“Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother”
In “the Battle Hymn Of the Tiger Mother” , a professor at the Yale Law school that goes by the name Amy Chua brought up various ways that Chinese parents differ from Westerners. Her main point was showing how Chinese parents raise such successful children. CHua is mainly pointing out the better in Chinese culture and how the culture is way more effective on their children. Some people may think she's robbing her children of their childhood , but others may argue that she's not considering that they might be raising their children to be successful as well. Amy describes in detail how Chinese parents have more strict values that carry on with their children from a young age. Being praised and admired for doing
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Chua is unsuccessful at persuading readers that her method of parenting is successful and I disagree because not all kids that go through discipline in their life end up successful.
Amy Chua addresses in the Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother ,a few main points to show the difference in how Chinese parents raise their children compared to western parents. Chua first brings up that in a study she did, zero percent of Chinese parents agreed with that learning is fun and stressing academic success is not good for children. On the other hand seventy percent of Western parents did. Chinese parents disagree with the idea because in their eyes they think that their kids academic achievement shows how successful their parents are. However Western parents don't seem to worry about their reputation and how successful their kids turn out. On the other hand Chinese parents do worry about how their children turn out. Another point brought up by Chua is Chinese parents can do things Westerner parents can’t , such as say anything to their children. Chinese parents
Parenting styles differ from generations, as well as, from different countries across the world. When two different cultures collide, that leaves parents in a limbo in trying to decide what parenting technique would be the most beneficial for future offspring. Amy Chua, a Yale Law School graduate of Chinese descent, wrote a story about the details of her and her husbands’ choice in how to parent their children. The book is entitled “Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother,” which she proclaims that “Chinese parents are better at raising children than westerners”. At creation of this book, Chua has received an enormous amount of feedback, mostly negative. However, the article “Amy Chua is a Wimp” written by author David Brooks, offers a different take on Chuas’ book. Which leaves everyone wondering what really is the best way to set up the next generation to reach their highest potential.
In the writing of, America’s Top Parent, Elizabeth Kolbert outlines the parenting strategies of different mothers. Most notably, she talks about the “Chinese Mother,” which does not technically mean this individual must be of Chinese descent. Throughout the essay, Kolbert talks about another essay, Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother. The author of that essay, Amy Chua, believes in a binary world. Meaning that there are two kinds of mothers, “Chinese Mothers”, and “Western” mothers. Chinese mothers believe in extreme parenting, whereas Western mothers “think they are being strict when they insist that their children practice their instruments for half an hour a day” (Kolbert). On the other hand, Chinese mothers have much more specific rules
In “Adapted from Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother” author Amy Chua argues that, instead of constantly praising a child for the slightest success, parents should only expect perfection from their children and nothing less. She explains that Western parents are not as strict on their children as Chinese parents are. That Western parents don’t believe in stressing educational success and that education should be something fun. In contrast, Chinese parents believe that academic success is very important and to get good at something it takes practice and hard work which may not seem fun at first but in the long run the activity becomes fun once mastered. Chua also believes that Chinese parents can get away with things that Western parents cannot such as calling their child garbage after being misbehaved. Chua states three main differences between Western parents and Chinese parents.
It is true that the ways the parents raise their children will decide how well the children grow, especially the mothers who impact their children the most. There is no right or wrong in how a mother takes care of her children. All of them want the best for their children. The only difference is the level of intensity in how to raise a child. In Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior, Amy Chua, a professor at Yale Law School believes that the ways Chinese mothers raise their children are the most effective ways. Her main purpose of this article is to state the differences between Western mothers and Chinese mothers which
Amy Chua’s book “Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother” brings up much room for debate and controversy for arguments whether Chinese parents do a better job than their Western counterparts. Chua’s parenting methods are most commonly described as stereotypical way every Chinese child is raised. She explains in further detail how she raised her two daughters Sophia and Louisa and why she believed in the tiger mother way. Although Chua’s children became successful adults, she made both good and bad parenting decisions. She was unfairly harsh and critical; however, she is a successful parent in the aspect that she did teach her children many useful life skills such as not giving up easily and how to excel academically.
There are quite a few differences between Western parents and Chinese parents. The author brings up these differences in her article. People often question how Chinese parents raise such successful children. They have very harsh punishments to make sure their kids are performing to their best potential. When Western parents are being harsh, they usually aren't coming close to the harshness of Chinese parents. Chinese parents think that when people see they have successful kids it means that they have successful parents. Chinese parents work their kids so much hard than Western parents because they want their kids to be academically successful. As Western parents want their kids to be successful in extracurricular activities like sports and music. Chinese parent believe that
In Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, Yale professor Amy Chua describes her “Chinese” method of parenting and why Chinese parents are able to raise highly successful children. In the book, she describes her style of teaching and disciplining her children, which caused many readers to take offense. Many people have a serious problem with Chua’s method of parenting; they believe she is much too harsh and even borders on abuse in the way she raises her daughters. In an article published in the New York Times, journalist David Brooks describes how he feels Chua is not allowing her daughters to experience things that are potentially more important than school, such as learning to be social. David Brooks makes an interesting and compelling argument against Chua, and he is right in his opinion that developing social skills is more important than academic success.
