The Color Of Water: A Black Man's Tribute to His White Mother, by James McBride is a Multiple Point-of-View novel in which a white mother and her black son deal with a recurring question: Is it possible to reject certain parts of one's Identity? They each find themselves lost in a world of racial and religious prejudice. Determined to start a new life, the mother, Ruth, leaves home with one goal: to leave behind her old identity. While searching for a new life, Ruth learns that her own view on topics such as race and religion are sometimes more meaningful to her life than the traditions she had once grown up learning. She uses the method of rejection to not only push her past behind her, but to also open up a world of new opportunities for her new identity. Ruth McBride grew up in the South, right in between two towns - one was prominently white, and the other was prominently black. Her father, Fishel Shilskly, owned a convenience store that was often visited by poor black folks. Rachel talks of how her father loved to overprice goods to scam blacks and even says, "Tateh hated black people. He'd call the little children bad names in Yiddish and make fun of their parents, too" (48). …show more content…
As they are leaving the event, Rachel turns to her son and says, " You know,that could've been me." James replies by saying, "I know...and where would that have left me...?" (157). This is one of the most crucial points in the book. Rachel acknowledges that she has indeed changed and has accomplished her goal: to leave behind her old life and start a new one. Not only does she come to terms with her past. Rachel also recognizes that if she had taken the "road more often traveled", the outcomes of her own life and her son's would definitely not have been the same. Because of her choice to take the "road less traveled", her life and her son's life were both affected for the greater good of their own
She had to endure people’s prejudice against Jews, working in her family’s store, and sexual abuse from her father. There was no family life for the Shilsky’s, just working in the store. During that time, she was ashamed because they were poor, Jewish, and her mom was handicapped (from the polio she had). Of course, this would change during her time in Suffolk, but only her family’s economic status would change. As she said, “[…] had plenty of money and we were all miserable” (61). Her older brother Sam, couldn’t take all the pressure and ran away from home and later died in WW2 in a plane crash. Luckily, Ruth did have one friend. Her name was Frances and Ruth was always welcome at Frances’ house. She didn’t care that Ruth was Jewish and with Frances around, Ruth wasn’t bullied (it was a different story when Frances wasn’t there). Ruth soon sets the reader up for what happens next by telling the audience “If there was one thing Tateh didn’t like more than gentiles it was black folks” (107), with Tateh being Ruth’s father. Then she talks about how her first boyfriend was a black teen named Peter and a few pages after introducing that, Ruth tells the reader that she was pregnant. What made it worse was that she was 15 and that she lived in the South where if a black person even looked at a white person the wrong way, there was going to be
Ruth’s father (Tateh) was charging Black people more than the actual cost of the products. The quote means that he was robbing people of their money without them knowing it at all. He didn’t like Blacks and yet his own daughter separated from her family because of the black boyfriend she had. Religion is tied into this quote. Ruth was an ordinary Jew and she preferred being with a black man which her father didn’t like. The connection portrayed in this quote is that Ruth being white wanted to be with black and in the future causing her kids to live a life of color confusion.
Another way to deal with past regrets that is brought to light is the idea of repressing that memory in the first place. Unlike her sisters, Rachel Price is the only one who ignores her guilt. After Ruth May’s death and their departure from Nathan, Rachel rarely ever brings these major events up again. Instead she talks about her new life, speaking about her newest boy toy and complaining about the African’s culture. The night of Ruth May’s death, since Rachel is
Aristotle once theorized, “Happiness is the meaning and the purpose of life, the whole aim and end of human existence.” The book, “The Color of Water” describes the lives of James and Ruth McBride and their journeys to find this happiness. Both of these characters, among other characters in the book struggled for the majority of their lives with the issues of race. They felt as if they were caught between two different worlds; the world of blacks and the world of whites. These struggles left all of the characters feeling forlorn. In McBride’s memoir it is made clear that in order to find happiness, the characters must first be able to confront and then overcome the racial divisions that were so prominent in their lives.
Ruth McBride was born a Jewish, white immigrant who came to America at age two. Her family was poor, so they never stayed in one place for more than a year, causing Ruth to have problems making friends. Ruth never felt nor witnessed love from her family until she was a teenager. Like any other child, she was curious, but was never allowed to ask questions. Growing up, Ruth McBride faced abuse from her father, and racism from other people, causing her to be insecure. Despite all of Ruth’s hardships, though, she became a strong, Christian mother of twelve.
