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Perfectionism is feeling anxious about a project because you want it to be perfect, so you stress over and procrastinate until the last minute. It is not being able to walk away from a task because you always feel that it could be more perfect. It is thinking that it’s unacceptable to make a mistake and that your achievements and accomplishments define who you are. “Perfectionism is a personality disposition characterized by a person’s striving for flawlessness, and the setting

I have worked with the child on a one to one basis several times and the child reacts well to positive praise and receives stickers on a chart for good work. The child has an ‘in’ and ‘out’ tray for work to give them a sense of accomplishment when they have completed something. The child does not appear to have friendship issues and the other children in the class accept the child for who they are. The child has a playground buddy from the upper school that helps them during the playtimes when problems are more likely to occur. It is hoped that the plan the Behaviour Support Unit provides will give those who work with the child a clear framework to work in to provide the constancy that is needed to help alleviate the child’s behaviour.

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Perfectionistic is Traya’s limiting style. The percentile score received for this style was 63. This style can cause stress because the perfectionist tends to feel as if they have to be more than they are. They also feel as though they have to prove themselves on a consistent basis. Perfectionists seldom have a true sense of accomplishment, because they feel that the end product of whatever task they are working on is never good enough. They also are startle themselves with how irritable and angry they can get. This style is a hindrance to Traya’s work atmosphere because she becomes easily irritated and can irritate others. If Traya could change one of the behaviors associated with being a perfectionist, it would be the tendency to become easily irritated. If this could be eliminated, this would help created a more pleasant atmosphere.

Perfectionism is at its core is shame manifested. It is the thought that we are not good enough. It's goal is to extinguish all fears and anxieties, to avoid rejection or criticism of any kind. For me, it comes in the form of anxiety, the need for control, incessant planning and setting unrealistic goals to reach. It is exhausting, it is painful and a daily struggle to live this way.

Which in turn leads to failure, which will lead to disappointment and negative feelings of worthlessness or not being good enough, which in time could lead to depression, anxiety, etc… “Perfectionism – the maladaptive practice of holding oneself or others to an unrealistic, unattainable or unsustainable standard of organization, order, or accomplishment in one particular area of living, while sometimes neglecting common standards of organization, order or accomplishment in other areas of living.” (Out of the fog 2007-2015, retrieved from: http://outofthefog.website/top-100-trait-blog/2015/11/4/perfectionism). A full description of “perfectionism” as by article reads: “Perfectionism in its Adaptive form is often seen as a compliment in reference to diligence and the pursuit of excellence. But the Maladaptive (or neurotic) form is a destructive, dysfunctional type of persistent perfectionism, which is ultimately damaging both to the perfectionist and to those closest to them.” (Out of the fog 2007-2015, retrieved from: http://outofthefog.website/top-100-trait-blog/2015/11/4/perfectionism). This is a personality disorder that the participant has struggled with for as long as he can remember; the origin is unsure but is believed that it may have come from his parents who are also “perfectionist.” While there is no concrete evidence that “perfectionism” is hereditary,

Perfectionism is not about achievement and growth. Perfectionism is the belief that if we live perfectly, look perfectly and act perfectly, we can avoid the pain of blame, judgment and shame.

Over the years, there have been many different definitions of the term ‘perfectionism’ (Shafran, Cooper and Fairburn, 2002). In the past, perfectionism has been described as “the tyranny of the shoulds” (Horney, 1950) or as the “practice of demanding oneself or others a higher quality of performance than is required by the situation” (Hollender, 1965). Later, Burns (1980) described perfectionists as “those whose standards are high beyond reach or reason, people who strain compulsively and unremittingly toward impossible goals and who measure their own worth entirely in terms of productivity and accomplishment.” A more current and widely accepted definition of perfectionism by Frost, Marten, Lahart, and Rosenblate (1990) is “the setting of excessively

A perfectionist is defined as a person who refuses to accept any standard short of perfection. This, although seems like a redeeming quality, can also be bad too. Being a perfectionist is good if one is working on school work or working at a job. It’s also good if one is organizing, cleaning, or designing a home. Being a perfectionist can assist one in many jobs that society offers and many employers won’t settle for anything less. However, it can also be a bad thing. Being a perfectionist can cause one a lot of stress if there’s a case where one can’t do something to one’s full potential. It can also be bad if one is working with someone who doesn’t show the same worth ethic as they do. I can often lead to conflict within one’s social life or work.

First of all, the perfectionists are the people that want to do everything perfectly, their goals related to quality, mastering and free of errors. On the opposite side, normal people almost time pursue to complete their tasks as like what request from them

A research study had shown that perfectionism has a link to anxiety and depression. Perfectionism is the refusal to accept anything standard short of perfection the tendency to set unrealistically high standards for performance of oneself and sometimes significant others, along with the inability to accept mistakes or imperfections in matters of personal appearance, care of the home, or work; may be accompanied by an obsession with completeness, purity, or goodness.

To be perfect is impossible. But the ability to achieve the impossible is the temptress. Perfectionism has been described as a multidimensional personality disposition. Indicating that the multiple dimensions can show either different or opposite correlations with maladaptive or adaptive psychological processes (Stoeber, Corr, Smith, & Saklofske, 2016). It is a personality disposition that can be characterized by a striving for flawlessness and setting exceedingly high standards for oneself. These standards can pertain to performances that are subsequently accompanied by self-critical evaluations and the perception that others expect one to be perfect (Stoeber, 2016; Stoeber, Edbrooke-Childs, & Damian, 2016). Perfectionism is a disposition that pervades all areas of life including but not limited to work, school, personal appearance, and social relationships (Stoeber, Edbrooke-Childs, & Damian, 2016).

Perfectionism is always a good thing, but not when you're a kid barely living your childhood. I believe a kid should enjoy the little things in life and there is no reason why they should grow up faster than expected and grow up to be what people call ¨perfect.¨ In my case, I didn't know what my dad looked like until I was seven years old. I had to clean the house and stay there alone until my mom was done working. Sometimes I had to cook for myself, but it was not worth it, for the simple fact that I was scared of fire and I didn't know how to cook. I had to grow up fast and grow up perfect to survive the life I was living in. Perfectionism has impacted my life because people tend to look at it as a good trait to have but they don't realize how bad it can hurt somebody on the inside like it does to me.

In regards to temperament, as one may understand there are three different types (easy going, slow to warm up, and difficult). As any educator, or parent may understand, dealing which children, especially difficult children can be a daunting task. We as nurturing caregivers must work along side of these children with “love, joy, peace, and patience” in order to a

Perfection is often treated as a trait that is unattainable, yet we subconsciously strive to be perfect in many aspects of our lives. Working to be successful and high-achieving isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but it can grow out of hand when perfection is the only thought on our mind. Because of this, it is necessary to find the right balance when dealing with perfectionism. When it comes to achieving our goals, some amount of perfectionism can be very helpful. Thinking like a perfectionist boosts your motivation and spikes the amount of effort put into every activity. The combination of intense motivation and consistent high-quality work can make it quite easy to achieve any goals you may set, both in the short-term and long-term. However,