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The Engagement A Story Analysis

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An Interpretation of The Engagement Everyone wants to find love, but most would say they do not want anyone else’s involvement in doing so. Finding love is supposed to be a natural feeling when you meet the right person, however, that is not always how marriages have happened, especially not in the past. In Pearl Abraham’s “The Engagement: A story” we see Rachel’s resistance to an arranged marriage. However in the end she decides to marry Israel the man her parents arranged her to marry even though that is not what she wanted initially. Sometimes were are resistant to what others tell us to do because it is simply not our own idea. But, that does not mean it is a bad idea. Many times these suggestions are in the best interest of the …show more content…

Rachel’s father knew Israel’s father from way back. Rachel played with the idea of meeting her suitor and began to like it. “I don’t want to see eager, but I am.” (Abraham 39). Rachel wanted be loved just like any other girl. Rachel meets Israel and begins to entertain the idea of another meeting with him and his family. Her parents were ecstatic that Rachel made this decision. This was a sign that she like Israel. She begins to notice his features and likes him. Rachel decides she wants to marry Israel. “OK, yes,” I say thinking how easy it is to stay it” (Abraham 43). Rachel finds it so easy to say yes to Israel because he generally fit the idea of the man she was looking for. Rachel decides to marry Israel. She chooses to do so for many reasons. One of these was that Israel liked her for who she was. He did not want to change Rachel in any way. He also takes into consideration her feelings on decision that involved the both of them. For example Rachel asks Israel where he wanted to live. He replied “Wherever you decide”(Abraham 43). This makes Rachel highly pleased. Another reason Rachel decides she wants to marry Israel is because he comes from a well off family and has a good job. One of her biggest concerns was marrying someone like her father. “I don’t need a rabbi’s son. I want someone who will work and earn a living.” (Abraham 38). She saw Israel as just that someone who would follow through for her. He was not

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