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The Effect Of Conflicting Values In The Joy Luck Club

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One idea that is explored thoroughly in the novel the Joy Luck Club is the effect that conflicting values can have on an immigrant family, which is a part of a larger theme in the novel, which is immigration. Conflicting values happen when a first-generation immigrant parent’s upbringing in their native country and the values imparted thereof conflict with the upbringing of their children in the country that they immigrated to and the values that they learn from life in their new country.This can cause a disconnect between the child and their native culture and can lead to a disconnect between the child and their parents. Firstly, a child of an immigrant can experience a strong disconnect between them and their native culture. In Jing-Mei Woo’s account of going to China to meet her step-sisters after her mother died, she states, “I was a sophomore at Galileo High in San Francisco, and all my Caucasian friends agreed: I was about as Chinese as they were.” This shows the disconnect between Jing-Mei Woo and her Chinese heritage. A quote from an Argentinian-American teenager from The New York Times’ article Children of Immigrants states, “I would like to say I feel comfortable calling myself an Argentinian, but every year when I return there I am reminded that I have missed huge cultural changes since I was 9, and as perfect as my Spanish may be, there are always tiny indicators to them that I am not one of them.” This quote perfectly encapsulates that same kind of disconnect that Jing-Mei Woo feels, although at a lesser degree. I can relate to this as, being a Mexican-American, I often feel not as close to Mexican culture as I should be or not as good at speaking the language as I should be. Subsequently, a child of an immigrant may experience a disconnect between them and their parents because of their different values and upbringing. One instance where this is portrayed in The Joy Luck Club is in the first chapter, Jing-Mei Woo’s account of joining the Joy Luck Club where she states, “In me, they see their own daughters, just as ignorant, just as unmindful of all the truths and hopes they have brought to America. They see daughters who grow impatient when their mothers talk in Chinese, who think they are stupid

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