Amy Chua, a professor at Yale Law School who wrote a memoir named Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, believes that parenting style should be strict parenting is the key to successful child-rearing. In addition, she believes that hardened child-rearing approach with the methods of close monitoring and behavioral restrictions. Also, Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior, Chua wrote that parents should override their children preferences such things as hobbies and academic performance. Moreover, she thinks the vast majority of the Chinese mothers said that they believe their children can be the best students and that academic achievement reflects successful parenting, and that if children did not excel at school then there was a problem and parents were not doing their job. According to Chua, through close monitoring and disciplines, children will be able to
Amy Chua, a professor at Yale Law School, the author of “The World on Fire”, “Day of Empire”, and “Why They Fall”, in a Wall street Journal on January 8th, 2011, believes chinese mothers are the most rigorous on their children. The title of the article “Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior” was not chosen by Amy, but by the Wall Street Journal. Even though Amy did not write the title, there is reasoning that she does believe that chinese parenting is superior. Everyone is wondering how their children excel above everyone else. Thesis…
Western parents allow their children to to accept that fact that they got a bad grade on some assignment, while Chinese parents make their children correct whatever they did wrong. Chinese parents order their children to get exceptional grades, while Western parents can only ask their children to do well. Chua says, “If a child came home with an A- on test, a Western parent will most likely praise the child, but the Chinese mother will gasp in horror and ask what went wrong”(Chua 307). Chinese parents believe their children are capable of doing anything as long as they work hard at achieving it. Western parents can only help their children do well in school by trying to prepare them, and not pushing too hard. Chinese parents think that their children owe them everything and not the other way around. This is most likely because Chinese parents work very hard at raising capable children, and that they have worked hard to make them productive in life. Therefore, the parents expect much in return. Chua says “my husband Jed actually has
One day, Amy Chua decided to write an essay called, “Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior.” Amy Chua is a professor at Yale Law School. Chua is a Chinese woman with two daughters. In the essay, Chua compared the differences between Chinese and Western parenting styles. There are different ways of parenting being used everywhere; the four main parenting styles include, Authoritarian, Authoritative, Permissive, and Uninvolved. In the essay Chua made it clear that Western and Chinese parenting styles differ. I tend to agree, as well as disagree with the examples and statements Chua used to compare the way they differ. I believe Chua did an amazing job contrasting Chinese and Western parenting styles.
In January 2011 the Wall Street Journal published an article called “Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior” (WRAC 261-265), it was an expert from a book written by Amy Chua, and was soon the topic of much controversy. Chua came under much criticism for the way that she was raising her children. Many people though the way she was raising them was very much out of line. I for one think that Chua was only trying to instill in her children what she thought was important; even so, some of her tactics may have been a bit brash.
According to Amy Chua in “Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior”, the parenting styles of “Chinese mothers” are much more effective than “Western parents”. Chua writes her title most likely in an attempt to attract attention and cause controversy. She argues that the parenting styles of Chinese mothers may seem as though they don’t care for their children, but that isn’t the case. Chua states that Chinese mothers push their children so they “can be ‘the best’, and that ‘academic achievement reflects successful parenting,’” (Chua 262). She states, on the other hand, that Western parents are too worried about their child’s self-esteem. She argues in her article that Chinese parents can get away with things Western parents can’t such as calling their children “garbage”, their children owe their parents everything, and the parents know what is best for their children and override all of their children’s own wishes. Although Chua raises the point that Chinese mothers tend to have more successful children than Western parent, the children’s mental health, and sometimes physical health, from these extreme acts of parenting can put the child in
In the article “Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior” the author Amy Chua believes that by not allowing their kids to do a lot of things that normal children can do, Chinese mothers produce the smartest children. Some of the things they don’t allow their children to do are attend sleepovers, be in a school play, get a grade less than an A, and choose their own extracurricular activities. Chinese mothers are not superior but abusive because their methods seem to seclude them from learning the communication skills needed for success in their child's adulthood, it can hinder the relationship they have with their children, and can sometimes lead their children to develop thoughts of suicide.
“Academic achievement reflects successful parenting”(Chua 5). Although this principle may not be true to many cultures, this is what the Chinese society is bond and live up to. Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother communicates the different parenting style between the “Chinese mothers” and the Western parents.” In her memoir, Amy Chua discuss her unordinary and distinct ethos- by using diction and symbolism- to teach the audience the way of raising such stereotypically successful kids.