Guiding children’s behaviour
Focus: Supporting children to build and maintain trusting relationships with peers, and to foster their social skills.
Stimulus behaviour: Mahir (3 years old) actively participating in regular routine and play experience on his own, with minimal or no interaction with others. Mahir demonstrate he has the verbal language skills when he is pretend play with toy cars, and he shows receptive language skills when interact with educators. However, Mahir’s use of language in interaction is limited, he requires improvement in language skill in order to develop better quality friendship (Porter, 2016). Mahir display solitary play throughout the day, he was fully engaged in the activity by himself. When other children talks to Mahir or initiate to play with him, Mahir does not seem to notice other children, and maintains focus on what is he doing. According to Porter (2016), at age 2-3 years, “children begin to seek out peers in earnest” and “they are more able to initiate interactions” (p. 157). Those evidence of social play development was absent in Mahir’s case, as he display the preference to play alone. Being socially isolated over time can have negative impact on children. For example, depression or reactive aggression (Porter, 2016). Conversely, positive relationship are beneficial to children’s developments (Porter, 2016). Therefore, it is important to support Mahir’s social development.
The strategies I used to assist Mahir’s social skills.
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Through play they are able to learn their environment and it helps with learning. In the area of language development preschoolers are developing well as they learn more words and are very verbal. Children are more vocal about their surroundings, feelings, and other individuals. It is important to pay attention to speech during this time as most delays in language are noticed during this stage of development. “It is important to encourage talk at this time, and to seek advice from a specialist if any delays are suspected.” (Christina J. Groark, Stephanie K. McCarthy, Afton R. Kirk, 2014) Socially children are developing as they show interest in playing with other children. “Children are driven by the desire to be liked and place the utmost importance on friends.” (Christina J. Groark, Stephanie K. McCarthy, Afton R. Kirk, 2014) It is during this period they children learn how to share and respect other feelings. Children learn how to follow rules and know their boundaries during this stage of development. Each stage of development is essential in how well children are able to enjoy the exciting time of preschool.
Sara Smilansky is a Developmental Theorist who has identified four types of play: Functional play, Constructive play, Dramatic play, and games with rules. Smilansky says that Dramatic play is the most mature type of play because this is the time where children start to understand their surroundings and imitate what they see others doing. The research on play focused on sociodramatic play and the impact it has on children’s learning. In Smilansky’s book ‘The Effects of Sociodramatic play on Disadvantaged Preschool Children’, she says that “…a form of voluntary social play activity in which preschool children participate”.
Social skills - By playing independently of adults, children have the chance to practise their social skills. They might squabble or raise their voices at times, but most children from 3 years or so are able to work things out themselves. Learning to take turns and cooperate helps children’s social skills.
In order for a child to develop productive social skills, it is important to choose toys to enhance active, imaginative play, and discourage time at the computer or television. A game in which a child is encouraged to think for themselves rather than sit motionless staring at an electronic screen, is better for the development of the child’s social skills (Moore, 2). Time spent with other children, rather the child’s own age or older, will help develop necessary social skills that will stick with the child through adulthood (Roode, 1). From the day they are born, infants and children begin to form relationships, these relationships eventually deepen and enable them to handle future relationships with others outside their initial circle (Roode, 1). The ability for a person to build and further relationships, make moral judgments, etc. can be enhanced with games played with a group of children, stuffed animals, puppets or instruments (Roode, 1).
In this essay, we will identify and describe the seven goals for teaching appropriate social skills. First, helping children develop empathy and to learn to be generous, altruistic, and able to share equipment, experiences, and people with other children. Furthermore, helping children learn that being kind to others feels good and teaching children that everyone has rights and these rights are to be respected by all. While also emphasizing the value of cooperation and compassion rather than stressing competition and winning. Finally, helping children discover the pleasures of friendship and helping children with special needs fit into the life of the group.
