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Summary Of John Bowlby's Attachment Theory

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The child’s relationship with his parents is an attachment while as the parents’ is more of an affectional bond. Emotions such as love, grief and sadness due to separation are all part of attachment.
Many psychologists talked about attachment. But the strongest theory in the study of parent and child relationships is the attachment theory which was first mastered by John Bowlby and later developed by Mary Ainsworth. Bowlby stated that an attachment relationship has survival value because it ensures that the infant will receive nurturance. The relationship is built by repetitive behavior patterns that the child acquires from his parents like crying smiling and eye contact, and other behaviors he gets from caregivers. We will be reviewing three …show more content…

The preattachment phase (newborn to 6 weeks), the attachment in making phase (6 weeks to 8 months), the clear cut attachment phase (8months to 18 months) and finally the formation of reciprocal attachments (from 18 month to 2 years and on). Babies display separation anxiety mostly between 6 to 15 months but if he has not acquired the concept of object permanence, he usually does not become anxious when the parent leaves. Attachment keeps a baby connected to his mother, especially with the child’s needs that can often only be satisfied in the presence of his primary caregiver. Bowlby also insisted on the importance of a reliable family environment. The child's idea of safety is based on the different relations he has with his family because family members are the first people we encounter during our lifetime and therefore have the first and largest influence on our future …show more content…

It involves mothers playing with their little ones in a room and then suddenly the moms leave the room for a few minutes. After repeating this experiment several times on many infants and observing how children react at the separation and return of the moms, Ainsworth and her coworkers discovered the types of attachment; the securely and insecurely attachment. The securely attached children saw their mothers as their comfort zone, weren’t very upset when she left them and were ecstatic when she came back to the playroom. While as the anxious avoidant insecurely attached, acted like they didn’t care when their moms returned or cried desperately and intensively the whole time. Children who have developed anxious resistant insecure attachment show a mixture of anger and helplessness towards their mother, they act passively. The disorganized/disoriented attachment -children who do not fit into the other categories are included in this fourth form of attachment. These children could act depressed, furious, passive, or uninterested. In the future, the securely attached became graceful and lead a sane life whereas the insecurely attached lead more of a dark hard life. Moreover they discovered that competing parents who are not on good terms cause a less secure parent-child relationship, whereas father's support of the mother is associated with a more secure attachment relationship. Also, the infant’s mental health is somehow

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