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The Importance Of Family Differences In The Family

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It is also important not only to work hard on your household harmony, but also to do the same with the ex-partners. Research has shown that one of the primary sources of children's problems after a divorce was the parents' inability to keep their negative feelings about their "ex" (or ex's new partner) to themselves. Children tend to take their emotional cues from their parents. So, negative comments about what is going on in the other household will only make it more difficult for your children. The most practical way you can handle inevitable household differences would be to choose what is important and compromise when it is necessary.
Sometimes the ex-partner is determined to keep fighting, so it would be good to remember that you can be the best parent by giving them the benefit of the doubt whenever possible. Keep your own home peaceful and structure as much as possible, no matter how difficult a battle your ex tries to create for you.
Ex-partners need to keep in touch with their children for the child's sake. Unfortunately, the biological parents too often fail to maintain communication with their children if they move on and establish another family. Janelle Johnson mentions, "Current spouses must make joint decisions in their home with their new blended family." This would also need to include the biological parent, as well, by making adjustments and compromises in order to maintain stability for the children. Janelle also mentioned how showing empathy,

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