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The Importance Of Personal Identity

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When I sit and think about who I am as an individual, what instantly comes to mind is a brother, a son, and an African American male. Within all of these roles there are many responsibilities as well as different aspects of those roles. It is difficult to maintain these identities and maintain your individuality. The difficulties lie in the ideals of adaptations and or evolution. Evolution not in the biological sense however in the psychological sense. I say this because we evolve or change our identity to fit within the norms brought up by society. In order to truly integrate ourselves. This is done so that we don’t feel as outcasts.
An individual’s identity takes years to fully emerge, I see myself as a son first and foremost, which …show more content…

That occurrence made me question who I was and if I was truly being a good son. However, I eventually learned that it isn’t because my parents didn’t necessarily love us, it was just a different culture.
Another role I was born into is that of a brother; I have five sisters three older two younger. All either look out for me and my interest or look up to me. Being a brother, comes with a different set of responsibilities. The first thing that comes to mind is that of a protector, being the first wall to ensure nothing bad coming close to your family. The identity was thrusted onto me as well however just as I grew into the identity of a son and all it entails. I have grown into the identity of a brother. I am viewed through the eyes of my siblings as a shield, a spear, and at times as a shoulder to cry on. This identity resonates more to me then others primarily because it deals with how I am viewed by my family. Just as any of my other identities it took several years to fully grasp my role and all that it entailed. Being the only brother to several sisters can be overwhelming. Mainly because of the many differences between all five sisters. Learning what to say and how to say it for each sibling took time and a unique experience.
There is a commonality amongst all of the identities that resonate the most within me. That being, the lack of control that I had over the

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