The Importance of Forgiveness Forgiveness is something that requires strength and courage, it is also something that many people need to work on. Without forgiveness your life could be filled with stress, hate, and sadness. In Jonathan Livingston Seagull we see the importance of forgiveness throughout not only Jonathan's eyes but the other gulls as well. Forgiveness is the decision to let go of resentment and thoughts of revenge. When you do not forgive a person for their actions and hold a grudge this can affect your heart, by having a large amount of stress from holding this grudge your blood pressure can rise and this can put a strain on your heart. Forgiving others is something that betters your life and should be a goal of most people, …show more content…
Magnificent as he was to teach this act of kindness to other birds; even if fictional, Jonathan is still someone to look up to. Jonathon’s flock made him an outcast, tried to kill him, and believed that his flying was foolish; yet Jonathon still forgave them and went back to them time and time again. Jonathan forgiving his flock is what led him to finding his own students and some dear friends. Jonathan also found young Fletcher when he went back to the flock and when meeting him he had helped Fletcher forgive his flock and it had helped the young gull to live a better life. Forgiveness works in these ways for people too; though many do not understand how forgiveness works. Martin Luther King Jr. once said, “We must develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love.” I feel as if Jonathan Livingston very closely relates to this quote in that he knew you had to forgive to be able to love and have a life worth …show more content…
I never realized how important it was to forgive others, forgiving people was something that I had never really done. My life had always been bitter and I could never figure out how to be happy about anything. It seemed that everything that could go wrong, did. Everything that happened I blamed on a close family member of mine. The previously mentioned family member had done something I had seen as unforgivable, a person that I held closer than anyone at one point was suddenly nothing to me after what happened. All I saw when I looked at her was a liar, thief, and horrible human being. Fact of the matter was, everything she did, she did it to ensure the both of us of a better life. I only figured this out after I forgot about my overly substantial ego and had the strength to forgive her. This woman did a truly horrible thing, but no matter what someone may do to you it will always hurt you more than it will hurt them if you do not forgive them for what they did. Forgiving a person isn’t always about letting them back into your life or giving them a clean slate of their actions; forgiveness however is giving you a clean slate, and helping you achieve overall
It may be easy to forgive a friend, or even a stranger depending on the situation, but what if the person that had to be forgiven was themselves?
Life, as we all know is saturated with misfortune. Most of us are able to go through these and learn from and exempt ourselves. Yet, this isn’t always the case. People are faced with bone riveting experiences that often take a long time to get over, if they ever do get over it. These episodes brew in our brain popping up at the most random points often bringing our tone down. Although these experiences may scare us and fill us with ruefulness and penitence, we can’t continue to live in the past and let these regrets habituate us. Self forgiveness is a remedy to healing and to moving on in life, no matter how hard it is.
Forgiving is vital and is shown frequently throughout the book in the characters relationships. One example where healing is shown is when Kumalo forgives his sister Gertrude. Forgiving is not easy in every situation but it leads to healing. “ His eyes fill with tears, his deep gentleness returns to him. He goes to her and lifts her from the floor of the chair. Inarticulately he strokes her face, his heart filled with pity. -God forgives us, he says. Who am I not to forgive? Let us pray.” (Paton 61). As Kumalo mentions, God always forgives us, every single day and as great as God is there is no reason to we should not forgive. Although it is difficult it will only heal relationships in our life rather than separate them.
You have to question whether you are forgiving the person because they are sorry and you are capable of moving forward or you are forgiving them because you are still left with some feeling of attachment and that’s what is holding you back. For example, in the memoir, Jennette continued to forgive her parents particularly because they were her parents and her blood. That got her nowhere. She was left in an endless circle of forgiving yet receiving the same mannerism back. However, once Jeannette decided enough was enough, she moved to New York City, away from her parents, began accomplishing her goals and overall Jeannette became so much more liberated. This example goes to show my point exactly. Forgiving and forgetting will leave you with too many toxic people in your life. You must know when to set an endpoint and cut people out of your life because it will benefit
Forgive today, live in peace tomorrow. Forgiveness; one of the many hardships we encounter throughout life. As Marianne Williamson, an American author, stated, “Forgiveness is not always easy. At times, it feels more painful than the wound we suffered, to forgive the one that inflicted it. And yet, there is no peace without forgiveness.” Forgiveness leads to peace because it lets go of all the negative feelings and allows freedom from disturbance to take place.
Forgiveness is very important throughout life. If people don't forgive, they are going to be stuck in the past always remembering about the mistake that person did. Forgiving someone can make yourself feel better because you know you forgave that person and there's no negativity between you and that person.
Forgiveness can be tough to tackle. Whether it be forgiving a friend, a family member, or something that happened in the past, it is extremely difficult to move on without forgiveness. The process of forgiveness can grow easier with age. Although for some, the process of forgiving never becomes easier. They live their whole lives feeling bad for themselves instead of forgiving the actions of the past and moving forward with their lives. The sooner one learns to forgive, the easier it will be to move on. In the novel The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini, Amir and Soraya both struggle with forgiving events from the past.
