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The Bass, The River, And Sheila Mant, By W. D.

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Love and relationships could end in a variety of different ways. There could be greed, regret, or even anger involved, or it could end up being the best part of your life. The positives and negatives vary depending on the two people. Alfred Tennyson says in his poem, In Memoriam: 27, that “‘Tis better to have loved and lost/ Than to never have loved at all (Tennyson 15-16)’”. Tennyson is right when he says that love is something that is worth the pain in the end and that it is better loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
Some readers of the poem may disagree with him and think that love is not worth the struggle and commitment and pain that comes with a break-up. However, a break-up or a failed relationship is something that can be …show more content…

No one is perfect and people make mistakes all the time. A relationship with someone else can change the way you act in another relationship. This is shown in the story, “The Bass, The River, and Sheila Mant”, by W. D. Wetherell. In Wetherell’s piece, there is a boy who is trying to take this girl to a concert. The boy loves fishing, however the girl seems to find it uninteresting. The boy, not wanting to seem unappealing towards to girl, tries to hide the fact that he does indeed fish. In this process, however, he catches a fish but has to let it go due the presence of the girl. In this he says, “Before the month was over, the spell she cast over me was gone, but the memory of that lost bass haunted me all summer and haunts me still (Wetherell 10)”. As the relationship between him and the girl did not work out, he still remembers the fish that he had let go when in the midst of trying to impress her. The girl has been long forgotten while to fish will be stuck in his head for years to come. In the relationship between the girl and himself, he learns to be himself and not try and change just for the approval of another person. Another learning moment in a relationship is shown in Dito’s song, All You Want. In this song it says, “But in that night you tore my heart/ If only you had slept alone/ If those seeds had not been sown (Dito 14)”. When the man cheated on her, she says that if only he didn’t sleep with the other girl that

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