The Charmed Circle By Rubin Essay

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Question Four The charmed circle explained by Rubin is a system that illustrates that “sexuality that is ‘good,’ ‘normal,’ and ‘natural’ should ideally be heterosexual, marital, monogamous, reproductive, and non-commercial” (1984:101). Therefore any other sex act that goes against the charmed circle is deemed as negative or bad to society. Essentially the charmed circle is a structure of how cultures evaluate sexual acts. The system of the charmed circle violates the standards of fairness, or the American ideals discussed in previous lectures. Key components of American ideology illustrates that the system allows for social arrangement, individual liberty, and attaining potential freedom (Walden 2016). In this, creating a structure that limits people from fulfilling their freedom and respect it goes against the American ideals. Rubin also discusses that all heterosexual experiences, whether pleasurable or not, is considered a good encounter (1984:101). For instance, if a man were to force a woman to have sex with him this would be considered a good encounter even though law would constitute it as rape. This is another example of the charmed circle violating American ideals due to the system not recognizing unwanted heterosexual experiences as negative. On the other hand, democratic morality evaluates sexual behavior “by the way partners treat one another, the level of mutual consideration, the presence or absence of coercion, and the quantity and quality of the pleasure
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