In The Color of Water, author James McBride writes both his autobiography and a tribute to the life of his mother, Ruth McBride. In the memoirs of the author’s mother and of himself, they constantly face discrimination from their race in certain neighborhoods and of their religious beliefs. The trials and tribulations faced by these two characters have taught readers universally that everyone faces difficulties in life, but they can all be surmounted.
McBride shares her words, "I loved that boy to death and he loved me. " Who cared that he was black? He was the first man other than my grandfather who ever showed me any kindness in my life" (McBride). Here, Ruth shows she doesn’t care about what people expect of her relationship, which emphasizes once more the strong effect outsiders have on our self
[5] Ruth's description of her childhood allows James to understand how she decided to live her own life. Living being surrounded buy black people and interacting with them every day, she witnessed their lives and struggles. She saw her father treat them horribly, just like he treated her badly. Ruth often ignored her father's racist beliefs, like she ignored many parts of her father's personality and his treatment of his family.
At the beginning of The Color of Water, James McBride’s mother Ruth goes on to introduce particular aspects about her upbringing. She mentions how she grew up in an Orthodox Jewish family and begins to describe both her parents. Ruth’s father was a very cold and hard individual who didn’t care too much for his children’s overall well-being, while her mother was very sweet and kind in nature. She also goes on to talk about how her family was originally from Poland but decided to move to the United States from fear of oppression from the Russian government. Along with outside forces that proved to be a problem for Ruth’s family were similarities in oppressive behaviors in their family as well. Since Ruth’s family were Orthodox Jews,
"Ruth is a sensitive and studious African American. Ruth’s mother has been serving Sam Hallowell and his family since before the birth of her sister. Sam Hallowell has been the background voice on TV for a long time. Rachel, Ruth’s older sister, and Ruth were born poor and their father left them before Ruth’s birth. Since Ruth is lighter than Rachel in skin tone, she has always been given favors and priority over her older sister. Rachel changed her name to Adisa when she grew up and embraced her African American roots more than Ruth.
Ruby lived in the black community, they were the only white family in that part of town. Since Ruby’s family lived there, they often were looked down upon for living near such people. Society made them feel like it was wrong, and a disgrace. Ruby’s father was separated from the family and lived in Tennessee away from the family. Ruby’s mother, along with Ruby, had to make a living to provide for all the children.
It is said that it takes a village to raise a child, but that village includes community, school and the parents. Every village contains many different types of people, with different beliefs, morals and as a parent of a child that has attended school in Redwater for ten years, I have found that those different aspects of the village is what truly aids in preparing our children for the real world outside of our village. Not everyone in that village is going get along, the same as everyone in each workplace is going to like each other. If there is an issue that cannot be resolved within our village, or a problem a Doctor can’t solve, we look elsewhere and we keep looking until we find an answer. We cannot have our children live in a bubble where they don't experience bits and pieces of real
Even though slavery was illegal after the Civil War, discrimination and racism were still a problem in America, especially in the south. The play which is set on a Georgia plantation, explores the social roles of blacks and whites during this time period. Many of the whites believed that they should be superior to the blacks, who often worked for them in cotton fields as their past relatives had when they were slaves in the 1800s. For the most part, blacks accepted their fate because they knew that there could be disastrous consequences if they tried to challenge the status quo. William (Robert’s brother) says it best, when he is speaking to his mother, Cora: "A n****r's just got to know his place in de South, that's all, ain't he, ma?" (Hughes 1359). It is important to note that Mulatto reflects the reality of language in the south in the 1930s. Hughes's blacks, except for Robert and Sallie, use southern black language called "darky talk" by Hughes. The introduction of such speech in literature was controversial at the time. Many black intellectuals who also had been a part of the Harlem Renaissance believed that dialect should be shunned, on the principle that it reinforced negative black stereotypes. However, Hughes believed that using the language was above all truthful and realistic, enabling writers to demonstrate that blacks are not stereotypes, that they face human problems just like
Colors Dropped into water by Sanja Tosic appears to everyone as silky ink into smoke. What many may not see is the hidden message future creates within Sanja Tosic artwork for his album cover. Future incorporates his album title into his name because he is “DS2”. Future turns Tosic art into his face because of the cool color scheme she used that also represent many habits Future has. The blue smoke at the top of his face represents his strong narcotic background. Future is a heavy smoker and is constantly blowing clouds of smoke into the air. The liquid splashes at the bottom of his face portrays his codeine habit he will always make mention of in his music. Future mentions codeine in almost every song but in one song particular he states “I
Love is as important as living. Rachel’s code ethics are important. The things that are important are loving, Loving is very important. Loving is loving no matter what happened. Rachel loved everyone and with love comes forgiveness. Rachel, she died because she loved god and showed it.