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The Issue Of A Domestic Violence Advocate

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The irony in reading this chapter in the second paragraph I see a direct reflection of who I have become today as a Domestic Violence advocate. I have been pretty good at maintaining my self-care plan outside of the work and in relation to supervision but have been struggling with feeling stressed at work. Sitting down with my therapist, she pointed out the very thing that is mentioned in the paragraph, my lunch break and the lack of it. I discussed that inner conflict, people need me and justifying to myself that my lunch break was more important than advocating for my clients. Further, I struggled with this justification because I have been maintaining my self-care plan and the idea of expanding it. But yet I found myself still stressed and here this chapter was discussing the very issue I am currently am working through. True in the statement made that constant work is detrimental to your judgement and thus a disservice to your client. Perspective on issues is necessary to make sound decisions. Here I struggled with the rationalization but had not seen from the angle that by not taking a lunch break I would not have the energy and in turn provide a disservice. Further, risking a lack of presence that influences not only the service but the empathetic engagement with clients. A realization that value in ourselves trades for the value we provide those individuals we serve. The chapter also discusses vicarious trauma in interesting manner and includes cultural

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