Propaganda is defined as information usually biased or misleading, and ideas, purposefully spread to help or mislead someone, or movement. Basically propaganda is anything meant to convince you to feel or act a certain way. In the year 1937, the Institute for Propaganda Analysis identified seven common propaganda techniques, namely Name calling, Glittering, Transfer, Bandwagon, Testimonial, Plain folks, and Card stacking [1]. In the novel 1984, the films Goodbye Lenin and Equilibrium uses a wide range of propaganda techniques. Bandwagon is a propaganda technique used by a propagandist to appeal his/her subjects to follow the crowed.
Forgiveness is a voluntary process and only time can heal all wounds. Scratch that- time won’t heal all wounds and forgiving someone is totally and completely up to you. When stating that forgiveness is “voluntary,” it simply means that one is forgiving someone at their own free will. The question is “why? why must we forgive someone after doing something so awful?” The answer might be complex. In the book “Picking Cotton” by Jennifer Thompson-Cannino, Ronald Cotton and Erin Torneo, and in the book “Beauty for Ashes” written by Joyce Meyer, forgiveness is portrayed as a big role. Each person goes through their own struggles and eventually has to forgive someone or be forgiven by someone.
Life has ups and downs, it may stab you in the back, but it’s a choice to forgive and forget about it. Forgiveness is something that helps people move on. For every person, the word forgiveness has a different meaning, for me it means leaving behind actions from my past. Personally, I like to think that forgiveness is a way to start over whether in a friendship or in life. If the opportunity presented itself to me to explain the word, forgiveness, to someone I would simply reply that it is the idea of setting yourself free from all the hate one has been holding.
2. According to the article, forgiveness is granting unconditionally grace to those who have cause suffering and pain and accepting what they did and not letting that affect the love they show to that person. Forgiveness is central for racial reconciliation because forgiveness is the first step of mending the relationship with others. It also allows God to do a work between the two groups. When there is forgiveness God can change hearts and create amazing things to happen out of tragedies.
“Manhood coerced into sensitivity is no manhood at all.” - Camille Paglia. Manhood is the epic fury brought up inside every true man, a fury that drives all decisions and diminishes all odds. It is the drive and fuel to every gruesome operation that can only be destroyed by killing the captive of the soul. Macbeth, Banquo, and Macduff, though different in many obvious ways, share one major thing, and that is their manhood. Without their manhood they are nothing but a mere weakling, with their manhood, they are their true persons. The effects of Manhood in the play Macbeth are most apparently noticed in acts I through IV, through the characters of Lady Macbeth, Macduff, Banquo, Lady Macduff, Duncan and Macbeth himself.
We forgive for our own good, not for the people who have hurt us. We should never be held prisoner by the people who hurt us. That is what happens when we choose to not forgive and choose to hold grudges. Being unforgivable soon turns into bitterness. That bitterness will eat at your heart and soul. Being able to forgive does not by any means imply that we are weak. It is actually showing ourselves and others how strong we are. Do not wait to forgive those who have hurt you. If you wait to forgive until you feel the time is right, it will never happen. Simply because there is no “right time.” Remember, forgiving is not easy and never will it be. Yes, it is easy to say “I forgive you.” The hard part of it all is to genuinely mean it. If you become so wrapped up in holding a grudge, all you see it hurt and anger. You are missing what is important. Such as the present and all the joyful happiness that comes along life. The Holocaust was one of the worst things that has ever happened over time. Yet, some people have managed to forgive the horrible crimes that they endured. In The Fault in Our Stars, Hazel at first had a hard time forgiving Peter Van Hoten for being so rude to her and Augustus. He was her favorite author and he completely let her down by being so rude to her. She was very angry but didn’t hold a grudge against him for
Forgiveness is not just practiced by saints and not only benefits its recipients but have strong connection with person’s physical, mental and spiritual health. It plays a great role in the health of families, communities and nations. Forgiveness provides common ground for love, acceptance, harmony and true happiness Most spiritual and religious leaders of the world will agree that forgiveness of oneself and others is one way to clear the mind, heart and soul and may result in a feeling of increased peace and happiness.
The Bible and the Quran, while rooted in many of the same stories, have vast differences that reflect the respective audiences of each religious text. The Bible, which is tailored to Judaism, includes many lessons and covenants involving land and the promise of prosperity; Jews had been uprooted from their ancestral home and needed the reassurance that there were better days to come, the Bible offered this solace. On the other hand, Muhammed is concerned with convincing polytheists that there is one true god, Allah; the Quran reflects this effort. The Biblical and Quranic accounts of the Joseph story have a few major differences in plot and character behavior; these differences reveal the finer variations between the Muslim interpretation of Allah and the Jewish interpretation of God.