotypes. Her body is separated into different sections: skin, color, size, and looks.
I’m very concerned about how I look and how people, especially online, perceive me. My appearance has always been an important part of my identity I’ve consistently held the belief that I must look my best, no matter what. Undoubtedly, this was the result of years upon years of bullying, but I assumed that my body dysmorphia had improved. It actually hasn’t at all. I’m very concerned about how I look and how people, especially online, perceive me. My appearance has always been an important part of my identity I’ve consistently held the belief that I must look my best, no matter what. Undoubtedly, this was the result of years upon years of bullying, but I assumed that my body dysmorphia had improved. It actually hasn’t at
People often judge or misperceive others appearances in a less than equal manner before they even know the true nature of the person. Every day we make assumptions by what we can see physically. Even in the supermarkets, we distinguish good products from bad products based on how they look. We are apt to choose good-looking products because they don’t have flaws, cracks, and bruises. Moreover, we assume them to have good qualities and good tastes. Actually, taste doesn’t deal with its looking. However, we bias in favor of assuming human nature. Since people judge human beings based on how they look, it is called prejudice. In fact, prejudice just disadvantage
A famous person once said “Judging a person doesn’t define who they are. It defines who YOU are.” Don’t judge someone by how they look comes out in both of the stories “The Lion and the Mouse” by Rob John and “Wonder” by R.J Palacio. Both of the stories have characters that are different from others. Both of the characters get judged, but are very helpful in the end.