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Susan Krauss Whitbourne's 'Fifteen Types Of Friends'

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Everyone, quite simply, needs to have friends. In her article “Fifteen Reasons We Need Friends,” Dr. Susan Krauss Whitbourne says that one should appreciate their friends, for they can offer vital life skills, define properties, and can help you get more friends. Moreover, during moments of crisis or accomplishment, it is always good to have a friend there to provide comfort and solace, encouragement and support. Although there are many different types of characters and personalities out there, there is essentially three types of friends: friends who are temporary, friends who are there for a reason, and friends who are there for a lifetime. Friends who are temporary are, unfortunately, the most common type of friend. Typically, the friends that one makes in high-school, college, and or work fit into this category, depending on how one feels about the mood and environment of these people and institutions. Nonetheless, the friends who are temporary are usually the type of friends who do not have much to offer. They are merely good to have around in the moment, but anything beyond that, there is no need to be in continuing relations. Moreover, friends who are rather negative and down-beat, and it is not surprising to see these friendships develop, and end, quickly. …show more content…

They are the type that helps one grow and mature; friends who have a reason to be in one’s life are the ones that help others progress, to teach others a valuable life lesson or some useful fact, or to simply alleviate one’s loneliness; and although it is usually best to keep these types of friends around for a long time, it is not surprising to see friends like this disappear and spend their usefulness, and move on. These type of friends are in the between of common and rare, and they seem to be in the mixture of being high and low

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