The Effects Of Parental Parenting On Children

In this day in age there are various approaches to raising children. Each parent(s) must decide for them selves which style best fits their beliefs and abilities. Many parents come to the conclusion that they will try their best and just hope that their children learn right from wrong and the abilities they need to succeed in life. However, what most parents do not always realize is that the style of parenting they are using may have a bigger impact on their child than they are aware of. For the sake of these parents and their sanity, as well as the children’s, I have classified these styles of parenting into categories.

In this article, Beth discusses about the long term effects of authoritarian parenting in four different sides. First, she mentioned children of authoritarian parents live in a ambience that is high control and lack of warmth. They get a high obedience, it is based on fear, not the esteem. Second, she founds that some research shows children are more likely to be aggressive toward their peers such as name-calling and bullying although other research shows these children tend to be well-behaved. Third, it is about their relationships and performance in school. These children are less socially competent, less helpful, less popular and less likely to be accepted by their classmates. Fourth, the writer mentioned the benefits of authoritarian parenting. There is a evidence that friends of adolescents

Research in parenting styles has found a large amount of correlation between parenting behavior and certain long-term outcomes for children. Specifically, parenting styles have been shown to correlate to a child’s obedience level, school competence, delinquency, violence, sexual activity, antisocial behavior, alcohol and substance abuse, depression, anxiety, and self-perception. The members of your family are the most prevalent relationships you will have in your life. Therefore, they will have the most influence in your future behavior. This paper examines the similarities and differences among authoritarian, authoritative, permissive, and neglecting parenting styles and the effects on a child’s development and the resulting adolescent’s behavior.

Throughout life, various peers considered Participant A as a gifted child and frequently labeled as insightful beyond their age, in addition to being selfless, talented and loving. The family took interest on occasion to outdoor outings, camping, and parks. This would provide the opportunity to play openly outdoors and considered a joy for Participant A. This was part of childhood. Nature once again brought good feelings, play, curiosity, and joy with interesting, unique, and attractive natural beings. However, although away from public scrutiny, Participant A endured the impact of parental dependence on drinking, in addition to physical, verbal, and psychological mistreatment and abuse. This brought on a sense of needing to shield oneself

In order for a child to follow the right path, the parents should have a great influence on their children and should consider using physical discipline when needed. The reason this is because of the fact that is is difficult for some kids in the ages from middle school and even high school to go through the right path. Many of them need physical discipline to be corrected; the parents should do what is possible at their power to educate their children, if they do not make a move and bring them back to the right path, someone else will. This can be better explained with the crow scenario. A crow lived with his mother, ever since the crow was young, he would steal. Everyday, the crow will bring something new home and his mother will celebrate him for being so great at stealing and never getting caught. The crow believed that was he was doing was correct and there was nothing wrong with it. One day the crow was caught stealing and was brought to

When it comes to being a parent there are many ways a parent can raise their child or children, for example there are four types of parenting styles which are authoritative, authoritarian, permissive, and uninvolved. The authoritative parent are characterized by having reasonable demands and high responsiveness. Authoritative parents are strict on their children, but they are very loving, warming, and supportive towards their children by listening to their child opinions, encouraging independence, expressing warmth and nurturance, and encouraging their child to discuss options. (Reference: Rathus S.A. (2014).Psych.GengaqeLearning) Authoritarian parents are like authoritative parents except they are extremely strict almost like military, and authoritarian parents are very unforgiven by have strict guidelines towards their children without any tolerance for disobeying.

Parenting styles have a huge impact on the developmental process of children. In this paper I will be explore the four different parenting styles that Baurmrind came up with. Behavioral and social scientists recognize a group of basic categories in parenting styles:

In the recent years, There has a significant work and studies in the field of parenting and raising children. Many social workers and researchers had been putting a lot of efforts and conducting plenty of studies to find the best methods for parents to raise happy successful kids. Today’s fast paced life and the long work hours had left parents with very little time for their children. However, studies have shown the many negative effects on the kids’ personality and how important it is for caregivers to be with their kids and nurture them. Alice Sterling Honig in her article Raising Happy Achieving Children in the New Millennium talked about how it is a crucial matter for parents to spend enough time with their children, especially in their early years. Communication between children and parents is also very important, although many parents don’t understand that. For instance, when a kid does something wrong parents should talk about why did he do it and why it is wrong, not just send him to his room or spank him. Teaching toddlers and preschoolers that are still discovering the world around them can very challenging, that’s why parents need to have a lot of patience while dealing with little kids, and help them learn right from wrong. Parenting is not about how to be perfect, there is no such thing as a perfect parent or the perfect kid, there will be mistakes from both sides. Therefore caregivers need to focus on how to teach morals and values to their kids, show them

There is no single or correct way to rear children. (Cox & Demmitt, 2014) Raising children in today’s society has become more difficult than the past 50 years, but there are techniques and classes to help parents become effective in raising their children in a positive way. I have raised two daughters, ages 29 and 19, and a ten year old son , that I find myself using techniques that are different, based on gender and age. Having a positive relationship with children is important and there are suggested principles to help become an effective parent.

