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The Importance Of Family In Literature

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What they passed down. Family stands as a strong theme in literature. It can be explored as the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree to deep rooted family problems. It’s no wonder why family is so often the focus in literary pieces, family is a defining thing growing up. Family teaches you everything from tying your shoes to the meaning of love. Two literary pieces that explore family are “Fool for Love” by Sam Shepard and “The Woman Upstairs” by Claire Messud. The main character in “The Woman Upstairs” is named Nora. She was raised by her two parents and her mother stands a strong influence on her character. Growing up the author tells of how “my mother stayed at home and smoked cigarettes and hatched schemes” (pg. 20). It would appear from the first introduction of this character that the narrators seems to think of her mother as being unfulfilled. Her mother throughout the book tells Nora to not be dependent on a man, and to make her own money. This idea is first introduced when Nora’s mother said “You need to have your own life, earn your own money, so you’re not scrounging around like a beggar, trying to put ten dollars together for your kids’ Christmas presents. Leeching off your father’s – or your husband’s pathetic paycheck. Never. Never. Promise me” (pg. 54), this theme would continue throughout Nora’s life. Another memory that struck Nora was with her mother and a fortune cookie she remembered that “the fortune read ‘it is what you haven’t done that will torment you’ – which I knew only because I picked it up off the floor on the way out. When she read it she gave a little cry, as if wounded, and crumpled and chucked it and then became very silent, and for the last ten minutes of the meal I watched the tears trickle unacknowledged out of the corner of her eyes and down her cheeks” (pg. 56). Nora’s memories of her mother stand as moments of impact on her life. She did not want to become her mother and her mother did not want her to become her either. The author truly show’s this impact when Nora is discussing the first few years of her life after college. Nora is at a high paying job, and engaged to a sweet man named Ben. Her reflection states that “I had a love, and a love affair with a worldly

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