Through play, children are also able to form relationships with their peers, therefore developing socially. They are able to “learn how to work in groups, to share, to negotiate, to resolve conflicts, and to learn self-advocacy skills” all of which are important skills in a child’s world as well as the adult world (Ginsberg 183). This is especially prevalent in young school age children, who have had relatively few social encounters without the presence of their parents before entering school. These young children will often make life time friends by sharing a popular treat at snack time or borrowing a color crayon to another child who has broken theirs.
built on trust, understanding, and caring will foster childrenâ€TMs cooperation and motivation and increase their positive outcomes at
1.1 Explain why positive relationships with children and young people are important and how these are built and
The paper topic is focused on how play therapy can help children develop their behavioral and emotional structures. The primary research question for the paper is Can Play Therapy help children with emotional and behavioral issues get better? The primary hypotheses for this paper are: If play therapy can help a child overcome his self-esteem issues, then it can help the child grow emotionally and if play therapy can help a child overcome his self-esteem issues, then it can help the child grow a strong behavioral structure. The paper is divided into an introduction which gives a brief background of the topic, literature review which focuses on the results of 10 recent studies with familiar topics, the methods section, and the results sections which provides the primary results of the study and the discussions section which illustrates the lessons learnt from conducting this study as well as the differences and limitations of the study alongside the new directions that similar researches in the future could look to explore.
Play is often undervalued for the benefits it can provide. It is often set aside as an activity that has the sole purpose of releasing a child’s copious amounts of energy. In opposition to this common fallacy, we must recognize the important skills and life lessons that are derived from the foundations of play. In the earliest stages of child development, play serves as a capacity to have imaginary friends and explore alternative worlds. Through this medium child are learning what people are like, the modes through which they think, and the kinds of things people do. Research done by the National Association for the Education of Yong Children has explored the use of how dramatic play produces “documented cognitive, social, emotional benefits”. For children in their early stages of development, they learn the tools needed to interact with their peers and how to appropriately engage in multiple environments and situations. Through these first, early interactions with play, children learn how to have successful social interactions, preparing them for their time outside of the classroom.
The learning development of Marwan is introducing with social play, connecting empowerment and friendship with his peers. The utilization of the topic through observation is the child engaging an activity ‘Chalk spray.’ Through the analysis of the observation which have been many details with the experience such as Marwan sprayed his brand new Nike shoes with the chalk spray and then started ‘panicking,’ (Appendix 1) therefore, he was concerned and worried about what his mum will say, which I complied and explained to him, that ‘it’s fine, we can clean it with water.” However, Marwan started continuing playing with his sister with the chalk spray. Marwan is not will introduce of making friends with children his age, he’s more connected with
Play contributes to children’s “physical, emotional and social well-being” (Else, 2009, p.8) and through play, the child’s holistic development and well-being is being constantly accounted for as is it led by the individual. The child decides what s/he wants to do and does it; it is
In addition to play promoting pleasure as well as physical activity, play forms the holistic growth in children’s development, or to put it in another way using Brown (2003) acronym, acknowledged as ‘SPICE’; play represents the ‘social interaction’; ‘physical activity’; ‘intellectual stimulation’; creative achievement and emotional stability, (with the addition of “compound flexibility”) in a child’s development. Compound flexibility is the idea that a child’s psychological development occurs using the relationship between his/her environment with the adaptability of the child himself. Thus the flexibility of surroundings and his/her adaptableness can provide children the means to explore; experiment and investigate (Brown, 2003, pp. 53-4). On the contrary, the absence of social interaction and physical activity through the means of play can inhibit children’s overall development and without the consistency of play children suffer a “chronic lack of sensory interaction with the world, [which leads to] a form of sensory deprivation” (Hughes, 2001, p.217 in Lester and Maudsley 2006).
Any such delay in the development of social skills in early childhood can have a lasting impact, through the experience of positive social interactions children learn and begin to model behaviour that encourage these positive interactions, allowing them to form friendships. It is therefore important for children to be able to acquire these social skills early in order to continue to learn and understand the complexities of social interactions and rules. Obstacles that delay the attainment of these skills may inhibit more complex social engagement as the child grows, possibly leading to isolation as progressing from simple to complex play without adequate social competencies can be challenging (Jamison, Forston, & Stanton-Chapman,
Despite play’s critical role in child development, there has been a reduction of time and opportunities for free play. The purpose of the study is to first examine the extent to which children´s free play is related to their social competence. It is expected that children who engage more in free play, will also have better social competence. Second, as this relationship between free play and social interaction can be mediated by children´s emotions, more free play will also give children more opportunity