Developmental psychologists have long researched and had an interest in how parenting affects child development. Diana Baumrind, a psychologist, identified the four most basic parenting styles in the year 1971-1991. Two of the practices on which the styles came into being were the parental effect and control. The parenting control is where the child is told to follow the rules and demands of the parent, also known as authoritarian parenting. In Asian countries and West Indies, authoritarian parenting was the most common style of parenting. The harsh corporal punishment and the significance of obeying to the demands of their parents have effects on the adolescence. In the story the “Girl” by Jamaica Kincaid there is a strong disciplinary language, supervision, and aggressiveness from a mother to the daughter: ‘On Sundays try to walk like a lady and not like the slut you are so bent on becoming’ (Kincaid) said the mother to her daughter. Such words, when used in adolescence, affect the adolescent 's self-esteem, mental health, and social behavior. What do experts say about how authoritarian parenting affects adolescents?

The Authoritarian parenting style is high on control with no acceptance or understanding, which can even be called oppressive at times. These parents are the highest authority in their homes and are extremely harsh and expect perfection at all times. Children who have been exposed to this parenting style are usually apprehensive and have little to no self-regard. Nevertheless children exposed to this kind of style typically are better athletes and artist because they can perform well in tedious nonstop practices because that is all they know and understand. They perform better under authority. Consequently, these children lack creativity and imagination. They can even be bullied in school due to their submissive and servitude traits. Unfortunately, this may lead to possible suicidal thoughts. Obedience does not automatically mean intimidation. The most successful and effective parenting style up to date is the Authoritative parenting style. This parenting style is the amalgamation of high acceptance and involvement with flexible behavioral control techniques. Authoritative parents are the most successful because they provide a stable environment that invites growth and change instead of stifling it, they also provide a strong resilient family and where their children may feel safe. These parents are the perfect balance between assertiveness and understanding. Children nurtured with this style

Thesis- It is my belief that in order to provide a framework of parenting that would allow for the best probable outcome for a child’s development it is important to take a stance in which we provide reasonable demands from our children while providing equal responsiveness to their needs.

Parent relationships play a huge role in a child 's development. A child learns what is appropriate, how to behave, and are shown what a healthy marriage looks like. If their parent 's relationship concludes in divorce, they will not see a truly successful relationship, causing the child to have some short and long term effects that can hinder them in their life. Homosexual marriage also has some lasting effects on a child because of the irregular parenting style in a society where heterosexual marriage is most common. Divorce and homosexual marriage can create potential adverse short and long term effects, demonstrating that heterosexual marriage is in the best interest of the children.

“Each day of our lives we make deposits in the memory banks of our children.” Charles R. Swindoll. Not knowing if those memories are positive or negative. Each day parents wake up with hope that they can provide for their children’s necessities. There are different kinds of parents some are good for their children but some are not. Most parents raise their kids the way their own parents raised them, whether it was good or bad. Some parents are too protective; they are hard to get along with. Laid-back parents make teenager’s lives simple and joyful because the parents are there to support their children when they need it, without questioning. Then there are the parents who do nothing in providing for their child, neglecting parents, which can result to teenagers getting into bad circumstances. Parents are supposed to support and nurture their children; but if they do not do it properly, there can be serious effects in their children’s future.

Safeness is one of the advantages of parenting style where parents create rules like a method of protecting their children, it’s similar to providing guidance as to which is the correct path to take. Better parenting allows the parent and the child to have better relationships with their children. Parents effectively deal with difficult kids, and another one is clear goals which child is aware of what was his/her goal in the future. It also creates responsible citizens that are highly responsible citizens when they grow up. One of the disadvantages of parenting style is rebellion where children don’t get the opportunity to learn right from their mistakes. It can also create communication problems where child is afraid that his feelings, thoughts or actions might be punished, he is not as likely to share these problems with his parents. This is a can cause problem because children need to talk with their parents when they encounter problems, they can solve it within their selves. Bullying is also one of the disadvantages when strict parent typically establishes limits without empathy, children raised in a strict home often become angry and