The Journey Of A Person 's Coming Of Age

It is only natural for teenagers to struggle with their sense of identity. One of the biggest challenges one faces during their “coming of age” is trying to discover various parts of themselves. I will be exploring the idea of how family and friends can socially influence an individual’s identity and affect the process of finding one’s true sense of belonging. I will be exploring this idea through the four texts; The Fault in Our Stars by John Green, Divergent by Veronica Roth, The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky and The Catcher in The Rye by J.D. Salinger.

     Childhood is a time where children learn about the world around themselves. They see and experience many factors that influence their everyday lives, which help them grow stronger when they become adults. In 'Girl'; by Jamaica Kincaid and 'The Lesson'; by Toni Cade Bambara the characters within the stories learn valuable lesson with help them grow to become better individuals. In 'The Lesson'; the character of Sugar undergoes a realization that society does not treat everyone equally, that not every individual has the same opportunity and equality that they should have. In 'Girl'; the main character learns that she must be perceived as a woman and not as a slut, her mother brings to her

In the novel “A Long Way Gone”, there are endless amounts of evidence to be found explaining why this novel is a “coming of age” novel. So, what exactly is “coming of age”? Typically, this is a story that is made up of three different factors: young characters who experience a crisis, absent or negative adult relations, and the incorporation of an epiphany moment. The story of Ishmael Beah could not be an any greater representation of this category of story, because at 12 years old there is no peace that could be described in his childhood simply because peace was absent.

Family dynamics and relationships in our younger years help shape our view of the world and how we fit into it. Whether you agree with Sigmund Freud, Alfred Adler, or Erik Erickson,

14 kids have sealed themselves in a superstore as a freak hailstorm and serious chemical weapons spill threaten to bring the world to its knees. Once brothers Alex and Dean establish a sense of security, they find that their only chance of rescue is to drive 67 miles across the now deadly state of Colorado to the nearest airport for evacuation. Dean and the others with type O bloods decide to stay behind because the poisoned air outside would turn them into savage rage-fueled monsters.

Research has shown that from a family of four or more children are more likely to become juvenile delinquents than those who come from a three or less children homes.

Everyone has their coming of age moment, whether it's when they're little, or even when they're in their teenage years. It's a time of feeling the moment of maturity, finally recognizing the world around you, and knowing how common sense works. Some moments are serious, others are very optimistic and blissful. I interviewed my mom, and there were times where she had times in her life that were absolutely hilarious, and times in her life that were so embarrassing.

Death of a Salesman is usually saw as a play about a troubled father called Willy Loman who struggles to be a good father and a great businessman. Even though this play is thought to be the tragedy of Willy Loman, but some may say this play is truly a coming of age story for Biff Loman and not Willys story. Carl Jung's review of coming of age includes some key aspects of the development of personality: it's brought by necessity, creates feeling of isolation, and involves conscious moral deliberation and fidelity(loyalty) to the law of one ’s being. Biff coming of age story makes him face all of this realitys in order to find out who he really is.

My coming of age moment happened at a very young age. I was only five years old when I had my first true moment. Before I was five years old, as far as I can remember, I was a really happy and innocent child. I didn’t really have any cares, as a young child shouldn’t. I was a seemingly normal child with a white picket fence kind of life. Then a couple weeks after I turned five, my mom passed away. It was from that moment that I knew what the world was really like and I knew that my life was never going to be the same. I began to take on guilt and responsibilities that a kid never should’ve had to. I began to become very precautious of everything and I wasn’t able to do the things that a normal child could do out of fear that something may happen

Coming of age is a recurring theme that is universally known throughout many different pieces of literature. Whether it’s influenced on true experiences, childhood memories, or even based on one’s current juvenile reality, many of theses works have a correlation between them that include many similar ordeals and struggles that the character goes through in order to metamorphosize into taking their first step out of childhood. One prominent theme that often appears is how one goes through and experiences what life is really like-- in other words, being exposed to a time of tribulation and other walls that stand in one’s path. Additionally, another theme that is how they lose

I think one of the themes is coming of age because it is shown many times throughout the book. Coming of age is shown when Harry has to deal with things that not even adults can deal with and he has to face big tasks. In the book he has to take charge on a lot of things, he starts teaching people how to protect themselves against spells. He is always helping everybody and figuring out the solutions to problems. This effects the book because everybody thinks he's a really good wizard, and he becomes the hero and the center of attention. He becomes trustworthy and gets to know about all the secret stuff that's going on.

Coming of age really pursaues Taylor, she was given a new responsibility of taking care of Turtle. She knew what she wanted to do in life and chased it. Even though she was given many obstacles, she handled them maturily and became a great mother along the way. In my eyes, taking on a child in a unsuspected way takes courage and only a grown person handles so well. Lou Anne is Taylor's best friend and roomate. When we first met Lou Anne during this journey she wasn't so sure of herself or what she was worth. Lou Anne allowed people to walk over her and wouldn't speak up for herself. As she beame friends with Taylor and let go of her husband, Angel, she started to do things for herself. She learned she could have her own opinion and had a purpose.

Everyone has a coming of age experience in their lives at some point of time or another. A huge coming of age experience is starting to work, take responsibility for your actions and your life, as well as making your own money. I sat down and interviewed Starla on her training courses for her job and on her experiences. I asked her if she went to college or experienced any types of training for a job and If so what was it for, she calmly responded by saying ¨ Yes I went through 9-12 months of training and I trained for medical assistance.¨

(1) Providing stability, unity, and control, families are essentially the foundation of a person. However, it is clear that family factors predict offending. Some strong predictors are criminal or antisocial parents. Other predictors are large family sizes, poor parental supervision, parental conflict, and disrupted families. Children who are rejected by families, who also grow up in unstable homes with large amounts of conflict, or who are unsupervised most of the time, are at greater risk of becoming delinquent. (Doggett 1)

First, being raised in a large family makes a child learn the rules of living in community. In fact, having numerous siblings forces children to develop organizational skills, because cohabiting with a large number of people demands management basics. Coordinating the meals, activities and transport trains kids to be organized and cooperative, qualities that will be useful further on in their lives when they will be part of a group. In addition, children raised in large families are generally more disciplined than the ones raised in normal-sized families. In the same way as a team, every member of a big family needs to collaborate and maintain his role for the group to be functional.