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Essay on Stress

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Stress is any circumstance that threatens or is perceived to threaten one's well-being and that thereby taxes one's coping abilities. Many everyday events such as car trouble, waiting in line, bills you can't pay, or Christmas shopping can cause stress. Major and minor stresses are two different things but they can strongly be tied together. For example, someone who is going through a major stressful event like a terminal illness in the family can trigger minor stressful events such as funeral arrangements, the will, and other important decisions.

It is very often that events that are stressful for one person are not at all stressful for the next person. For instance, many people find it stressful to be on a cruise ship, yet others …show more content…

Conflicts come in three types; approach-approach, avoidance-avoidance, and approach-avoidance. In the approach-approach conflict a choice must be made between two attractive goals. For instance: You go out to a restaurant; do you get the fillet minion or the lobster tails? Amid the types of conflict this one is the least stressful. These conflicts classically have a happy ending. Being torn between two appealing subjects, the decision will most likely be stressful but you won't lose out.

In an avoidance-avoidance conflict a choice must be made between two unattractive goals. Suppose you have a ghastly cough. Should you take the Robitusson that makes you cringe at the thought of the taste, or should you suffer the cough depriving you of sleep? These avoidance-avoidance conflicts are extremely horrid and vastly stressful.

In an approach-avoidance conflict a choice must be made about whether to pursue a single goal that has both attractive and unattractive aspects. These conflicts are quite stressful. Any time that you have to sacrifice something or take a risk for some advantageous result you will engage in an approach-avoidance conflict. For example: The college that you've been dreaming to attend your whole life has accepted you. It far from home and you boyfriend doesn't want you to go. Do you stay with him and forget it, or do you go for it and pursue your dream? Approach-avoidance conflicts frequently produce indecisiveness, forcing you to go

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