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The Foster System

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A boy named James was put in the foster system at the age of one, and from there on he was in and out of neglectful, abusive homes for 18 years (Simon). One of his most traumatic memories is when he was living with a racist foster father, and he bought a colored boy back to the house to play. Once the boy left, the foster father took James outside, put a dog collar around his neck, and cuffed his hand to a confederate flag in front of the dog house (Simon). With 640,000 children placed in the foster system each year, James’ story is just one of thousands (Simon). Another story is about a girl named Melissa, and how she survived the system for 20 years. During her time in the system, Melissa bounced back and forth between new placements and …show more content…

A question asked by few, but the answer known by millions. The definition of the Foster System is “a temporary arrangement in which adult/s provide for the care of a child or children whose birth parents are unable to provide care for them” (Center). The adoption system is more or less the same, except adoption is a permanent placement of children with an adult/s that is not their birth parent/s (Center). Foster care can be informal or arranged through the courts or a social service agency. Usually, the overall goal is to get the children back to their birth parents, but that may change if there were another option that would be better for the child (Center). An example of the courts trying to get a child back to their parent would be with the story A Child Called It by Dave Pelzer. This story is an autobiography of Dave’s life dealing with an abusive mother for years, and it continues with a sequel that goes to show how the courts almost put Dave back into the care of his mother, but then he testified and went through living in the foster system until 18. Once the option of going back to the birth parent is out of the question, adoption is the next step. A story that shows this would be Tricia Spellmon’s story. She was put into the Foster System as soon as she was born, and was moved to different homes until the age of 2. After being at that home for two years the foster parents decided to adopt her, and at the age of 4 she became a part of a better family (Spellmon). This type of adoption is called a foster adoption, which means that a child is placed into a foster home with the expectation that the foster parents are going to adopt them (Center). The other type of adoption is when the foster parents will not adopt them, but since they are in the foster system the birth parents rights have been terminated, so children are legally free for adoption (Center). In the end, the adoption system is just a branch of the foster system, and

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